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I am talking to a girl who at first seemed to be really into me but now all of sudden communication has gone and I haven't spoken to her in nearly a week. Should I just give up or continue to try?

It's only been a week. Reach out her, she could just be busy

Was seeing this guy for a couple months. One day everything stopped he claimed it wasn't me but still ghosted. Then popped back up like nothing happened. Should I forget him?

Yes, this person is clearly not that serious if no explanation has been given to playing Casper.

Hi Oloni. I was seriously disrespected by my ex even though I was so faithful & loyal to him, and I'm a nice person. I even lost my virginity to him. I'm starting to get over it slowly but I'm scared of being hurt again or disrespected by a guy again like that. What should I do?

Sleeping with someone doesn't guarantee a happily ever after. Learn from this relationship, pick yourself up from it & LEARN. You'll be fine.

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My boyfriend gets annoyed that other guys are asking for me number and asking me out. I've turned them down plenty of times and even in front of him told them I have a boyfriend and He still gets annoyed. Like what Is a girl supposed too do

He needs to get a grip if you're blatantly shutting them down. You can't 'DO' anything but carry on & also talk to him about it.

So my ex and I dated for about 6 years but broke up a year ago. She has a new man and I've dated several girls since. Now a part of me wants her back but a part of me is unsure plus I don't want to break up her relationship. Do I tell her or?

If she's in a relationship you honestly have to leave her be. Regardless of your history. Leave it alone & move on.

You might like this here. A girl I happened to meet at your mingling event have been talking, we've gone out a few times and been quite close since that event. Can definitely say that a connection has been formed lol. Think you will find this very interesting. This is coming from a guy that you know

Whoop. Eyyyyyy thank you so much for attending.

I've been single for a while now, had some issues with relationships in the past but I feel ready to move on and maybe see someone now. How do you suggest I get myself out there ?

By going to new places & being around NEW people.

I'm Christian and my partner is Muslim. Obv in the lond run we probably couldn't be together because of our religions, I don't think his mum would want us too be together.And with my parents it'll be the age gap. Should I stop seeing him now before we get in too deep and have too break up eventually

It's entirely up to you! There are so many happily married people who have different faiths.

Adding to the previous question- I've slept with a lot of guys as well like 10 and I've had some experiences and bad ones. But right now I'm my life is really hectic and I don't desire commitment or a boyfriend, just dating and hot sex. As long as I don't get attached, this is an ok decision right?

Of course it is! Enjoy it x

I've had some relationships which didn't work out. I was bit down about but I managed to get over it. Now I feel I wanna start dating again but I don't wanna a boyfriend or a serious commitment, I want some1 I can talk to, chill and have sex with. Is there a downside to the type of arrangement?

Just one, eventually wanting more of the latter. A relationship.

As a Christian who's still a virgin , is it wrong to have a partner and do other sexual activities with them- oral etc before marriage ? Even if you think you could potentially marry them

I call this 'the everything but girl' - she'll suck, stroke but wont sleep with him. If i'm honest.. sex is sex. No matter how you're penetrated doing it with your hand doesn't make you any holier. If you want to wait, just wait.

Hi , I Msged u before I don't know if u got it basically my boyfriends ex is insinuating that she wants him back , he's a bit older than me so I feel a bit uneasy, they still talk which I really don't like but he has said that he has told her they can only be friends I don't want them talking

Just answered :-)

Hi, my boyfriend is a couple years older than me and his ex keeps insinuating that she wants him back, they still speak and I have a problem with it... Even though he let's her know what it is I still have a problem with them speaking. Am I overreacting and how do I tell him this

Talk to him about it, if you're uncomfortable with him talking to his ex let it be known.

I have been with this guy on and off for a year and a half and it's never been official because his boy used to like me.. But I want more than what he's offering but I feel like I'm wasting my time cos it will never get there but every time I try to get over him I come back I love him :( what do I d

Move on.

How do I start living me? Why do I always lend up hurt after giving my all? Where do I go from here

You're never supposed to give you're all that's the problem. To be self full you must be selfish.

Im finding it so hard to forget and get over my ex. I know keeping busy is the best way, but because I've got exams coming up so most of the time I'm revising. Whilst I'm revising my mind always drifts of into thinking about him, how can I stop this?

Doing other things to keep yourself busy. Chilling with friends etc etc. there is no spell that can do this over night, you'll just have to be string enough to let time take control

I have always been straight, but sometimes i like the idea of experimenting with girls, im not a lesbian, probably bicurious, but i just dont kno how to go about getting with a girl seeing as they are not as open as gays etc, any advice?

What are you talking about??! women are becoming more & more adventurous with their sexuality every day even if it is to say they've tried it. Relax & go to spots where you'll meet straight (but experimenting), bisexuals & lesbians. Have fun x

Hi oloni! My boyfriend hasn't been talking to parents or sister for while now and it's strange cos he so close to his sisters! And also he isn't in school this semester & I want 2 tlk 2 him bout what I think but I don't know how! How can I talk 2 him and make it better with his sisters n school!

Tell him you'd like to have a 'talk' with him (careful how you phrase it, guys get shit scared & think youre about to break up with them) do it in person & tell him your concerns with his family & school.
Now ......you're not Jesus so you can't fix his family or school issues. All you can do is be there and show him that you're bothered by it, but care.

I'm a guy and I have problems with feelings, I get attached quite easily, and mostly only get over an attachment when I pick interest in someone else. Any advice on how I can have better control

Yes ..decipher what gets you so attached. When you notice you are starting to catch feelings, take a little healthy break from that person. It'll help! Plus when youre dating it's okay to have more than one love interest. Eggs baskets etc etc

(last one) and as for my friend, she is extremely unlucky in love so when she tells me her relationship drama I sit there and wish her the best but also think "I wouldn't treat u like that". Its so frustrating

Hey Mr! This could be the odd case of the 80/20 rule. You have to really think hard about this one, especially since youve already said you don't want to leave the one you love for the one you like.
Think hard.. what are you doing to sort out your relationship itself? What a lot of us fail to do when in a rship, is fixing our own house. We watch it instead if trying to build it, some even go as far as to help knock nails into the roof of other relationships. Just be carfeul when making a decision & think for the future.

I dont want to leave the one I love for the one I like but when the one I like seems like a better match based on what I look for in a lady, I don't know what to do. I dont love my gf any less but I cant help but notice my friend who ticks all the boxes of my gf plus more

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