...How do I tell him to stop without seeming childish? Could you pls construct like the perfect text for me to send back. My mates are just telling me to block him and that's mean lol.

March 08, 2015

Say 'Hey XYZ, I find this quite inappropriate and would like you to stop as it bothers me..'.

There is this guy that has been into me for awhile and I finally started liking him back etc but he keeps sending me these like sexual messages and stories(of what he would like to do to me) and its freaking me out, I don't feel comfortable at all (continued...)

March 08, 2015

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Do you have any tips on how I make a girl orgasm?

March 08, 2015

Ask what she enjoys the most during sex.

Me and my text started talking everything was going well. We were back on for a week. Then he got a job at the gym working nights. He stopped texting/calling etc. To this day u don't understand why he just stopped talking. Do you think his job is stressing him?

March 08, 2015

It could be many things, but you must ask him. I can't give you that answer dear. Talk!

I accidentally mentioned to this guy that fellatio isn't something I'm against and now I think he has the wrong idea about me; as in he thinks I'll just give him some... What do I do?

March 08, 2015

Nothing. Lol

Are people allowed to dm you on Twitter about a sex/relationship dilemma they're having?

March 08, 2015

Nope. Ask fm or email only.

Should I lose weight to make guys like me? I've struggled with confidence issues since secondary school (I'm in uni now) about my body. I've been trying to lose weight for the past 2 years and I've managed to drop a dress size but now I'm thinking am I doing this for myself or the aesthetic?

March 08, 2015

Don't lose weight to attract the opposite sex, but for you own happiness & health. It's that simple. There are men who are happily married to bigger women as there are men who are happily married to size 0's. Do whatever you want to do for yourself.

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. At first I dismissed his possessiveness and blamed it on the fact that he loved me but now I'm starting to wonder if it's something I should worry about. He doesn't want me following/talking to any guys and gets extremely angry if I do. What do I do

March 08, 2015

That's worrying as he can't tell you who you can & can't be friends with especially if the friendship isn't inappropriate. I'm worried that if you abide by his rules & insecurity, he will create even more. Be incredibly careful.

What can I do to keep a boy interested? I have no problem with Bo's approaching me but as soon as we start dating for a while and talk loads and I start to like them it literally always just stops abruptly. Why do you think that is? And what can I do to stop it?

March 08, 2015

You probably talk to to the same kind if guys! This could just be one seeing as I don't know you or the situation very well.

I've been seeing a guy for 6 months now and as its got more serious, things have got worse. Although he says how much he likes me and cares, he doesn't seem that bothered by sex, or even look at me the same way. He just seems bored of me and it's making me pull away. Is this normal? I want to talk a

March 07, 2015

For couples who lose interest or don't communicate, yes. Think about it.

I don't seem to ever crave sex like I would just rather not tbh, I just crave affection and cuddles and just someone to be there for me as I would them. Is this weird because if my partner has a high sex drive it coudlnt throw things off? Would you see this a problem of maybe some underlying issues?

March 07, 2015

Lol you have no issues, that's just what you prefer. There isn't anything wrong with that and you're thinking way too hard, unless you date a sex addict you have nothing to worry about.

Tips on feeling sexy as a insecure female with low confidence and body image

March 07, 2015

Build up your confidence my acknowledging your greatness. The feeling sexy comes after.

I'm 24 no boyfriend and hardly any friends. Most weekends I'm at home. I used to have many friends but if we don't fall out we drift apart. I don't know what to do anymore, I miss having a group of girls to plan things with such as girls night outs

March 07, 2015

Make new friends! And ask yourself WHY this happened, you need to get that answer.

So this guy has told me over the years that he likes me and has feelings for me , but nothing really has ever happened. It's like we've gone though this cycle over the last 3yrs where we'll get close and then he runs & then he'll come back. He says he likes me , but then he's so reluctant to explain

March 07, 2015

He's lying.

I can't find a good man they all seem to be interested in sex or are not in the same maturity levels as me. My friends are always telling me my standards are too high for my age I'm 18. The older guys aren't interested once they find out my age what do I do?

March 07, 2015

You're 18 guys your age are either making Vine videos or tweeting, but they ARE out there.

What's your thoughts about dating a guy with a child.. I'm only 22

March 07, 2015

There's nothing wrong with that, unless that's not your preference.

I've been speaking to this guy for months now and we are planning to meet up. We used to talk all the time but now we dont as much as he claims to be busy all the time. We still want to meet up with eachother but am I wrong for not wanting to meet up with a guy if we dont talk first? Help me please!

March 07, 2015

Yes, ask him to communicate.

You haven't answered my question yet :(

March 07, 2015

Which is it?

I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel as though I'm too young to be dealing with the ups and downs of a serious relationship. What should I do? End it or keep trying?

March 07, 2015

You just answered it yourself. Do what feels right.

This is a really sensitive topic. How would you advise someone to tell someone they like that they carry and STD like herpes, a resdiual virus that isn't always present but like chickenpox lives in your spine? The virus itself is near on not very harmful at all but the stigma around it is very peak?

March 07, 2015

Make sure you're picking a serious partner and not someone you've had a cup of coffee with & 'like'. Pick your words carefully. Very carefully, how you say it has an affect on how your partner will take it. If you say 'I have some awful news to share' he or she will take will automatically pay attention to those words. Be comfortable and direct. Say you have an STD and give as much information about it as possible.

4) said stuff about him, pretty rude stuff actually. My bf got angry and said he wanted to fight him because of it. I pleaded with him not to and he agreed, but he still wants to tell his mate bcos it was rude what he said.. My question is, was I wrong for telling my bf what the guy said?

March 07, 2015

Not at all, you were honest. Just be caref who you tell your problems too.

3) my bf made up again... he started telling that people had been spreading rumours about me. Then he asked me about the guy I was talking to (things spread fast though college) and he asked me if his name was ever mentioned in our convos, I couldn't lie to him he's my bf. So I told him that the guy

March 07, 2015

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2) bf due to the fall out. When I was talking to this other guy, he was just asking why I was upset, so I explained the situation to him and he was giving me advice. Then he turned around to say how much he doesn't like my bf, he finds him annoying etc (they know each other) a few of days later me..

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1) Me and my boyfriend had a fall out, where we ended up not talking to each for a couple of days. Not everyone knows about our relationship so a guy that liked me started talking to me & people were telling me that he's trying to 'move' to me. I told him that I have a bf but I was still angry at my

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In a few weeks. I want to but I'm not sure. Do you think it's too soon to be doing things with someone else after my recent breakup? I feel like I'm over it but I don't want to seem like I've moved on so quick even though that's technically what I'm doing. Help please?

March 07, 2015

If youre over it do what you want.

Oloni

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