Why did you get divorced?
I was very young and stupid and not forward-thinking. I had no self-worth and thought it was my lot in life to be a wife to whoever would have me. I was kicked out of my house for being chronically ill and my parents paid him to move the two of us into a slum apartment together. We were roommates. I was sick and couldn’t keep a job, and terrified of homelessness, so I married a pathological lying cheating life-threatening sociopath who claimed to love me and promised to take care of me. Instead he tried to destroy me in every way including committing financial fraud, abandoning our debts, turned my church against me via projection (claiming I was the one abusing him), banned me from friends and family, took away my car (it wasn’t his and I eventually took it back), refused to call an ambulance when I asked for one, accused me of faking episodes and called me stupid, threw things at me, couldn’t keep a job because of fighting his bosses, refused to shower or wash his hands, was such a slob he was evicted from the apartment (after I left), refused any blame for anything including his own irresponsible decisions, his fits of rage, his obesity, and his diabetes, had internet addictions including a girlfriend who he later got pregnant, stalked and threatened me after we separated, and to this day refuses to take any blame. I won the lawsuit in a matter of 60 seconds, but since he was unemployed, he never paid a dime.
All my life I’ve walked through hell, yet I’ve survived. Divorce court was the most freeing day of my life. Thanks.
All my life I’ve walked through hell, yet I’ve survived. Divorce court was the most freeing day of my life. Thanks.
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