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Too piggy back of what someone previously said, I am lonely as well but there are men talking too me but they just eventually fizzle out. Like what am I doing wrong before they get even get the chance too see the fun side of my they're gone and it literally happens EVERY time, I'm starting too think

Try talking to a different type of guy you wouldn't usually. Instead of talking go out on a date! It's 2015 women can ask dudes out too. Take this advice & see if you feel a change.

Hi Oloni , me and this guy have been friends for almost 3yrs & the feelings are apparent. Things never picked up & it's been a continuous cycle whereby we get close and then he runs. He's made it clear on several occasions recently that he likes me but yet he will end up in relationships elsewhere.

Believe what he shows & disregard what this guy is saying please.

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I love my boyfriend but I'm really not enjoying sex with him anymore what should I do? I think it's a psychological thing

How so? Try & guide him by telling him what you like. Become creative in bed and try to introduce him to things you'll both enjoy.

I told him he should stop changing plans, I told him that I have feelings for him and I like him but he's not saying it back like he used to. I didn't like what he was saying about the "hotel" thing so I told him I'm going to bed and he hung up. What should I do?

Let it go he the feelings you both share are clearly not mutual anymore

He cancelled another date we had this week saying he won't be in the area but if I really wanna see him he can book me a hotel for us to stay the night together... I didn't like this.

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... Some time to myself to focus on my studies and thought everything was going well.. Then he becomes super busy and keeps cancelling our dates something always comes up..

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Hi Oloni :) So there's this guy I like and I thought he liked me because in December he told me he wanted to try us seeing each other (seriously) however I wasn't sure I was fully over my ex so I put it on hold for a bit and got back to him a few weeks later.. I explained to him I needed some time..

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I've just started dating this new guy should I tell him the real number between my legs or just kep it to myself I'm not ashamed (anymore) but I'm afraid he may judge me >_<

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I feel really lonely at times. I know I should use my single time to work on myself but sometimes I miss the affection that comes with being with someone. I have few friends and they are sometimes unreliable. I don't know what to do :(

You sound like you need to start dating. There's nothing wrong with what you're asking for, just make sure you're putting yourself out there x

Opinions of 21 year old dating a 33 year old guy?

Whatever makes you happy. My opinion doesn't control your heart unless the relationship it self is unhealthy.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. A lot has happened in the past year and I'm trying to put it behind me and move forward. What would you suggest I get him for Valentine's Day?

I'm going to nick an idea a lovely girl tweeted me the other day & say put a hamper together full of his favourite things. A watch, his fav cologne etc etc.

I'm in a long distance relationship and we haven't been talking much. We have a great connection but I he doesn't really put in any effort and I feel like I'm holding the relationship together. Does this mean he doesn't care anymore? We used to talk a lot more than we do now

Talk to him about it & let him know how you feel. See where it leads and make your own decision

Why does it take me so long to get over guys even I don't feel like I like them too much?

Discipline your love.

any advice for being in a relationship with someone who has depression? it gets really hard, idk if walking away would be the best thing to do

Walking away isnt easy & nor will being there. If you think you're mentally strong enough to stick by him, be by his side, help him, get him help. If not, you can still love him from a distance.

2. I think he's acting like this because I'm plus sized. however I don't understand why that would be a problem, I don't hide it. I want to have a conversation to see what's going on so I can gain some closure on the issue and move on. But I don't know how to start the conversation.

Leave it alone. You werent in a relationship to get closure, you werent that close & it wasnt that serious. Don't waste your time.

I met guy through Facebook. I went on a date with this guy just after christmas, before that we had banter and was really getting along. On the date we getting along and a lot in common. since then its been dead, I've tired speaking to him but I get nowhere. (cont..)

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I've recently got with a close guy friend however we didn't have sex and now he's being so off with me. He said he really cared about me during the encounter but I didn't reply - have I ruined the friendship

Not if you have a good talk about it.

My friends and I always have banter, but sometimes they joke about personal things which I don't like. How should I let them know that I don't want them to talk about it, without coming across as a buzzkill? :/

You're gonna have to become a buzzkill sadly, if you want that respect of not having something personal being used as a centre of a joke you have to let it be known.

I have a friend I'm starting to take interest in. We're both serious flirts and we made it clear from the beggining that it should stay like that, as well as establishing that if one wanted something more they should say. I don't know if I should say something as I don't if he feels the same

But that was the agreement. What's holding you back?

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