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Hi oloni, I really love your platform. I know this is a bit personal but do you have s bf or gf? And if so how long have you been with them? It would be really werid if you didn't lol. You may have mentioned it before but I'm new to your site. Anyways keep doing what you are doing xx

I am in a relationship and we've been together for a few years. Thanks for checking out the site ?

I cheated on someone I've been seeing and I eventually told him. I've apologised ect but I know it's still hard for him to accept. I don't know what else I can do or say to make it any easier n for us to move forward. Help!

Hey darling! This is a question i answered in my new eBook 100 Questions get it here: http://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/

I've been lieing too my friend about who my boyfreally is, I've told them a fake name and age and now it's just eating me because I feel silly saying his fake name when I talk too them, I lied because I didn't want them too judge me. How should I tell them I feel like I've dug myself into a big mess

Oh no!! You're going to have to come clean regardless. That's the thing about lies, they eventually catch up with you. You could explain to them how you did with me, why you felt the need to lie however.

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Also I've read you book it was really good, I couldn't put it down and listened too your podcast you're amazing lol. Also you have a very nice radio voice. Keep up that good work

I hate my voice ?? but thank you for getting a copy & listening to the podcast. I really appreciate it ?

Can you answer the question about me liking too my friend about my boyfriend please

Please ask it again, i have over 200 unanswered questions.

I just turned 21& I'm being pursued by a guy who's 35, he's asked me out 3 times over the past year& I finally agreed to go on a date with him.He was a gentleman& the night fun(no sex involved).But I'm insecure about dating so how do I know if he just wants sex from me although he's said otherwise?

My dear, you're just going to have to take that risk. It's no different from dating a guy you're own age. Men in general are always going to be after sex, time will tell if it's just more.

My girlfriend recently caught me flirting with another girl. Tbh we both do it, and it's usually fine as long as we don't go too far. Problem is she knows the girl I was flirting with, I didn't know this. She broke up with me. I want her back. Help? Btw this is a homosexual relationship.

Talk to her about it. I think you should both avoid flirting with others that's how stuff like this happens. Explain it how you did to me. If you didn't know, you didn't know.

I was in a relationship with a guy for a few years. We broke up because of infidelity on his part but he said he wanted to get back together. Now I'm ready to try again he says he isn't ready for a relationship right now but still wants us to be us. What does this mean and what do I do?

He wants to have his cake, honestly don't waste your time.

if youre going to give advice it would be more helpful if you looked at all the possibilities first then gave the best fit solution, instead of the 'leave, dont talk to them' cards. youre doing a good thing, just some observations.

Thanks for your observations, however when she came to ask for advice she said she was 'sick' of her boyfriends behaviour. Even if they are signs of depression you & I do NOT know that for sure. If someone is in something that I can see is quite clearly unhealthy I will tell them to leave.
Once again thanks for your kind observation.

I just have to say, I disagree with the advice you gave the girl who said her boyf wasnt bathing, brushing his teeth and always wanting to fight. he isnt taking care of himself and seems short fused, those are clearly signs of depression,she should help him instead of you suggesting she should leave

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So do you think 2/3 months is too early for it be official ?

Not at all. If it feels right, make that commitment.

Hey, I'm a girl but ever since I left my bf in Jan, I've just been having sex with guys then moving on to a new guy, I'm scared that I'm starting to not appreciate sex anymore, what happens when I meet the one, will it just be sex? Or will I 'make love'? So I wanna stop, but I don't know how to :(

You could be going through a phase many women & men go through after a break up. Just make sure you're comfortable & it's consensual. If you still feel like you might not be appreciating sex, it's okay to stop for a while to figure out why you feel this way.

2) even though it's in the past, how do I not feel bitter? It's very upsetting thinking the guy you thought you knew inside out may have potentially cheated on you. We cut off all contact so I can never even ask him. It's been 3 months. I want to move on and be happy again

If you were both really good, why would you assume he cheated on you? I know it was sudden & caught you off guard but don't jump to wild conclusions, you'll only drive yourself crazy.
You need to heal from what you're going through and allow yourself to move on.

1) My ex broke up with me due to our religious differences. He cried and did it in person. Our relationship was perfect besides that. All my friends think it is something deeper and that couldn't be the real reason as we were so good. It's making me feel like he cheated on me.

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Me and my man have been seeing each other for a while we adore eachother and don't want anyone else however we constantly argue and when it gets bad he always wants space and to be with his friends. What's worse we haven't done the deed and hardly ever touches me so what should I do?

Speak to him about it or leave.

hey , i have been single for about 5 years and , whenever i have discussions about relationships with my friends they fire "you have commitment issues" at me ... but i know i wouldn't want to be in a committed relationship anytime soon. are they right?

They're saying what they've heard in one too many rom coms. You probably haven't found a relationship worth committing to.

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