One of the most empowering moments of my life was declaring “I am not required to know these people” and burning bridges. You may hear the advice “Don’t burn any bridges because you might need them later” and I am here to say that advice sucks. Do whatever you can to never need toxic people. They will try to make you zone in on them as if they are the only people on Earth. Stand up for yourself, set boundaries, and be prepared to burn the bridges of those who disrespect you. I wish I had done it so much sooner.
You get invited to be a part of Fear Factor, how do you respond? How well do you think you'd do in a show like that? ⚠️🕷🐍🌊
If I weren’t disabled, I would do pretty well. I’m not afraid of snakes or heights or most of the things they’ve shown. The exception is cockroaches, which I would never mention in my audition, so they would hopefully not subject me to them. The key is to tell them you’re afraid of something you’re not really afraid of. 😉 I would never do that, of course. 😇
People you followed who is your favorite tops followers?
I want to stop cursing, but it seems to come out before I can filter it. Maybe cognitive therapy will eventually help. I never cursed a day until I started a certain medication in 2012, but I’ll be on it the rest of my life.
- Goodie-two-shoesYeah, I can be a little perfectionist at times, but mostly toward myself, not others. 🤔- PrudeYes sort of, although people would be surprised what I’m willing to do for someone I love. The thing is, I don’t know anyone at the moment who deserves that much of my limited energy. 😉- SnobNo, not true in the least. I’m allowed to have standards in spite of my disability. The people who’ve said this are ableist. They think I should throw myself at anybody who’s interested, because I’m sick and should be grateful for the attention. Disgusting. 🤬- Ice QueenLOL, they were just mad that they didn’t get their way with me. Creepy Cowboy Maloney’s. 🤮- AbnormalThey’re not wrong. ✌🏼
What's the last thing that made you feel truly nostalgic? 🤔 How was it to revisit that thing? 😁
I drove around my hometown recently for no particular reason. It brought back a few memories, but I mostly hit a bunch of Pokestops and then came home. 😄
Do you believe in the phrase “Fake it until you make it”?
Some people do build online businesses and do well, but it’s not yet the norm, and you have to ignore all of the ads that sound too good to be true. Do your own thing from the ground up if you can.
Anyone get a new update with Ask.fm? If so, what do you think of it?
I did and whoa! Wow. Impressed! Way to go Ask.Fm! 👏👏👏 Looks neat! Looks like they are kinda are going with what I reeally wanted. More notice & updates to the profiles! Looks like they made them real nice & flashy! Love it!
Why is everyone around me depressed? how can I make them happy?
You are not the cure for depression, nor the manager of people’s emotions. Furthermore, depression and sadness are not the same thing. You should probably start there.Offer a listening ear to your friends. Otherwise, let them be. It is not your business to make them be anything. People are going to process their lives in a way that you may not always be comfortable with. That’s the nature of the human condition. If you feel anyone is in danger, express your concern to them and offer to listen without judgment. Otherwise, leave them alone to work out their own conditions. Thanks for wanting to help, but it’s really not your place unless they ask you for it.