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An original way to attract a guy's attention?

I am the wrong person for this question. The only attention I seek from men is general acknowledgment from my brothers, stepdad, and doctors, hopefully on a good day where everybody's feeling kind and considerate.
Sorry I'm no help, but I'm just not the attractive type.

have any of your loved ones suffered from the hurricane "Irma"?

Irma affected a widespread area. I don't personally know anyone in the Caribbean, but many islands there suffered greatly. There was one man in the Virgin Islands that I was trying to help spread the word to get supplies to, but we haven't spoken so I don't have any updates. Florida, Georgia, and South Carolina experienced a lot of flooding, and I know many people in those states who went through it, but they all recovered well as far as I am aware. There is a possibility that some folks I've lost touch with over the years were affected, but I'll never really know as I no longer know how to reach them. I hope you didn't suffer from this terrible storm. Hurricane Katrina is the one that changed my life. It hurts my heart to see such devastation happen to others.

Which type of people you really love to talk with?

Well dear I am an introvert so I don't normally thrive on being talkative. However, I am civil with everyone and I am an equal opportunity acquaintance unless someone gives me a reason not to hang around. I like talking to people who are warm, genuine, and respectful. I like to laugh but I don't care for insulting or gross humor. I appreciate deep intelligent conversation as long as it isn't an interrogation or a debate (I will find the quickest exit if I feel judged or uncomfortable). I'm big on empathy, so heart-to-heart talks are nice. To be honest, face-to-face interaction isn't always easy for me so someone who is patient and understanding is pretty much the best kind of person there is.

Who is your favorite sports icon (past or present)?

I'm a big fan of figure skaters Brian Boitano (who I met a few years ago) and Scott Hamilton. I also loved Gordeeva and Grinkov and it was so heartbreaking when Sergei died. Scott still cries every time someone brings him up in interviews, and I cry with him.

What do you wish you had more time for?

I have nothing but time. It's moving too slowly, in my opinion. I think I'm just too tired to live at this point.

Leave a message for your future self!

Be careful who you trust. Set boundaries. Don't settle. Your health comes first. Pursue wellness for your own benefit, because you alone are worth it even when you don't feel that way. Stand up for yourself and others. Speak out. Remember that people are human. Communicate. Have patience. Be kind.

Do you think you've changed in the last year? In what way?

- I am slightly more educated.
- I decided to open my mind to the idea of having a companion someday (frankly it's probably not happening because I'm too intense and independent for most men).
- I talked myself into pursuing various forms of therapy. I've started one, and will start another soon.
That's all I can think of.
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كيف ممكن تتحول الصداقة والحب الى كره لمجرد انك رفضت الوصل ؟!

I had to send this through an online translator, and I am unsure that I'm understanding it right, but I'll try. You say you wanted love and friendship with someone but now you hate them because they refused to connect with you. OR, you are saying someone did that to you. I'm not sure which.
Friendship is a unique kind of love that doesn't require physical attraction or affection. There is a connection, yes, but the level of connection is variable. Friends can be friends with or without being intimately connected. Neither is right, and neither is wrong.
But here's the thing. Nobody owes you shit. People need to realize that attraction is a physiological response and not a choice. If they don't feel attracted to you, or you don't feel attracted to them, sorry but MOVE ON. Hating someone for not "connecting" is childish, and the hater is in no way equipped for a real relationship. If someone did that to you, let them go. If you did that to someone, back off and focus your energy on something else. Whatever the case, that person has a lot of growing up to do.
Sometimes, we make love and friendship a lot harder than it should be. Mature and honest communication is the key. There is no room for childishness and pride in such things.

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What does the World know about the country you live in?

Our capitalist medical care system causes people to suffer and die.

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