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Some girl sent my boyf a Valentine's message basically saying that she misses how they used to be and she wants to have that again. When I asked him about he said he used to go out with her years ago but we've been going out for 3years and we're not that old and he's never mentioned her before. He's

Ask him more questions & why you've never heard of her. 3 years??? You should have an idea of his past relationships. I hope he also shut her down that's unacceptable.

My man was texting a girl sexually but has displayed remorse ever since, do I call it quits or try to trust him again

You can't trust someone over night. It's up to you. Can you trust him again?

I want a relationship without the attachment of sex till I'm ready but no one is ever down to ride that way

I wouldnt say 'no one' but if that's what you want then be patient and you'll get it.

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I asked this before but I don't think you saw it. I started dating a older guy there's a 9yr age difference he makes me so happy when I'm with him but he has so many things going on. I dont what him too think I'm a Young needy girl that always wants his time but I just want some if it. What do I do?

How old are you??

I'm the girl my boyfriend left twice. Do you become friends with that kind of ex or just shut him from your life?

If you can handle being friends, but what kind of friendship can be formed when he's hurt you one too many times disgustingly?

My boyfriend has two phones. He is constantly active on both of them. Should I be worried?

If your bothered by it ask why he has them! You're his girlfriend you can ask him questions!!

My boyfriend left me for someone disrespectfully in June. He came back and asked me to take him back which I did. We went back to dating as we were in a long distant relationship. He left me for someone last month again. I'm in love with him but I can't do this anymore. Thoughts?

He's doing what he knows he can get away with. Love is good, but he is abusing your love!! Please don't take him back he'll do it again.

Sorry if it's TMI but I'm too embarrassed to have sex with my man - I have huge stretch marks on my arms and stomach from when I gained weight a few years ago. I've since lost the weight but the marks remain. I just feel like i don't look good without clothes lol,

Darling you look like a regular woman!! We all & will have stretch marks. Do not allow some faint lines to stop you from having the best orgasm ever! I hope you find the confidence you deserve x

Im a 23 year old man and I've never had a girlfriend (for various reasons). Is there something with this/with me? (Btw, I do attract ladies but very picky)

Not at all. When you're ready to hold on to something you will.

Iv been speaking to this guy but he takes forever to reply yet he's constantly tweeting, but when he does finally reply he acts really interested in me what's that about?

He replies when he's ready! Dont read into it too much

what can i do to make my gf not get sore during sex, she gets so wet and she will cum multiple times but sometimes she gets sore and we have to stop because she says it hurts too much

Lube it up!

Been seeing this guy for over a year. No sex. He now wants me to ask him out but I want him to ask me and he says he can't cos it's not in his nature and he can't change that. I feel like if I give in, he will never be willing to compromise on anything for me. I just don't know what do.

This whole scenario just sounds petty. Like read it back. Are either of you serious?

I'm dating a guy but there's never any talk of what we are. We're more like friends in the sense that we talk like friends, make jokes, laugh, do fun things together etc. We just do things together lol. What can I do?

Then bring it up!

I've only ever had sex with one guy, and I thought he was the one. We're not together anymore. Sex means a lot to me, but I'm scared guys won't want to be with me or get to know the real me because I dont want to have sex until it's serious. What should I do?

Don't be silly! There are plenty of guys who are willing to wait. Don't compromise your sexuality. You do things when YOURE ready! You'll realise if it's just sex or more by actions. Hope that helps!

(2) Part of me feels I shouldnt nag because I am not their gf yet so I have no place to talk. Is this the wrong mentality? I feel guys I see continue to act up because they know I am not very confrontational, i don't know what to do

It's good that you're laid back! That's an excellent quality, but laid back is not a synonym for door mat. If you're seeing someone never be afraid to cut to the chase. Not being in titled rship doesnt mean you can't 'talk' when both of your bodies & emotions are involved. Never put that to the side!

(1) Oloni you're amaze! Could you offer me some advice when I start seeing a guy that I am really into I never like to seem too demanding or nag when something isn't right. I am naturally laid back but I feel guys get too comfortable & in return don't wish to make things serious/ make me their gf...

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Hey  I am a virgin and me and my bf will most likely be having sex soon, its something I really want just want some advice to stop it from hurting, he has a big dick and a little worried it might be too big

Lool use condoms & a lot of lube! :-)

I've been speaking to this cool guy and told him i didn't want a relationship (just came out of one) and would rather be friends from the get go... we got drunk one night and things happened but i still said we can be friends and now he has been blunt with me for a few days, should i just leave him?

Yeah give him some space he'll come around. I say a week!

Please post something about how men who get their ex or current girlfriend pregnant but decide not to be there for the child. Can you please have a top on guys that don't provide for their children x

Interesting one!

Hey oloni, I wrote to you on here to tell u about my dilemma about being too mature for boys my age and being too young for the older guys.. Iv finally found somebody perfect and he's 5 years older!

Whoop!

Ive been seeing this guy for about 5 months meaning we have become so close and obviously have had sex etc but now he told me he doesnt want a relationship and lately seems uninterested. I dont know what to do anymore, like i really like him and apparently he likes me to. Help please?

Cut him off. If he doesnt want a relationship leave him alone and believeeee the fuck out of him. It'll hurt but you will get over if you believe you deserve more.

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