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I've never been in a long term relationship before but I really want to. But as soon as something get serious I get scared and I try to find something wrong with the guy

A lot of people get like this, it's either fear of commitment or not being used to being with someone that's RIGHT for you.

Do you think I'm narrow minded because when I start talking to a guy I don't have sex with them. As soon I talk to a guy whether it sooner or later something about sex is mentioned and I just but them off. My friends say all boys talk like that

No, not all. Not all guys make sex the topic of discussion so your friends are wrong.

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Know any nice single christian guys looking for a girl?

Yes plentyyy at #SOMinglingSoiree get a ticket :-) simplyoloni.com x

My man farts, bumps in front of me. My friends say it shows his comfortable with me. What do you think?

As long as he says pardon & excuse me who cares lol

What do you think of interracial relationships? I'm currently in one and at least once a day me and my parter are told that a Turkish boy and black girl aren't meant to be together and how we should both stay dating within our races. It's very frustrating... Sometimes we don't know how to deal w/ it

I have no opinion on IR theyre no different to any other relationship if I'm honest. You both know way too many ignorant people and need to cut them out. Your question should not be about skin colour & my opinion, but how to get rid of people who pass such pessimism your way.

Hey oloni I came out of a 2 year long relationship about 6 months ago, I decided to take a break from guys for a while and focus on me. I now feel like I'm ready to move on I miss being in a meaningful relationship someone I could potentially get married to however the guys I come across want sex st

That's because that's what a majority of men are after. Weeding out the ones who want more is the next step. Give it time & keep searching. Sadly, we can't just wake up one day & say we want a boyfriend and expect one to land in our arms. So go to new places meet new people, make new friends go on dates!! :-)

How can I switch things up in the bedroom for valentines day?

Use toys experiment with different vibrators. Use flavoured lube, dress up. There are several ways.

First Valentine's Day single without my ex. :( any tips for the depressed single girls on Valentine's Day

Yes, I have an interview coming out where I answer this. But really & truly spend it getting pampered, treat yourself for the whole weekend. You'll be fine x

I just want a sex buddy does that make me a slag! I'm in uni and have no time for a relationship just want fun

Of course not, just choose one wisely.

When you got older did you feel more sexually comfortable? Like now I'm 17 and still feel shy around my man. He wants me to wear thongs and sexy lingerie but I don't feel i sexually ready to expose my body that way yet. I'm a virgin btw :)

As you get older depending on who you're with/how long/ experience yes you will become more comfortable. You'll do all those things when you're ready, don't rush.

He hits me

He has to go, fast, better now as it will get harder later. Please do so & speak to someone immediately feel free to email me itsOloni@gmail.com - I wouldn't mind having a phone chat with you anonymously either x

I want to date white men, how can I be more appealing to that race?

Well, you have to wear your hair..sike. Nothing, you do nothing but (here comes the cliche of all cliches) be yourself.

I'm 20 and he's 29 .... And we have too hide because at my job we can't date customers and he's a regular

Where do you work that your job has a say over who you can/can't date? Either way you don't have to 'hide' anything. Just keep it private, you don't have to pass your iphone around the staff room showing everyone what you got up to on your last date.

Dating a guy for 3 months. He's come back from holiday, I had to initiate conversation with him and he called but haven't heard back from him since which is odd as we usually speak all the time. I'm worried he's doing the usual flaky thing men do when they're no longer interested.

Honestly? You could be right, but be patient & see what happens.

Is it bad if a guy only wants to make last minute plans to see you and how would you confront it?

If he does it ALL the time. Just talk to him about if it happens more than 3 times.

Starting too develop feeling for a older guy but we can't be seen 2gether because im not really meant too be talking too him. At 1st I wasnt attracted too him but now I start catching myself saying I miss him and I want too see him. But I don't want too continue in hiding. What do I do ?

You have to give me more than this. How old is too old? Are you 16 whilst he's 26??

Ive always been the one to get what I want. I go to the guy and start te conversation and get his number. I no longer do this because it's ended up bad. But im tired of waiting for guys to notice me. What should I do... Patience is hard sometimes

There's nothing wrong with what you do. Just try to not do it all the time. Let a man be a man.

..I'm really confused on what to think on the behavior because I was hoping to establish a friendship with him , I just want to understand it better

Give it some more time & let him reply. When you do respond include what you just told me & explain how weird you found it.

So I finally got the courage to speak to my ex from 2 yrs ago. He hits me up first via email for a brief conversation that didn't go past..hey how's life..I asked if he was back hishorn state. I get no reply. A month later I emailed him saying hi, trying to initiate conversation,he didn't reply ...

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I feel like I'm done with the single life and then but when I start talking to someone they turn out to be a right clown and it just makes me want to be single, what will be your advise to someone who hasn't dated that much or is finding it hard

As I always sayyy! You need to meet new people & go to NEW places, try giving a chance to a guy who you wouldn't normally & NEVER put all your eggs in one basket.

my FWB and I are quite open with each other in regards to sex and experimenting. Although saying this he's told me that he wants me to 'sit on his face' and I'm nervous! what exactly do I do? do I ride or stay still? this might sound like a silly question but i honestly feel i'm in a dilemma! lol

Looool just ask him dear, he'll guide you. Happy sitting.

I've been talkinf to this guy for about there months. He has asked me to come over to sleep round I said no and today he asked me to send him nudes? I texted back saying no. Now he's airing my texts but he is tweeting other girls? What should I do with him?

Let him gooo! Lol he sounds useless.

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