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on top of that my friends are questioning me too. I don't let people influence me but now I kind of think that something is wrong with me... Not that being gay is wrong haha but like why boys don't like me? Or why did I never have a crush? Do you have some advices? 2/2

You've probably got the same daily routine, especially being 17. You see the same people daily which is why you think no one likes you. Meet new peopleeeee! & politely ask your friends to stop making such an issue over something which doesn't affect them if it annoys you.

I have a question. I'm 17 soon to be 18 and I NEVER had a boyfriend once in my life. I actually don't really care for some reason but lately people been stressing me with dumb questions like "are u gay?" and shit like that. And I'm starting to question myself bc and my friends on top of that 1/2

Mhmm

I was with a guy for a year n half I met him in 2011 and I said to myself I could never get with him bcoz of his lifestyle. Then I fell for him. I really liked him and I let alot slide. We r no longer together it's been like 7 months. Till this day he still comes to mind I dunno what to do

He will always be on your mind. You were together for a year & a half. Like i always say just because you declare you're moving on doesn't mean you'll get over it immediately. You still need to give yourself time to get over everything. Remember what you didn't like about the rship & keep yourself busy.

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I honestly don't see a future without him but I'm scared he might be using me because he knows I like him. What are your thoughts? Especially as he doesn't wants titles right now but we didn't have them before- maybe I'm overthinking and should just see what happens..

Why would you think someone who likes you is using you? Pay attention to that thought especially if you aren't together. I don't know how long you've been seeing each other, so i cant say if you're over thinking. However, if he had said thing could lead there you can either wait or tell him you'd like to be in an exclusive relationship. Kind of like how you are already.

But I really care about him and wanna be with him forever <3 I'm scared of getting my heart broken. Should I be worried about him not wanting titles right now or that he might find someone else or am I just being paranoid?? This is the second time we're trying and I really want to make it work

Mhmm

So me and this guy have decided to give things a go, we haven't put titles on things and we've slept together. He says things could lead to bf/gf but let's just see. He's says he not talking to anyone and I belive him and I'm not either. There's distance between us and we're both real busy...

Uh huh.

Or should I get with him now to avoid losing him. I would hate if he meets someone else because I waited 2/2

If you want something go after it, especially if you have a connection. I understand you worrying about school but having a partner throughout it, is possible too.

I like this guy and he likes me too. We chill together and get food together sometimes. We haven't done much really. We've just kissed. Whenever I see him my feelings get stronger. I just Enjoy his company a lot. Should I wait till after uni to become romantically involved with him 1/2

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(Continue)should I mention to her it is not about sex and if she wants sex, she should be the one to mention it. I want it to be more of a bonding of our friendship

Yes, tell her!

I am a guy and want to be in a relationship with a female that I am talking to now but I am scared that she will decline. What is the best way to start a conversation about relationship. What are some things I should say? How do you feel about a woman dictating the sex aspect in a relationship?

What reason do you have to be scared? Is she with someone?! I'm guessing not! She's probably waiting for you to say something. Be forward and tell her how you feel, it's that simple TALK! You can't be scared, the worst that can happen is she says she not interested. If that happens at least you know you told her, rather than wondering 'What if?'
Everyone is different when it comes to sex, some men enjoy being the dominant ones others don't. It all boils down to what you're both comfortable with.

What is your opinion on a long distance relationship? I want to be in a relationship with the girl I am talking to now but we don't live in the same state. She has goals and got her things together, I don't want to lose her because I think she is the right one way. I am willing to commit.

It honestly depends on how long you'll be long distance for & if it's reasonable (because of work for example) and even then, long distance after a year is a nono in my eyes. But if YOU'RE willing to make it work do so! Talk to her about it too if you believe she's the one. They don't fall out of the sky every day.

What is the best way for a guy to approach a female to ask for sex or other sexual intentions?

There is no 'best way' but you can usually sense when a woman is on the same page as you if she shows ANY type if interest. Just keep it real, right from the beginning. Luckily we live in a society where women are becoming more confident about their sexuality, so appreciate that.

I'm absolutely in love with this guy. He was my first love and my 'first'. He did me so wrong and made a lot of promises that he didn't keep. However, I'm finding it hard to move on. I've cried so much and I'm so tired of feeling low. Meanwhile he's out having fun, sleeping around etc. Any advice?

It sounds like that's his own way of getting over things. It hurts & i understand that so what you need to do is not focus on him, but yourself. Keep yourself busy by doing different things. The more you do with yourself, the less you'll think about him. I hope that helps x

Im a 17 year old girl and ive never masturbated before, is this common and how should i do it, im scared :(

Masturbating is very natural and you do it when you are ready. Go online to see the many ways you can do it.

Or am I just fluffing for someone else?

You're not fluffing if you're in a relationship with him. However you do become a wife fluffer if he gets married right after your relationship ends. You're not asking for much & its understandable a lot women want to be that 'shooting in the gym' girl. Just fund a balance & make sure youre IN IT not out of it & helping him to the success you speak of. For anyone who hasn't read #TheExperience The Girlfriend Fluffer go to simplyoloni.com & download it there for FREE!

.. I love the idea of working hard together, encouraging him, etc. building a bond. But then incoporating this idea of being a 'fluffer'. Does this mean I'm setting myself up to be, I don't know, a wife fluffer? There's nothing wrong with success but I want more, I want to be there, on the way..

Cont..

I don't like success men. I like men that are still on their way. There's nothing wrong with them, it's just, I only get to see the final product. I feel like I've missed out on your journey, everyone else got to see and go with you & I just turn up at the finish line..

Uh huh

Secret girl again. I've tried leaving but I'm finding it very hard to let go, any tips for moving on?

Write down why what you're in isn't good for you. When you get the urge to communicate read it over. Go out more meet new people & explore new places and block his number.

I have been secretly seeing (at 1st the secrecy was on both our terms now just on his) and sleeping with this guy for a year and recently he says he can't give me a relationship right now. He wants too but he's not in a good place. He knows that I want more. The limbo phase is getting hard. Help!

Leave. The limbo phase is hard because he's got you where he wants. If he can't give you what you want, why not find someone who can? Also a year is far too long to be in such a position, call it quits quickly.

Do you is it possible to form a platonic friendship with an individual you were once in love with?

Of course there are many, it doesn't happen over night but it is very possible to eventually become nothing but friends.

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