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1a)Hi. So basically I've started talking to a guy I met online. We speak and FaceTime every day and he is literally perfect. He studies abroad though so only comes on the holidays. One day I asked him since we started talking and saying we liked eachother how many girls has he slept with and he said

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I never been in a relationship I always question is it because I am ugly or not flirty I dunoe what to do ?

as long as you work on yourself on the inside as well as the outside, you will never have any problem attracting someone. Give it time, relationships come when you least expect it at times.

... to be missed but I still do. There was little things he would do and say that just got me so attached and made me sometimes think that maybe he does genuinely like me but then he would turn back around and his actions would prove otherwise

Darling, let it go. This guy seems like a douche, the little things he says should hold no value, if he has treated you unfairly. Let it go, move on, and date new people.

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... And now he's cut me off and didn't say why and then I found out something really big which means he definately was seeing someone else behind my back but I miss him so much. I've deleted his number and got rid of all our old messages but it's still so hard. I know he doesn't deserve...

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.. Don't like him but I really did but I was scared to let him in because he only ever spoke to when he wanted sex and we didn't go anywhere or do anything so I knew I wasn't being treated like I deserve and when I'm hearing all these things about him why would I take him seriously?.....

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I was seeing a boy for a year and it was just sex so I wasn't taking it seriously so I was talking to other guys and things start coming out about him involving other girls but yet he would get angry at me when it came to other boys and I know that it seems as if being with other guys means I....

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I was seeing a guy for 2 years off and on. We then got together for a few months this year we have now split up. His reasons was work commitments he felt bad he didn't have time for me. Do you think this is a excuse? Also I miss him so much what do I do?

Why are you 'seeing' a guy on and off. That sounds bogus. Someone who wants to be with you will create time, it sounds like a very bad excuse. There's nothing wrong with missing him, however to miss does not mean you should go back.

Been in a relationship 8 months, my bf has broken up with me twice & said he didn't mean it. The 2nd time I said we need time apart but I don't know if it's the right thing to do. He's always accusing me of things & doesn't take ownership of the wrong he does, bad mouths me to his cousins. Confused?

This is too much drama for 8 months. There's nothing to be confused about, you have red flags left right and centre. Move on.
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I've dated a few guys, and it seems to end for the same reasons; lack of intamacy. I always feel it's to soon for me to just jump into bed with them, but it seems they think I don't like them because I haven't jumped into bed. Am I just being a prude? What are your views?

You're not being prude, you sleep with someone who you're comfortable with. Simple. Also, it may sound cliche but the right guy will wait.

I always seem to end up with men who don't want commitment. Is the problem me, or just the kind of men I go for?

That's just the typical story for a lot of men these days, however I do think you should try going for a different type of guy if you feel you attract similar ones.

My BF broke up with me because he always saw himself being with a black girl and i'm white.. But he still wants to be best friends and close with me. Should I decline and move on ?

Move on, he's an asshole.

Advice for ladies who have feelings for men that already have partners?

Pray to God to remove those feeling.
As long as you don't act on them and keep yourself busy, they'll leave eventually.

where should i go to meet new people- recently broke up with my boyfriend and need to get my mind off stuff :(

Go to a new type of social gathering, there are several

I got an interesting movie for you to watch on youtube called "four of hearts" I believe it would be good for your next book :) I like your works

Aww thank you! I'll check it out tonight :-) x

Sorry thought the question didn't go through lol

It did. I wanted to post is a question on my blog tomorrow. Would you prefer an answer right now?

I sometimes feel suffocated in my relationship What should I do ?

Recognise what part of the relationship is suffocating you & talk to your partner about it.

what makes you an expert on relationships etc? (not meant to antagonise) but like what qualifies you?

I'm not an expert. Furthest thing. What qualifies me however? Writing about sex, love lust, happiness, disappointment & betrayal for over 7 years. Oooh & being nominated by one of the top selling magazines this year.

Hey, I've been with my bf for 5 years. I'm dark skinned and sometimes he tells me I should bleach (he says its a joke) I don't find it hilarious. I want to leave the relationship because I will never bleach my skin. How do I tell him? Xx

That's disgusting. Tell him how you feel & say you don't want to be with him anymore.

Thanks! but i'm 19 and never even kissed a girl, I have bad anxiety and find it so hard to just start talking to girls, especially girls that i'm attracted to. I also don't know how or where I could find girls so that doesn't help

Well you need to be more sociable. Don't focus on kissing, what you need to focus on is being more comfortable around them as that's what you need.

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