Oloni

.... We started talking, talking about us and that and old feelings started to develop but then I found out he has a gf now and I just don't know what to do... I have told him to leave me alone and go be with his gf, I have told him I'm happy for him and all that, which I truely am , I don't want...

March 03, 2015

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My ex and I have been on and off for about 5/6years, since we last broke up I stayed away from him and cut off all means of communication with him cos I know once we see each other again and start talking we end up back together. Few weeks ago I saw him and he made me feel a certain way, we .......

March 03, 2015

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Dating sites/apps are just full of boys wanting one thing! Argh! It's like boys are scared of commitment

March 03, 2015

Theyre full of it, but guys who want more also exist there too.

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Went to friends birthday meal and met a girl I like, didn't find out if she was single or if she is even interested! I'm unsure when we'll next meet. But she is in a WhatsApp group so I can get her number in an underhand manner. what should I do next?

March 02, 2015

Message her! Just introduce yourself & add 'i hope you don't mind i git your number through the whats app group..'

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I'm a Christian that wants to wait till marriage, my boyfriend doesn't want to and doesn't understand why I do, how do I make him see or do I leave?

March 01, 2015

Don't let him rush you into something you've made your mind about. If he doesn't want to understand that's his business not yours. I would suggest leaving if he carries on.

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I'm 22 years old, and I'm a virgin (very rare I know lol) but I can't help but feel that everytime I date a guy I have to let them know right away that I want to be that way til I get married. But then I'm scared it's going to put them off! I don't really know how to go about telling guys that!

March 01, 2015

You don't have to let anyone know anything. I always say this, your sexuality is yours & it's not a goal when dating. It makes it seem like it's baggage if you feel like you have to tell them right away. My dear you dont. A 22y/o virgin is not unheard of so relax.

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Recently got introduced to my boyfriends friend. After some innocent digging I found out it's actually his ex and they hang out quite often. Should I be concerned?

March 01, 2015

Nope unless you have a reason to be. Talk to him about it if it bothers you.

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How many sexual partners have you had? Just tweet the number don't answer this.

March 01, 2015

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Yeah I don't want him too know

March 01, 2015

That just seems like youre having your fwb as a back up in case things do not work out. Nonetheless, it's not hard to avoid calls & ignore messages.

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Are you a Christian?

March 01, 2015

Indeed.

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I'm in relationship now and my fwb keeps calling me. I don't want too tell him that I'm in because if my and my boyfriend ever break up I doubt he'll see me again and I wouldn't want that. Deep down I know I shouldn't ever go back too him but I'm soooo comfortable with him.

March 01, 2015

I'm confused, you don't want your fwb to know youre in a relationship?

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Is it okay to fancy someone who is in a relationship?

March 01, 2015

Yeah it's fine as long as you don't act on it.

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I'm not attracted to the same sex I know that I 100% like guys but I haven't come across one that gives me those butterflies, you know?

March 01, 2015

Then you're absolutely fine, change your environment, what youre going through is very normal.

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Answer my question please! Waiting eagerly. It's about my ex in prison. Thanks.

March 01, 2015

Youre going to have to send it again, i have many unanswered questions.

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From fall last year I've found that I don't find any males attractive. I mean I can acknowledge a good looking guy but that would be it. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I be attracted to a guy enough to want to pursue him?

March 01, 2015

There's nothing wrong with you, you either haven't found what draws to you in terms or looks, sex appeal & personality or could possibly be attracted to the same sex instead. Are you?

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you know how the 20's are supposed to be your selfish years i feel like i am losing myself a bit in the relationship i am in because i want to live and have my own life, Is this a valid reason for a break up? Do you think i would regret it after?

March 01, 2015

Nope! It's a good enough reason. You could regret it, but you could also regret not being selfish with yourself.

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What if I don't drink? Lol!

February 28, 2015

That's fine. Wear some heels to spice up your look. Enjoy & have fun :-)

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Wearing lingirie for the first time ever any tips or some steps on what too do lol

February 28, 2015

Lool drink something! :-)

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All of my 'dating life' I've gone for the charming guys that have always ended up disappointing me, but now I've met a guy who is absolutely perfect - kind, thoughtful and really is a true gentleman. While I like him, I can't help but want him to be a bit charming? Confused.

February 28, 2015

Guys aren't going to be 100% what we want, but that doesn't mean you should stop dating. If he doesn't tick enough boxes continue, but if him not being 'charming' enough isn't that big of a deal stop fussing.

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Hey me and my ex broke up a year ago over something stupid we still talked after that but we live in different countries and now he got a new girl but he still checks up on me occasionally? Do you think is possible for us to get back or should I move on. It's hard

February 28, 2015

Move on, he has a new girl & you both live in different countries. Where is the possibility?

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I have been with my man 6 months but he has serious anger issues. I'm in love, but despite talking to him about his temper he never seems to think he's being irrational, he will treat me like I'm inferior and a child when he is angry. What should I do to let him see I'm at the end of my tether

February 28, 2015

That is just how he is unfortunately and sadly, unless he gets counselling nothing is changing any time soon. Express your concerns or walk before it becomes unhealthy.

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What should I be typically be feeling for a guy I've been seeing for a few months? I'm not infatuated, but I like him a lot. Just not giddy like I usually am with guys. But I do know that he's perfect so far, I just feel a little weird that I don't feel those typical feelings of excitment.

February 28, 2015

Liking him 'a lot' is enough for a couple of months. That's all you really need to feel about someone at that stage of seeing each other.

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So I'm either too big for my girl or she's too small for me. We can just about get the tip in before she starts saying it hurts and gotta stop. Lube helps but she still can't take it all. It's just frustrating. what do I do?

February 28, 2015

Use other sex toys, that'll help.

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... Other's house. I mean I've suggested things like cinema, going out to eat but it's like there's an avoidance and I'm not sure if it's because he wants sex. Well I know he does but it's not like there's any effort going in to get it.

February 28, 2015

You've just answered you own question if he's not making an effort & is clearly after one thing.. I mean unless that's all you want too, don't hold your breath.

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I've been speaking to this guy for about 6 months and it's very clear we both like and respect each other however I've been trying to get him to meet up for ages but it's like he's avoiding it. I have the hunch it's because of the slight distance and the fact we can't "chill" at each (cont)...

February 28, 2015

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