Oloni

I'm scared that telling him how I feel will change the juxtaposition of our friendship & make things awkward if he does not feel the same way.

February 28, 2015

But you'll never know if he feels the same, simply expressing an interest won't make thing awkward. It's how you handle if after that could.

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i was with a guy a while back in this caring relationship He broke up with me and then contacted me 2 yrs later. Our convo didn't go past hey how's life. I then asked if he was back home. no response. Contact him a month after that and I get no response again..am I being ignored?help me understand

February 28, 2015

Yes he is ignoring you, let it go.

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I want to date white men, how can I be more appealing to that race?

February 28, 2015

Give me a break.

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I saw a text aswell saying "yesterday man" i keep thinkung they hve sex

February 28, 2015

Ask him about it.

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Took my mans phone nd saw him and sme girl saying how she wants to see him of he wants to spend time with her. Wen i confronted him he said they are just friends they just chill nd smoke weed, he even called the girl to prove to me, should i be worried?

February 28, 2015

Eh, not eh not really. But if you don't like it tell him.

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Ok this guy came back to me after 3 yrs and apologised for all the wrongdoings he did to me in the past. Saying he was stupid and regrets his actions. I really love him so I gave in and we slept together. Now he isn't making any effort to communicate with me. What should I do?

February 28, 2015

Move on, he has.

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Hey boo

February 28, 2015

Hi

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When is enough, enough ?

February 28, 2015

When it starts to become unhealthy.

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Is it wrong for a female to watch gay porn? It sort of turns me on but I've stopped because it feels weird.

February 28, 2015

If it turns you on it turns you on several women watch gay porn. Whatever makes you happy and horny.

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i was the last question, i know it sounds ridiculous but i'm almost 19 now. I've always wanted to wait till i was married but i don't know anymore.

February 28, 2015

People change their mind all the time & that is okay. The importance lies in what reason your doing it for. To explore your sexuality or for social acceptance??

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I was usually the one out of my friends who spoke about sex and seemed to know the most but i am still a virgin. And now they are all having sex and i feel a bit left out. What if nobody wants me.

February 28, 2015

Having sex doesnt mean they automatically know more than you do. You can still pretty much be involved & talk about sexuality etc. Don't rush into losing your v card so you can participate in a convo please. Can you hear how ridic it sounds? Do it when you're ready.

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I'm so paro, I end it with guys over things that other people will stay with for example lying. How do I get over this

February 28, 2015

You don't, you have your standards stick to it. If lying is a deal breaker it's a deal breaker.

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I have been with my boyfriend for three years now, but im so paranoid, i keep thinking his cheating

February 28, 2015

Read my latest blog.

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I'm in the early stages of my relationship but he's doing a lot of things that annoys me. We do like each other ALOT and h me worked pretty hard too get me, but I don't want too Bombard him with things and scare him away, but I feel like he needs too know /:

February 27, 2015

You can talk to him in a civilised manner & let him know what annoys you. Youre supposed to communicate in a relationship, despite how 'hard' he worked to get you.

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2) but now everything has changed. He doesn't act the same way that he used to. If he sees me in college, all he says is "you alright" then walks off after. There's no spark. I never expected to like him but now that I do, he doesn't seem to care. We argue and/or fall out quite abit & currently...

February 27, 2015

He's lost interest move on.

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1) there's this guy that has liked me for a long while, but I wasn't interested in him at the time. But a couple of weeks ago I started talking to him and I neve realised how sweet he was. He's not the best looking, but he's really nice to talk to. We're not dating, but we kind of act like we are

February 27, 2015

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Could I ask what's the Ann summers prize? X

February 27, 2015

Of course! It's a rosegold massager.

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I'm going threw a really rough patch with the guy I'm seeing, we aren't intimate anymore and every time we talk it's to dig at what the other person is doing wrong. Sometimes I feel like leaving him, but then the potential of our relationship stops me. And other times I wonder if I broke up with him

February 27, 2015

You can't be with someone you can't talk to. Have a breather & get some mutual space from each other.

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I love this guy but he has trust issues. According to him, the main thing stopping us from being together is his fear that I'll cheat. Apparently there's a certain character he goes for and I don't fit it. Yet he likes everything else. I'm loyal. I've NEVER cheated. I want to be his. What can I do?

February 27, 2015

He's making up excuses, date someone who doesn't have such unjustified insecurities please.

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Hey Oloni Xx so im in a serious relationship with my boyfriend but were both ready to have sex but we both have strict catholic parents so we arent able to do it at our own houses and he is broke and wouldnt be able to pay for a hotel And I would love to pay but he keeps refusing, he is ashamed?

February 27, 2015

Not ashamed, he probably just doesnt want you to spend your money as he's the guy. More like an ego thing.

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Seen your suggestions, I'll try that. Thank you!

February 27, 2015

:-)

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Social settings like wat? I didn't ask the previous question but I can relate

February 27, 2015

Friendly house gatherings, events that take place where you're able to network etc etc

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I'm 19, bit of a hopeless romantic and never been in a serious relationship but sometimes I just kinda crave male attention. I know how sad that sounds but sometimes I just want someone of the opposite sex to talk to ( dont have any close male friends ) any advice to get me out of this 'funk'?

February 27, 2015

Yes, get yourself out there. Have you tried meeting guys when going out (and not clubs) but different social settings.

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I don't sleep around, he's the 2nd person I've ever slept with.. How do I go about the situation.. Can I be angry or did I just give it up too easily (part 2)

February 27, 2015

Sleeping with him 'too soon' may not be the issue. That's the thing, if you slept with him 5 months later he probably would have had the same attitude. It's a difficult one. He may have lost interest but don't be too hard on yourself. See other people instead and clarify intentions in the future, it could help.

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So I've know this guy for a while and I knew he liked me so in January we started talking a lot more, & slept with him quite recently. things between us ain't the same like before we texted everyday, now when I text him he makes me feel like I'm an annoyin him.. Now I actually like him (part1)

February 27, 2015

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