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كيف ممكن تتحول الصداقة والحب الى كره لمجرد انك رفضت الوصل ؟!

I had to send this through an online translator, and I am unsure that I'm understanding it right, but I'll try. You say you wanted love and friendship with someone but now you hate them because they refused to connect with you. OR, you are saying someone did that to you. I'm not sure which.
Friendship is a unique kind of love that doesn't require physical attraction or affection. There is a connection, yes, but the level of connection is variable. Friends can be friends with or without being intimately connected. Neither is right, and neither is wrong.
But here's the thing. Nobody owes you shit. People need to realize that attraction is a physiological response and not a choice. If they don't feel attracted to you, or you don't feel attracted to them, sorry but MOVE ON. Hating someone for not "connecting" is childish, and the hater is in no way equipped for a real relationship. If someone did that to you, let them go. If you did that to someone, back off and focus your energy on something else. Whatever the case, that person has a lot of growing up to do.
Sometimes, we make love and friendship a lot harder than it should be. Mature and honest communication is the key. There is no room for childishness and pride in such things.

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What does the World know about the country you live in?

Our capitalist medical care system causes people to suffer and die.

Do you prefer vintage or new?

I guess it depends on what it is, but the chances are high that I don't care either way.

a quote that you associate with yourself?

This is the type of question that I think would change regularly, but this quote is how I'm feeling lately.
a quote that you associate with yourself

Dulce favorito?

it is impossible for me to pick a favorite. :-) I like chocolate, chewy fruity stuff like Skittles, peppermints, lemon drops, all things cinnamon, and most hard candies which my teeth greatly oppose. I also like cookies and cold pies but try to save that indulgence for holidays. I'm not really supposed to eat much sugar.

What was The last thing that you were trying hard to get but lost interest after getting it?

You nearly stumped me with this one, but I can say a subscription to The School of Life. I was very interested in all of the lectures, courses, and books, but once I dove in, I became uninterested in the content, and in a couple of cases, appalled.

What celeb would you like to turn into for one day? 💫

None. I'd be happy to meet them, but I don't want to be them.

What are you ready to do for love?

I'm pursuing various therapies, but I'm not looking for love. I'm only trying to be the best possible version of myself, and that starts with staying alive, maintaining as much independence as possible, and seeking whatever form of wellness I am capable of achieving in my condition. If the right person happens to reach out and wants to discuss getting to know each other better, I will cross that bridge when I come to it.

Do you remember life without technology? What was it like?

Back in my day, we had to write out math problems on paper, study dictionaries and encyclopedias, hand-develop photographs using dangerous chemicals, put coins in grounded, landline telephones on the street, and look up library books by alpha-numeric index cards. You know, the olden days of the 80s. :-P

What's the best way to calm you down?

I'm not a high-energy person, but I have generalized anxiety and sometimes my mind spirals into dooming places. Give me breathing space and allow me to vent without judgment, be emotionally supportive, and offer a positive distraction. Help me rationalize the situation if I am able to talk it out. I may need to walk away or be alone to get some air and process my thoughts before attempting to resolve the issue. If you know sleep deprivation or my other conditions are a contributing factor (this is almost always the case), do what you can to assist me in achieving as much undisturbed rest as possible (but do not, I repeat, do not ever demand I go to bed or otherwise talk down to me). I'm nowhere near a scary or dangerous person, but internally, I can be a bit of a mess and there are times when I become overwhelmed. Empathy is everything.

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What to do, when it's boring?

Read a book.
Watch a movie.
Play a game.
Clean your space.
Create a list of goals.
Make something.
Dance to music.
Take a walk.
Nap.

What are you known for in your family/friends? ?

I asked Facebook again. Here are the answers:
- Bob Ross painting
- Cooking
- Compassion and heart for others
- Heart and fight with and education to others about HKPP
- Epic bloggerism
- Sweets!!! (Side Note: I think they mean chocolate, LOL)
- Painting and great cooking
- Painting, good cook, Alabama football fan, supporter of great causes and charities, and a great sister (well thanks bro, I had no idea you cared that much)
Ok I know I've deleted this and added to it a lot, so I'll stop doing that now. I received more answers than I was expecting, especially from family. Thanks for the question, Asker.

What exactly do you want these days?

Could you be more specific? I'm only trying to make it through each day like everybody else. What is the real question?

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