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I love and adore my man so much, i get so jealous and he hates that. What can i do?

Relax before you lose him. jealousy is healthy just don't go over board with it.

What's the longest a guy should wait before asking for sex if he's a serious person

There is no time limit, if he's serious he'll try to get to know her instead of focusing on solely the physical.

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If you are talking or seeing a guy and he doesn't text you for about a week and when you complain he says his busy but he's on social media does he like you or not ? Is it normal

He's not busy, he's just not that into you.

3) to date either?! Any advice?

Make sure you'e able to detach your feelings from your lower half, what you want is perfectly fine. Get yourself a healthy fwb instead of looking for a one night stand.

2) I'm not really feeling to start anything new with other guys (even tho i have other 'options'). Still getting over a break-up & don't wanna start anything new because i don't wanna catch feelings right now. However I want the sex, and feel conflicted. I'm not a ons kind of girl but don't want to

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1) 1) Lost my virginity to a guy & we have great sexual chemistry. He wants a no strings attached relation, but there are already some feelings involved. Idm him playing the field because he's single and i'm not looking for a commitment. Whenever I iniate things he'll say no, but then he'll just pop

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I don't feel fully physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore, we have been in a relationship for three years and I have kind of lost my sex drive and my passion for sex and being adventorous , how do u suggest I get back on track and spice things up

What did you do before? Do that but more. Introduce new ideas to the room. Sexy lingerie to more foreplay. There many ideas you can both come up with to spice things up it all really depends on what you're both into.

My man has been ignoring my texts and calls for 5 days now without an explanation but I know he's been on his phone, should I just forget about him?

5 days? Are you sure you're in a relationship. Don't call or text any more, when he's ready he'll respond and unless he got hit by 279 there's really no excuse. It takes than less than 10 seconds to respond to a text.

Thank you so much for answering my question (last week I sent my photo) so also, I'm going to email for your help as you suggested. I feel ready to grow up

No problem love :-) x

People always write paragraphs and paragraphs to you and you only respond with like 5 words. Do you actually take time to think of your responses or just go on impulse?

Paragraphs do not mean anything if it's the same gist I get in almost every post. Using 1,000 words to explain a scenario will never alter my response if i believe theres only one thing that needs to be done :-)

...He's met my mum and my family really like him. I've never told my friend how I felt/feel about him my question is am I going against "girl code" ? I really like him and I think he likes me aswell but idk if I'm just catching feeling for no reason or potentially ruining freindship

She never liked him so you've done nothing wrong, but still talk to her about it.

He's confided I'm me about really personal stuff and whenever I've stopped at his we spoon and cuddle and there's been times that we've almost kissed. He's written poetry about me and is basically just perfect lol. ...

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I like a guy who liked one of my friends. I had feelings for him before I knew how he felt about her. They both would complain about the situation to me. She never liked him in a romantic way and he's told me he doesn't like her anymore. We've started to get really close and spend huge amounts of

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How do you get over someone, someone you happen to be living with? Nothing has happened between us, they don't know how I feel but I'd like to get over it.

Hopefully you don't spend a lot of time together. Try meeting new interests & date!

Is it worth it, in your opinion, to sue an old partner/friend for spreading rumours and damaging my identity? its troubled my education (university education), social life, & professional opportunities.

Have you spoken to them about it? And yeah if it's messed up professional opps for you, suing for slander seems right.

So my question is am I wrong for accusing her of jealousy because I know a lot about her from looking at her accounts online / she seems nice and artsy but I think she wants to be me

You should have left that situation alone. You accuse her of jealousy, then what? What now? The only person who your attention should have been focused on is your bf. if you felt she was doing things to tick you off you should have told him. I honestly think if you ignored her she would have stopped bothering you.
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-Ed now by other people who have repeated what I've said and I'm not sure wtf to do now because I told her to stop thinking about the only man she has touched

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Realized her motive. I been calling her out for a while cause I'm pretty sure she was trying to see into my life and copy me and just stalk me / it's clear she's jealous of me regardless of how nice she seemed. She looks like she'd be jealous, a bit dusty, so I called her out & she has been terroris

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Recently I called out the girl my ex was briefly hooking up with before me on Instagram because I thought she was trying to figure me out/stalk me. He still never told her we were together and kinda fucked up because she was a virgin before him and he was her first everything so I got pissy once I

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I recently plucked up the courage to walk away from an emotionally abusive situation. I'm proud of myself but I feel a sense of loss and I still feel a little down. I know I don't miss him truly, but how do I overcome that feeling? I want to believe that I'll find love again. Please help. Thanks x

You overcome that feeling by spending more time with good friends and family...keeping yourself busy. Well done for walking away, i'm sure it wasn't easy but eventually you'll look back and be thankful.

What do you think about masturbation ? Do you think / feel it's a sin

Nope! I think it's very natural and a great way to learn more about your body.

My bf's ex is very obsessive. She keeps trying to interact with him, likes all his pictures, follows all the people he follows, emails him etc. he doesn't entertain it but it's weird. Should I tell him to block her?

If he's not entertaining it then there is no need. If it bothers you that MUCH tell him instead.

So there's this guy that has feelings for me, I like him aswell (a lot) but I don't feel a physical/sexual attraction towards him... My like for him is based on his personality, is that a bad thing?

Nope not at all.

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