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Is 15 and 29 OK, serious question.my friend is dating her personal trainer, but she's 15!! Her parents are OK with it but I think its crazy?!? Thoughts??

March 25, 2015

That is not okay imo she is way below the age of consent if she's having a sexual relationship with this guy.

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5) i just can’t believe he would treat me this way i’ve been there for him emotionally, financially, everything and on top of that he is now sleeping with that girl he told me not to worry about ?? i feel he only messages me when he feels, his losing his hold over me.

March 25, 2015

He does message you when he feels like he's losing his hold over you and you're allowing it.

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This guy has disrespected you one too many times and caused you such great pain. What do you want to do with a guy we both know you will never trust? You friends are giving you bad advice & I'm guessing it's because they don't know what to say about the situation so are saying anything.

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Do NOT go back to him & do the no contact rule. He serves no great purpose in your life & clearly keeps on hurting you. You can get better if you simply cut him off.

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4) but when i ask for more or why he confusing me he backs up and acts like I’m being crazy, i’m sick of it and don’t know what to do, my friends say i can easily get him back but i don’t know,

March 25, 2015

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3)so thats what he does now he messages me first and i alway reply and jump whenever he want to see me, he tell me he still cares about me but its the distance that a big fact, he say things and act i ways that makes me think he still loves me

March 25, 2015

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1)my ex broke up with me on christmas day, because i found out he was talking to some girl and going on dates with her, he said he wasn’t breaking up with me =because of her and that they were just friends and he wanted nothing more from her....

March 25, 2015

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Tips to take care if synthetic curly hair?

March 25, 2015

Sex & relationship dilemmas dear.

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You haven't replied my to my question ?

March 25, 2015

Trying my best to work through them :-)

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I've liked this guy for months but he's starting to make effort now should I ask what's happening between us

March 25, 2015

Of course, ask him.

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Is 19 n 24 bad ?

March 25, 2015

Nope.

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2) I'm a very patient person and I don't mind waiting until he has time because I really do like him a lot and I can sense he likes me too. I'm just wondering what to do because I feel like i'm in one of those ''right guy, wrong time'' situations.

March 25, 2015

It could be the case. Regardless I think you should keep all your options open even if you feel like he's the 'right' guy. There are many right ones in the world you just have to find those too instead of worrying over someone who has quite a bit on their plate.

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1) Me and this guy have been dating and everything is good. I like him alot. It's just we never have time to see each other. He's working full-time whilst studying for a phd at the same time. I'm working full time aswell. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks now but we communicate every single day.

March 25, 2015

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I drunk dialed an old guy i was recently talking to.... how do you think he feel about it?:(

March 25, 2015

Apologise for it and find out.

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How often would you say is healthy arguing and trvial or deep? I'm getting exhausted at this, he feels it's normal "couples argue" and that I am being a "baby". No, I feel it's emotionally draining, surely at least every 2 days is too much? Very heated and his hears become blocked, am I being silly?

March 25, 2015

Every two days is very unhealthy. Yes couples argue, there is no relationship where an unwavering amount of love is involved that won't come with arguments.

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What are you doing to resolve these break downs? You're not being a baby, you're fed up. So talk to him about it and think of a resolution that's best fit for the both of you, even if it means separating.

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How often should a man call his woman. My Man never picks up the phone to say hello?

March 25, 2015

It should alternate between the two of you at least once every two days.

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Are you in a relationship atm ?

March 25, 2015

Yes for the 373636267364344th time.

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Tips on single females wanting to find a man who will truly them?

March 25, 2015

Get out there, single men will not find you at home.

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Sis can you tell me the advantage of oral n the disadvantage?

March 25, 2015

Advantages include giving your partner a new type of stimulation. Some partners prefer oral over sex surprisingly. Disadvantage would be disliking how your partner tastes.

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What does it mean if my boyfriend keeps badgering me for a threesome? One with two girls and himself because he said if it were two guys and me he would get jealous as well as upset (wtf lol)

March 25, 2015

He's basically asking you to fulfil a fantasy of his. Two girls is his fantasy not another guy and yourself. It's totally up to you to make it a reality, but do not get pressured into it if it's not what you want.

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8 - the new girl by now. But I know I can't spend as much time with her as she'd like as 1st years have a lot less work and lectures than 3rd years, plus I don't want to get hurt again. So after all this, what do you think I should do?

March 25, 2015

If you like her that much you'll do what you can to make it work communicating what you're going through. University in your third year is only 8 months not 8 years. People are always busy, if it's not uni it'll be a job.

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7 - Easy going until I met this one girl in first year. She's great, we get along like a house on fire in and out of the bedroom and she knows the whole situation with my ex and being honest, if I were in 2nd year and my ex didn't still text me occasionally then I would have made it official with

March 25, 2015

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6 - year. Not because of what happened but mainly because in a relationship I want to be able to give my woman the time, commitment, attention and energy that she deserves and I wouldn't be able to balance that as much as I'd like with third year work, a dissertation, injury rehab, gym and my sports

March 25, 2015

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5 - She turned me down and it was a final, 'no we need to stop speaking, I'm on the opposite side of the UK, let's leave it'. So I tried moving on, did my thing with some attractive girls at uni. Genuinely surprised myself with some of them as well. I adamantly said to myself, no relationship in 3rd

March 25, 2015

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4 - summer, she cried hysterically and begged for my forgiveness. But yeah we did speak about doing long-distance because I love her that much. I begged and begged when she came down for graduation and I know it looks stupid as it's HER that did wrong but I just wanted her really badly.

March 25, 2015

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3 - ...other as she graduated, went on holiday and sorted her life back home and I was working my summer job. But I never stopped loving her - apart from the week after I found out, that was pure rage - and genuinely thought about doing long-distance. May I add that before uni was done for the

March 25, 2015

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2 - which crushed me. I wouldn't say it was depression but without my friends I think I may have slipped into that. Anyway, we did the standard talking but still sleeping with each other as we lived down the road from each other but I still hadn't forgiven her. We had a big summer apart from each...

March 25, 2015

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