That situation laughter turns into tears ?
It usually involves recalling a funny memory from years ago. Nostalgia has been known to make me laugh till I cry.
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Is it possible to cross a bear with a cow? ???
It may be possible with the help of science, but why would it be attempted?
What if something scary happened in real life?
A lot of scary things happen in real life.
A lot.
A lot.
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Why is there a life jacket under the seat on an airplane, but not a parachute?
Because a passenger plane, which holds dozens if not hundreds of passengers, is not designed to safely jump out of. Do some research and you will learn that if a passenger plane door or window is opened, the pressure is going to cause you to lose consciousness, and there's a good chance you're going to get sucked out. If you're unconscious, you're dead regardless of a parachute! Now imagine that there are 60-200 people to consider, the vast majority of which don't know how to put on or operate a parachute. If the plane is going down, which normally happens quickly, you're not going to have time to get one person out safely, much less dozens of uneducated people. A life jacket doesn't require knowledge, which is why even babies have them! So if the plane manages to land on water, with survivors, those people can float until help arrives (see: Hudson River plane rescue).
What was the first novel on which you spent your money on??
And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie
Did you swim today?
I realize this is odd since I'm from the gulf coast, but I don't swim.
How do you get rid of stress and negative energy?
Oh, how I would love to know. You got any suggestions? Because lemme tell ya, my sanity is hanging by a thread, my friend. A thread!
if you could ask your soulmate anything, you would ask...
I don't believe in soulmates. I believe people make conscious decisions to do life together, and some of those people are both mature and fortunate enough to excel at it. I also believe some people are, by nature, not mate material and should remain single. Assuming everyone has a destined partner out there is faulty idealism.
Bikini or a one-piece swimsuit?
I haven't owned a swimsuit since I was 16, but it was the most modest possible one-piece. I usually wore a shirt over it, too.
Who do u tell a lot to?
I tell some things to my little brother, and other things to my friends. Mostly, I just tell things to my blog. I don't have a confidant these days.
If you could take some special skill from any animal, which animal and which skill would you choose?
That's an easy answer. I would fly. I don't have a preference on the animal. Does it have the ability to fly all over the world? Great. I choose that.
What games do you have installed on your phone?
I have one game installed. It's called That's You and it connects to a Playstation. It's an interactive co-op game of 3 to 6 players that's pretty funny if you have goofy relatives like I do. I only play it at my brother's house, because he has the equipment to support it. I always end up laughing till I hurt.
Who will be the next person you will kiss?
I assume one of my nieces, which will probably be around the holidays.
What are your memories from this winter? Tell me, please :з
My winter was difficult. A couple of loved ones died, I lost my vehicle, I had debilitating muscle weakness and myotonia triggered by colder temperatures. I did a lot of reading. My nieces had their birthdays (which I wasn't present for due to illness). Winter is rarely an easy time, but this last one was especially challenging.
What do you consider to be a healthy relationship?
This is an excellent question. It has been on my mind a lot lately, because I've never had a healthy relationship. That doesn't mean I'm clueless, but definitely inexperienced. At any rate, I do a lot of reading, listening to others, observing others, and critical thinking about these things, and it appears that the number one priority is mutual respect. To be much more specific, here is what I believe in my heart a healthy relationship would entail:
- Friendship first. If you're not willing to be a genuine friend to each other, with no ulterior motives, you really have no business being lovers or life partners.
- Open and empathic communication is vital. Don't make assumptions. Give and receive honesty calmly. Listen with the intention of caring, not correcting. Be available within reason, be rational, and be considerate.
- There must be CLEAR and ABSOLUTE acknowledgement of consent in all things. We are people, not property. Period.
- Boundaries are allowed, encouraged, and enforced without negative consequences.
- No scapegoating, superiority complexes, or accusations based on assumptions.
- Remember that doing something for someone or offering provision does not give you any right to control them.
- Bad days are inevitable, but try not to go to bed angry. At the very least, attempt to resolve any misunderstandings. If the end result is still anger, strive to get adequate sleep and start over tomorrow.
- It doesn't matter who makes more money or who is more successful. It's a partnership, not a competition.
- Nobody likes being micromanaged. Nobody.
- Decisions that affect both parties should be addressed and executed as a team.
- Everyone should be free to feel the full range of emotion without judgment, but it's important to remain self-aware and keep your actions in check. Ex. - It's ok to feel angry. It's not ok to scream and throw things because you're angry.
- Take responsibility for your words and actions. If you said it or did it, you own it. Lying, blaming, sabotaging, and manipulating is for sociopaths.
- No one is right and good all the time, including you. Accept it. Learn something from it.
- As a general rule, it's best to think before you speak.
- If both are humble and willing, almost anything can be talked out.
A healthy couple can be equal companions without losing themselves in the process. It's not 50/50 and you're not a half. You are two already-complete people who are making a conscious decision to share two already-complete lives with each other.
In summary: respect, respect, and more respect. It's the golden ticket. Thank you for asking this question.
- Friendship first. If you're not willing to be a genuine friend to each other, with no ulterior motives, you really have no business being lovers or life partners.
- Open and empathic communication is vital. Don't make assumptions. Give and receive honesty calmly. Listen with the intention of caring, not correcting. Be available within reason, be rational, and be considerate.
- There must be CLEAR and ABSOLUTE acknowledgement of consent in all things. We are people, not property. Period.
- Boundaries are allowed, encouraged, and enforced without negative consequences.
- No scapegoating, superiority complexes, or accusations based on assumptions.
- Remember that doing something for someone or offering provision does not give you any right to control them.
- Bad days are inevitable, but try not to go to bed angry. At the very least, attempt to resolve any misunderstandings. If the end result is still anger, strive to get adequate sleep and start over tomorrow.
- It doesn't matter who makes more money or who is more successful. It's a partnership, not a competition.
- Nobody likes being micromanaged. Nobody.
- Decisions that affect both parties should be addressed and executed as a team.
- Everyone should be free to feel the full range of emotion without judgment, but it's important to remain self-aware and keep your actions in check. Ex. - It's ok to feel angry. It's not ok to scream and throw things because you're angry.
- Take responsibility for your words and actions. If you said it or did it, you own it. Lying, blaming, sabotaging, and manipulating is for sociopaths.
- No one is right and good all the time, including you. Accept it. Learn something from it.
- As a general rule, it's best to think before you speak.
- If both are humble and willing, almost anything can be talked out.
A healthy couple can be equal companions without losing themselves in the process. It's not 50/50 and you're not a half. You are two already-complete people who are making a conscious decision to share two already-complete lives with each other.
In summary: respect, respect, and more respect. It's the golden ticket. Thank you for asking this question.
Do you have a favorite memory? What is it?
I'm not sure I have one favorite memory. I do have several good memories that come to mind:
- traveling to Jackson, Mississippi and winning a silver medal in the U.S. Skills Olympics (formerly VICA) when I was 16
- the beaming, nearly-explosive feeling in my soul after the judge granted my divorce and wished me well
- running off to Florida and living there for six weeks to study painting
- standing atop one of the tallest and oldest lighthouses in the country in spite of my condition (I did have an episode after the fact, but I don't regret the climb. That said, however, I'll never do it again.)
- becoming an Aunt and meeting my nephew and each of my nieces after they were born
- traveling to Jackson, Mississippi and winning a silver medal in the U.S. Skills Olympics (formerly VICA) when I was 16
- the beaming, nearly-explosive feeling in my soul after the judge granted my divorce and wished me well
- running off to Florida and living there for six weeks to study painting
- standing atop one of the tallest and oldest lighthouses in the country in spite of my condition (I did have an episode after the fact, but I don't regret the climb. That said, however, I'll never do it again.)
- becoming an Aunt and meeting my nephew and each of my nieces after they were born
What's the best part about your place?
My apartment? I have an entire room that I use for storage. I'm currently "overhoused", though, so I will eventually be forced to move to a one bedroom apartment. I'm purging a lot of my belongings in anticipation of this happening. I'm certainly grateful for the space while I have it!
Which country do you want to visit?
Ehhhh...any of them? I just wish I could travel, period. I suppose Italy, Ireland, and the UK are my top 3. I certainly wouldn't mind visiting any other country, though, especially if I can see their architecture and tourist attractions.
Would you rather be 3 inches taller or 3 inches shorter?
3 inches taller would make me 5'8", so that would be my choice.
What concert do you want to go to? ?✌
The top two concerts I'd like to attend are Elton John and The Eagles, although I would prefer that Glenn Frye still be with us. Sadly not possible. I'm sure showing my age with this one, aren't I?
The vegetable you hate the most is? 🌿
Beets!
Do you ever wonder what people really want from you?
I've had moments like that, sure. I think everyone has. Humans are complicated and fail to communicate effectively at times. I don't do a lot of interacting these days due to my disability limiting my social life, so it's not a feeling I have very often.
What is the softest thing in the world?
I used a blanket at my brother's house recently that was probably the softest thing I've ever felt. I don't know what it was made out of, but I wrapped myself up like a cozy burrito.
What was the last drink you had?
A protein drink mixed with chocolate milk.
Would you rather go to a music festival, have fun and sleep in a tent, or stay home, watch TV series and have some tasty snacks?
I can say for sure that I do not want to sleep in a tent. I've done so before and it was beyond miserable. The music festival depends on the kind of music and the conditions of the festival (outdoors? 100 degrees outside? raining? cold? all of that matters to me). The safest choice is to stay home and marathon something on Netflix. Besides, who can resist tasty snacks?
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