Real tattoo or henna tattoo?
For me, only henna. I appreciate tattoos on others, but it's not for me.
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Am I the only one who has 2 crushes at the same time?
Haha no. It's normal. Feelings are allowed, no matter how messy, as long as you're not hurting someone else.
What is your type of person you prefer to be your future spouse 🚶
I am not looking for a spouse. Friends or close companions, maybe, but I am happily divorced and probably will be forever.
People you may like
Who is the most closest friend that knows everything about u?
No one knows absolutely everything, but a lot of people know many things about me.
"Who is your favorite actor?? "
I don't have a favorite actor. Sorry I'm so boring.
Your cute and What's your favourite social media ?
Thanks. Instagram is probably my favorite, as it is more visual and a lot less dramatic than other sites.
A portal to another world opens in front of you. You don’t know how long it will stay open or if you’ll be able to get back after you go through. What do you do?And which world would you choose ? A reminder , you might not be able to get back again !
If I don't know what's on the other side, I'm not going.
According to you, why do people love? Or fall in love?
Human instinct, I guess. It's not meant for everyone, but most people are wired to love and be loved to an intimate extent. I think if this wasn't the case, the world would be more divided and less populated. Words, feelings, commitment, consent...all of it matters and are facets of this complex thing we call love. Without "falling" to the need to embrace and participate in these things, there is no love.
Have you ever had a weird dream that you could never forget and it still haunts you when you remember it?
Yes.
What have you been thinking about lately? ☘️
I like the emoji you chose there. I'm 17% Celtic. :-)
I've been thinking about my pain and if there is any hope for relief. I've been thinking about where to draw the line with friends and family who've changed for the worse over the last few years. Human toxicity is a complicated thing, and boundaries are important. All I can say about myself is that my goal is to be mindful and respond appropriately in all situations, but I haven't fully achieved that yet. I'm trying.
I've been thinking about my pain and if there is any hope for relief. I've been thinking about where to draw the line with friends and family who've changed for the worse over the last few years. Human toxicity is a complicated thing, and boundaries are important. All I can say about myself is that my goal is to be mindful and respond appropriately in all situations, but I haven't fully achieved that yet. I'm trying.
what keeps you up when you're upset?
Up as in awake, or up as in uplifted?
how many time have you loved?
That depends on what you mean.
If you mean how many boyfriends have I had, the answer is three.
If you mean how many times have I had feelings for someone, the answer is many.
If you mean how many times have I engaged in sexual activity, the answer is none of your business because it's an inappropriate question.
If you mean how many boyfriends have I had, the answer is three.
If you mean how many times have I had feelings for someone, the answer is many.
If you mean how many times have I engaged in sexual activity, the answer is none of your business because it's an inappropriate question.
That awkward moment when?
People think you're angry but it's just your face.
Where have you traveled that you think everyone should see?
1. New Orleans
2. St. Augustine
3. The Ozarks
2. St. Augustine
3. The Ozarks
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What does friendship mean to you? What should your friend be like? Do you have a lot of friends? What could be your reasons for discontinuing friendship with a person?
Hello, welcome back.
I see you edited your original post. I answered the first three questions here: https://ask.fm/ugottafriend/answers/152145949551
What could be my reasons for discontinuing friendship? Sigh...this is a long answer, and I'm probably not going to elaborate much, but I will say things have been very tough over the last several years with friends. Last week, I blocked one of my closest friends of 25 years. I tolerated a great deal of his hatefulness due to our long history, but it has escalated into unsafe and unacceptable levels, and I finally had to cut ties for my own sanity. I didn't say anything to him, I simply removed our social media connections. He may very well call or email soon, and I'll deal with it at that time. I hope he will eventually get help for his extremist views and frequent appalling outbursts against women.
A few other reasons I've ended friendships:
They became controlling, handsy, and/or aggressive.
They stole from me or my friends (yes, I mean literal theft).
They started gaslighting me and being manipulative or cruel.
They mocked rape victims and the "me too" movement.
They were ableist, racist, sexist, or otherwise prejudiced to an inexcusable degree.
I frown heavily upon toxicity in general, but I have been accepting over the years. I don't think highly of myself most days, but one thing I can say is that there are times when my empathy has been exploited, and I've been too loyal. It's nobody else's fault that I'm a highly sensitive person, but it is their fault for hurting me. I will no longer be victim-blamed, or be a victim at all if I can prevent it. In my late 30s and now in my 40s, I've slowly learned to stand up for myself and others and not be so tolerant of people who subtract from my well-being and the overall good of humanity. It's very hard, but it's the right thing to do.
If you want a better answer than that, you're going to have to stop being anonymous so we can have a real conversation, but I appreciate your questions either way. Have a nice day.
I see you edited your original post. I answered the first three questions here: https://ask.fm/ugottafriend/answers/152145949551
What could be my reasons for discontinuing friendship? Sigh...this is a long answer, and I'm probably not going to elaborate much, but I will say things have been very tough over the last several years with friends. Last week, I blocked one of my closest friends of 25 years. I tolerated a great deal of his hatefulness due to our long history, but it has escalated into unsafe and unacceptable levels, and I finally had to cut ties for my own sanity. I didn't say anything to him, I simply removed our social media connections. He may very well call or email soon, and I'll deal with it at that time. I hope he will eventually get help for his extremist views and frequent appalling outbursts against women.
A few other reasons I've ended friendships:
They became controlling, handsy, and/or aggressive.
They stole from me or my friends (yes, I mean literal theft).
They started gaslighting me and being manipulative or cruel.
They mocked rape victims and the "me too" movement.
They were ableist, racist, sexist, or otherwise prejudiced to an inexcusable degree.
I frown heavily upon toxicity in general, but I have been accepting over the years. I don't think highly of myself most days, but one thing I can say is that there are times when my empathy has been exploited, and I've been too loyal. It's nobody else's fault that I'm a highly sensitive person, but it is their fault for hurting me. I will no longer be victim-blamed, or be a victim at all if I can prevent it. In my late 30s and now in my 40s, I've slowly learned to stand up for myself and others and not be so tolerant of people who subtract from my well-being and the overall good of humanity. It's very hard, but it's the right thing to do.
If you want a better answer than that, you're going to have to stop being anonymous so we can have a real conversation, but I appreciate your questions either way. Have a nice day.
Puppy sized elephant or elephant sized puppy?
Puppy sized elephant. :)
Are you the type of person who would spend time in the company of a stranger with pleasure, drinking cappuccinos and telling each other stories from life? :) ☕☕
A complete stranger? Ehhhh I have to question my comfort level over that idea. I'm an introvert, and a cautious person in general. I don't do blind dates, however, I will say that if I meet someone and they seem kind and respectful, I would definitely consider talking over cappuccino. It sounds like a lovely time. (And I would pay for my own coffee.)
If animals could talk, which animal would be the most annoying?
Still humans.
If there is one thing that you could change about the past, what would that be?
There are far too many things that need changing to choose only one.
What’s your dream marriage proposal?
I don't have one. I think marriage is very serious and should be properly discussed, privately and in immense detail. Surprise proposals, especially public ones where the recipient is pressured to say yes, is no way for two grown adults to operate. IF it has already been discussed and agreed upon privately, a proposal could be planned for the benefit of loved ones or whoever else is present, if having that kind of moment is important to the couple. But I personally hate surprises and don't want public attention on me, so I would most likely feel horrified to be proposed to in front of other people, and I'm an ugly crier too.
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How would your friends describe you???
I believe they would call me tenacious and persevering, possibly sensitive and empathic toward the innocent (but not so much the guilty). One has been known to refer to me as a "bulldog". Feel free to draw your own conclusion about that.
If you had to live the rest of your life in a movie which one would you pick?
I truly can't think of anything other than possibly The Hobbit but I wouldn't be going on any quests. I'd be at home in a cave in Hobbiton eating pie.
Why are some men thin, and others fat, although they eat the same pasta?
Funny question. Perhaps read up on metabolism, physiology, genetics, and/or health and wellness topics? There are plenty of reasons people vary in weight. Google is your friend. :)
You're planning a nice dinner party but could only invite 2 people. Who would you invite?
I honestly don't know. Sorry I'm no fun.
How would you like to celebrate your next birthday?
It's in a couple of weeks, but I have no plans at all. It's on a Saturday, so maybe I can find something to do or someone to hang out with. We'll see.
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