Oloni

1 So I was seeing this guy and then we stopped talking and I started linking his boy. I didn't fuck either one. I didn't have feelings for his boy in the first 6 months and he was a dickhead to me then I started to catch feelings for him when he started slightly fixing up. We started getting along a

April 08, 2015

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2. I put her picture up on insta to show my work and then my friend sent me a long msg with insults saying she was disappointed in me and how I have betrayed her and I shouldn't have done her ex friends hair

April 08, 2015

This is very petty, but call her & talk about it. Their friendship or ex-friendship has nothing to do with you, especially if you weren't aware.

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1. I do hairdressing on the side and recently I've been getting a lot of business. I did one girls hair who went to the same college as one of my friends, however they fell out in college for reasons I'm not really sure of as I went to a different college and know the girl through my friend

April 08, 2015

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Now.. I feel like a fool. Not being able to forgive myself. And ever regretting why i didn't walk away when i did when he cheated the first time. He has apologised and wants me back. But I'm hesitant. My guilt and my dignity hurt. I dont think i want him back. But how can i forgive myself.

April 08, 2015

I'm confused if you're 'seeing' him he never cheated. The whole situation seems messy, don't go back. Forgive yourself by learning from your mistakes, you'll be fine.

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Ive been with this guy..We're not dating..But just seeing each other..He cheated on me first with his ex.I forgave..After a while..Then we stopped talking for a month..Then he slept with some other girl..And i only found that out after he spent the night at mine after we reconciled. Now im regrettin

April 08, 2015

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I am finding it so hard to walk away from my girlfriend that cheated on me, I'm so in love with her and I don't know what to do to move on

April 08, 2015

Give each other space & gradually pull away. If you need to talk about it with her do so. It's okay, some can't move past infidelity others can.

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Do you legit think your answers are the best? I sometimes disagree with your responses. But then I'm single, sooo...

April 08, 2015

I don't expect anyone to agree with everything I say & I'm okay with that.

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I don't think it's fair that you answer some questions sarcastically. You know you don't have to answer, and you can also say 'I don't know.' But don't then go and make a mockery out of the person by lolling. You put yourself out to help... so help if you're going to.

April 08, 2015

It's awesome that you don't think it's fair, but this is my ask.fm so if I choose to be 'sarcastic' (very rare might i add) I can do so & judging by how many questions and people I've answered and helped, I'm pretty sure I know how to utilise my own platform. So if you're going to put yourself out there & read through all my answers, read or simply press x. :-)

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my bf recently asked me about my body count. i misold the truth by a little bit. i feel guilty, should i tell him the truth

April 08, 2015

If you feel guilty then yes, just remember you don't have to actually go into detail with the number of people you have slept with.

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Hey Oloni! I emailed you today :)

April 08, 2015

Will do my best to reply as soon as!

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Thank you for doing what you doing, even just having this ask.fm page, I've always felt like I was a bit out of touch with reality or 'other girls' or just bad with men, you've helped me to realise a lot! Wish you all the best success with your business, i'll buy your book(s) when I can xxx

April 08, 2015

Thank you x

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Ive now realised I'm a girlfriend fluffer and I want to know how I can change that

April 08, 2015

Get the answers in my new boom coming out THIS Sunday. Titled '100 Questions' it'll be available on simplyoloni.com

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I started talking to this boy at the beginning of the year, I had known him for a year already and everything is going well until we decided to start taking things seriously we went on a date and i Didn't feel like a clicked with him because I didn't feel I knew him as in depth as I wanted

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I'm scared that my physical and emotional attraction to this guy is going to mess things up for us to maintain a good friendship.. Do I stop seeing him or do i control my feelings and just ride it out? ( p.s. I don't actually want a relationship as I don't feel I'm ready)

April 08, 2015

Tell him how you feel. There's nothing wrong with how you feel and who says it'll turn into a relationship, what happened to dating? If you don't want that, then try to keep your distance.

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Pt 3. After still trying to resolve the argument he wasn't responding to my messages for time, airing me but now we seem to be taking more regularly like before but he's not calling me anymore. I like him and wanted things to work. What should be done?

April 08, 2015

He's not interested & that's fine, cus you will move on!

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Pt 2. So it's been quite awkward us speaking again and he cancelled the date saying "he had to go on a Church event with his family" and we should reschedule but when I asked him about another day he said he'd check his work rota and get back to me.

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Pt 1. I've been speaking to this guy I met a couple weeks ago and we really hit it off. Communication was great, he really liked me, we were gonna go on a date but then had a minor argument which I tried to sort out but didn't really get sorted.

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I have a habit of wanting to control things in a relationship, like beige I get with someone I kind of have a vision of how it should turn out and how it should go? My friends says I shouldn't be like that but I think it's fine

April 08, 2015

You can only control yourself in a relationship. Just focus on finding someone who is compatible with you & also has the same morals as yourself and the vision you want will come.

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I found out my mate's girlfriend keeps stuff from ex's for memories. How do you feel about that

April 08, 2015

I feel that you shouldn't get involved.

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how do I spice up the communication please

April 07, 2015

Spice communication how?

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Control the outcome by staying quiet or holding back my feelings. I know communication is key to a relationship but I don't know how to get past this mindset, any advice?...(2)

April 07, 2015

Yes, be confident & TRUST!! If you can't express yourself without fear, then you must take small steps to allow you to open up. Remember this is your partner someone who you shod feel comfortable expressing your voice to.

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I find it difficult to express myself with a SO out of fear of the response. My mindset is that I don't want things to go in any way other than forward so I'm scared to say the 'wrong' thing (ironically)I don't like the uncertainty of leaving fate in someone else's hands so I try to...(1)

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Not sure if it sent, hope you don't mind. There's a guy at work who I feel keeps flirting with me. He told me he liked this other girl but I feel like he's saying it to make me jealous. He's also seeing someone but says it's not his girlfriend. Is it best to stop flirting, I can't make sense of it x

April 07, 2015

He sounds like he's playing games.

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What are signs that he/she is loosing interest?

April 07, 2015

Lack of communication

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So would dating more than one person be ok?

April 07, 2015

Yup!

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