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What are you looking forward to this year?

I don't have any specific plans. I'm supposed to go to medical appointments and possibly a presentation on my condition this year, and I will probably obtain long-awaited genetic testing. I really have nothing else to do except a little bit of art and reading, and hopefully visiting my nieces later this year.
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Do you often suffer from sleeplessness?

All the time. I've been diagnosed with sleep apnea, insomnia, and sleep deprivation.

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How to deal with busy boyfriend?

Ask yourself these questions:
What is he busy doing?
Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
Do we respect each other as independent individuals?
What do I actually want from this man?
Are my expectations reasonable?
Does this lifestyle align with my goals?
When you have all of the answers, schedule a time to discuss with him how you're feeling, and go from there.

What's the best news you've ever received?

That I'm finally going to be an Aunt.
I did, in fact, become an Aunt this very week 8 years ago. Happy Birthday Jo!

Do you have a favorite track?

Not really. I'm too indecisive, and one of those people who has a hundred favorite songs.

When is the best time to tell someone you love that they may have an mental illness and may need help.

I wouldn't tell them that you think they're mentally ill, as it probably wouldn't be helpful. Leave that to a professional. The best thing you can do is offer to listen and empathize, and, if they are willing to help themselves, suggest counseling. Perhaps you can offer to go with them, or if they feel better doing it alone, offer emotional and/or financial support toward that effort. Good luck.
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what are some ways you manage stress?

Sleep is the only true escape, and even then I have frequent nightmares. :( I normally look for something to distract me. Read a book. Go for a drive. Drink a glass of ice water. Play a card game. Watch YouTube. Sing badly. Clean something. Breathe deeply. I don't manage it well some days.

What are you a “natural” at doing?

I can't think of a thing. The first word that comes to mind is "worry", but that's too obvious. I don't know that I have any natural-born talent. Everything I know was through learning.

Have you ever dated a shy person?

Only if middle school counts (it sort of doesn't, we're talking about age 12 here). I've only been with 2 men in adulthood and they weren't really shy in my opinion.
I am definitely shy. Would I recommend dating me? Meh, not really, but not because I'm shy. Shy is not a problem. It's a common personality trait.

We're definitely similar but i realised that i couldn't do it at all if it was more than a two week gap between me seeing someone i care about. I guess i'm one of those unnecessarily needy types 😂 What are your views in relocating with your spouse?

KingMwiza’s Profile PhotoMufufu
I have nothing to lose in leaving my current living arrangements. As long as I felt safe and reasonably comfortable, I would be happy to go wherever he is. I don't think this person exists, however, so I'm not looking for him. I'm not in good health, so managing that is my focus.
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Do you prefer Instagram or Facebook?

I'm preferring Instagram at the moment because it is stress-free, but I still do far more interacting on Facebook, and that is where my closest friends are.

Would you be in a long distance relationship with someone? Why or why not?

KingMwiza’s Profile PhotoMufufu
It would have to be someone I already know in person; none of this online dating stuff. I understand distance is necessary sometimes due to job or other important reason, but ultimately it would need to be a temporary situation. I am fine with being alone while single. Being alone while attached is more challenging and would have to be discussed.
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Sometimes all you need is...?

a sense of humor.
genuine respect.
a listening ear.
a nice hug.
a gentle back rub.
someone to say that it's going to be ok.

What type of music are you into?

Rock, Motown, Indie, Celtic, Zydeco, Instrumental, 70s and 80s, and a little bit of pop I suppose.

Do you actually love someone ???

I love a lot of people. If you mean being passionately in love with a man, no, I haven't been in an intimate relationship for a decade and a half. If that changes someday, I'll let ASK know (with my partner's permission) at that time. But the answer is no today, as it has been every day so far since starting this account.

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