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Do you have dimples on your cheeks?

Not really. They're large and round. My cheeks look pretty much the same as they did when I was a chubby two-year-old. Gotta love genetics.

What are your three favorite songs?

It's impossible to choose three favorites, but I will share three (out of hundreds) that I love:
Desperado by The Eagles: https://youtu.be/3-bwXhts8Zgugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 3-bwXhts8Zgugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 3-bwXhts8Zg
Desperado Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desperado_(Eagles_song)
Summer of '69 by Bryan Adams: https://youtu.be/eFjjO_lhf9cugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 eFjjO_lhf9cugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 eFjjO_lhf9c
S of 69 Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Summer_of_%2769
I Won't Give Up by Jason Mraz: https://youtu.be/O1-4u9W-bnsugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 O1-4u9W-bnsugottafriend’s Video 152247610735 O1-4u9W-bns
IWGU Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Won%27t_Give_Up
I could easily give a new list of three favorite songs every week. I've got a ton of them. :-)

Do you know anyone who hates shopping?

I don't like shopping, and I've been asked this so many times, I have a feeling you're being sarcastic. :-)

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Where does all your money go?

Rent, Utilities, Food, Fuel/Maintenance, Medical Care, and Household Expenses...not that it's any of your business.

What does friendship mean to you? What should your friend be like? Do you have a lot of friends?

Hello, thanks for the question. :-)
Friendship is pretty important to me. I'm alone, so friends are all I have, really. I feel best when my friends are respectful of my individuality, my introversion, my medical conditions, and my personal boundaries. A friend is a safe person to be around, alone or otherwise. I appreciate a friend who isn't skeptical or judgmental. A good friend is emotionally supportive. I think platonic intimacy is a great thing, and I think everyone should have someone they can fully trust to be that person (and for you to be that person to in return, of course). Friendship is a special kind of relationship. You can't choose your family, but friendship is a choice in mutual respect and affection. All of that said, I don't expect to find a perfect friend. Heaven knows I am deeply flawed and need a lot of work. We're all human. But, I think empathy, communication, and understanding go a very long way. I have a habit of calling everyone (social media, blog readers, etc) my friend, but I suppose most of the people in my life are more like acquaintances. I don't have friends in my small town. I do have a few friends in my region, around the country, and overseas. It's primarily (or completely in some cases) an online friendship. They're fantastic, and I love them all. I guess the internet is a bit of a lifeline for me. My health problems are isolating, and my life has changed quite a lot over the last 8 years. Friends have come and gone in a big way for many reasons. They have jobs. They have families. They have priorities that don't include hanging out with a tired, broken old soul in rural Alabama. That's nobody's fault. It's just adulthood. So, I feel as though I do have friends, but if I stop and think about it, probably not a lot, and I wouldn't consider myself exceptionally close to anyone at this time.

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Smart casual or sporty style?

I know so little about fashion, I had to look up those phrases. Haha. Either one is fine with me. Most of my wardrobe falls under casual or sporty these days, since I no longer work, but I do still own smart casual clothing that I wear occasionally. I may have a couple of business suits also from my paralegal days. I fail pretty hard when it comes to beauty and dress sense. I take hygiene very seriously, but otherwise there's nothing fancy or beautiful about my appearance.
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What means of transport do you consider to be the safest? Why?

I'm not really qualified to answer this. I've never been on a plane, ship, or train, and I've only been on a bus which traveled from one side of town to the other in a matter of 10 minutes. Statistically, a plane is probably safest based on the number of fatalities.

What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives? 💕

- Charity/volunteer work with absolutely no compensation
- Question their belief system, their mental health, and their overall character
- Pursue education
- Live independently (with regards to people who have varying abilities, I know this isn't always possible)
- Become respectfully acquainted with someone different from them
- Hold a baby

What are your goals?

I'm having a difficult time with this question. At the moment, my goals involve basic existing. Being able to get out of bed and sit upright all day. Being able to breathe properly. Washing the dishes. Preparing meals without my body melting down. Digesting food without being sick or increasing my pain. These answers are not what you were seeking, and I get that. That's why I've let the question sit in my inbox for a month. To have the life goals of a normal, functional person, I would first have to be a normal, functional person. I'm not. It would help if I could decrease my chronic pain and physical limitations. It seems like too much to ask, but I'd like to find a solution. My current goals, other than what I've already mentioned, mostly involve keeping my sanity intact, feeling safe, and trying to be worth something to society and the earth. I genuinely want to be a better person every day, and somehow make a difference in a world that is far too harsh.

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Tell us about your first school crush!

I was in Kindergarten. His name was Wesley. He had brown hair. That is all I remember. I dropped out of Kindergarten when my parents divorced, so I never saw him again.

What music are you listening to now??

No music at this time, but I'll turn on Pandora Radio now. Thanks for the reminder.

What is your favorite lunch cafeteria food?

I remember buying extra yeast rolls sometimes. I didn't like much else. This was almost 30 years ago, mind you.

I see smth wrong, now, tell me, what is disturbing youuu?

There are plenty of disturbing things happening in the world, so I guess you'll have to be more specific on what you're seeing wrong in me.

What's the chance of getting your reply if I am unknown?

That depends on what the question is. :) But I do answer most of the questions I receive.

chocolate chip pancakes, banana pancakes, or chocolate chip banana pancakes?

I don't want banana in my pancakes. Chocolate, I am more likely to accept. What I would prefer, however, is fruit.
Edit Note: Haha ok bananas are a fruit. Sorry. I had other fruit in mind, like berries or peaches. I'm just not a banana fan!

what you doing today?

I got up, drank some green tea, went back to bed, and now I'm trying to sit up again. I'm not feeling well, so I don't have any plans other than rest.

So, any new life activities?

I'm trying to find somewhere else to live because my current place is making me ill. Other than that, I'm hoping to improve my art skills by taking some free online courses. I'm still occasionally gaming, watching documentaries, reading, and writing as well. I'll plan to participate in NaNoWriMo in November even though I don't really feel up to it at the moment. To be honest, what I really want to do is nap all the time.

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