Oloni

I'm a girl and I've never had an orgasm during sex. I've tried everything it just isn't happening ..

February 18, 2015

Many women don't reach an orgasm through sex. Truth is we just lie to men, you have a better chance reaching a climax by yourself. Try rabbit ear stimulators when masturbating

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Hey oloni I'm supposed to be going on a date tomorrow night with this guy but he hasn't messaged me in nearly 48 hrs but he's been online on watsapp all day on and off. The last time we spoke he gave me one reply n and iv not heard from him since this was nearly 48 hrs ago should I just forget it?

February 18, 2015

He doesn't sound serious. But confirm it by saying 'just checking we're still on for xyz tomorrow'

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I am extremely sexually frustrated and I know that my ex is an option as I do not feel comfortable having sex with anyone new. However we had a really tough break up & we haven't really been the same since & he says he really wants to be my mate but I just want to smash, what do I do?

February 18, 2015

Get some toys! Having sex with an ex is a tricky one since feelings get involved. You want to smash now, but tomorrow you'll swear he looked at you in a certain way or that you rather hold hands after sex. EMOTIONS x SEX= disaster. Toyssss.

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to cut a long story short.. he would hang it over my head despite the fact i know he hasnt been exclusive from the start..(i can be annoyingly passive) ...we have not spoken in a while and i dunno whether to tell him i am thinking of warming up the whats app again..dont want it to bite me in the ass

February 18, 2015

I'm confused. So a guy who isnt your boyfriend got mad that you started seeing other guys even though he showed no interest? Now youre wondering if you can talk to other guys or not??? Lol darling do as you please.

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...absolutely exclusive to him thought this was just how it goes its fading etc..i started to respond to other guys/see them.. he found out it blew up in my face horrrrribbblyyy...after over 6 months of trying to mend and repair (on my part; as i just thought well its my fault for misunderstanding..

February 18, 2015

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hello, i was involved (not even sure if it was technically seeing tbh) for just over a year..lots of bumps where he would basically become distant : never called, never initiated our meetings, shit with texting too..kind of the stuff that shouts he's just not that into you ...so i after being......

February 18, 2015

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Broke up with my ex 2months ago and we still agreed to talk. I miss him and he misses me too ( so he says). I know we probably won't ever be an item again but I want him to be my best friend ,I genuinely care for him and I think I always will. What can I do to make this happen ?

February 18, 2015

Give it some time 2 months is still a very fresh break up.

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I'm dating a great guy and I'm slowly but surely falling for this guy. There's just one thing though: I'm terrified to fall in love with someone. I have never been in love but the idea of someone controlling my feelings and the thought of them possibly leaving me when I'm in too deep scares me.

February 18, 2015

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It seems like everyone that comes along is not the right one. And nothing lasts longer than 2 months max cos they'll do something that I feel like is disrespectful. My friends think I'm top picky but I just don't know

February 18, 2015

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I'm 23 and in an interracial relationship (I'm Nigerian he's white British), we're very happy together but my parents are EXTREMELY against interracial relationships and my dad's esp. is not changing his mind on this situation. What should I do?

February 18, 2015

You're 23 you can make decisions on your own. It's sad to think that out of all the things that could be wrong they pick race. If he loves you & treats you well his lack of melanin trumps the thoughts of your family.

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Everytime I go too break up with my Boyf he does things too make me not want too. Deep down I don't want too because I were good together but he just doesn't have the time for me. He's so busy becus he just opened a business so I'm trying too support him and allow him to do what he needs too do.

February 18, 2015

Talk to him about it.

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My ex is getting married, and I'm very happy for him. My friend who's also his cousin has invited me to the wedding as her plus one and I'm worried that if he sees me there it'll be a bit awkward. I don't have feelings for him anymore, but I know it'll be weird! Should I go?

February 18, 2015

I don't think it's the greatest idea. How was your history and why not directly contact him to see if it's fine.

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You say for a guy to like is not enoughm, so what is enough?

February 18, 2015

I might write about it soon :-)

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You should guest appear on the on topic show .. I think it would be lovely too have a lady like you to be on the panel lol

February 18, 2015

Hahaha who knows :-) @mrexposed

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i want to ask you something but i don't want it on twitter as anoynymous or whatever because the person might see it and guess and know that its me asking which will be highly embarrassing can i email you?

February 18, 2015

Yes itsoloni@gmail.com

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I've found it really hard to get over my ex even though he treated me so badly I still find it hard. But I think its cos I kept going back to him too. I've decided to never go back but I'm always thinking about him. What should I do??

February 18, 2015

Meet new people who will take your mind of him! Go out more, keep yourself busy. You go back to him out of familiarity & boredom.

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My boyfriend of two years broke up with me on Valentine's day. He sent me a card through the post. I thought it would have been a Valentines card of some sort but it was a thank you card with the message "sorry but I can no longer do this". I've been crying ever since, I'm broken, what to do

February 18, 2015

Oh noo! Cry & let it all out. That was not needed. You need to have some time to yourself & seriously let allll your emotions out. After keep yourself around family & friends. YOU WILL BE FINE!!

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How do trust again, i really think I lve pushed away a guy that generally liked me but he had traits of my ex that I couldn't handle

February 18, 2015

Just cus he likes you does not make him enough for you!! He had traits of your ex something which is clearly a red flag.

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Do you sometimes get overwhelmed by all the relationship issues and questions you have to answer?

February 18, 2015

Sometimes but it's a good thing.

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I found out myself my boyfriend has been unfaithful (right after a lovely valentines day together) he said he didn't physically cheat but was flirting and being sent sexual pictures from another girl, I'm currently giving him the silent treatment but all I want to do is talk to him, do you think I s

February 18, 2015

The silent treatment should be done as a way for YOU to think about how you feel & want to do. Don't do it if youre not thinking about it properly. He fucked up big time. And you have every reason to be annoyed & disheartened. When youve had some time.. talk to him about how you feel & LISTEN to what he says. Your decision will come from that.

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Is e mailing you 100% confidential ? And roughly how long is the wait for a response ?

February 18, 2015

Yes. 1 week.

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My ex and I broke up recently and I can't get over him. I've become really anti-social and cut everyone off because I was so depressed about it. But I want to be happy again. What should I do?

February 17, 2015

Be around those who make you happy. Do the things you did before you met!

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If he doesn't let me go through his phone, should i be worried?

February 17, 2015

Not really.

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He proper messaged me bullshit like.. like he don't know me. Why be kool one time then piss me off the next time. I don't bother him. He is even the main reason why we are done. What is wrong with him

February 17, 2015

Ask him if you want. I can't tell you that.

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Broke up with my ex almost a year ago we had a messy break up. Both annoyed with each other for various reasons. We no longer talk or have nunbers nothing. Social media is the only we could possible talk. He contacted me twice once to like patch things up so we are kool then next he pissed me off...

February 17, 2015

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