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I have been hurt in the past. My partner has hurt me too. I really want it to work but there's no trust currently. I know my partner loves me but they keep doing the same things to hurt me. I dunno if they are naive or they just don't love me as much as they say. I actually dunno what to do.

If this relationship isn't making you happy the only option is to leave. There's no way around it.

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If you've been talking to guy via what's app or text for 2 weeks if he hasn't called is that bad sign that your in the friendzone

Not friendzone! But mention you prefer phone calls & see if anything changes.

Do guys really care if you shave/wax down there? And if so what do most guys prefer??

Every guy is different, some care some don't either way a good ol wax will never disappoint a man.

I want to come to your soirée but I'm only 20

If you're a girl. Tix have sold out, if youre a guy 21 & above only!x

Have you been intimate with a white man before

Nope! But these aren't questions about my love life. It's about yours.

So I met a guy, we got on really well and decided to meet up again. Except his idea of meet up is 'come over' which is a no-no for me. I've made it clear I don't want to so he's dumped the responsibility of the meet up on me, saying 'he's up for whatever', am I stressing or is he lazy?

He's a lazy asshole, let it gooooooo.

Will you do another event that is 20+ instead of 21+ really annoyed I couldn't attend this event because of the age limit.

If you had messaged me I probably would have let you! But maybe, we'll see!xx

Nice, very kind and sweet but we just don't click? just feels like we go through the motions. I don't know what to do because my friend says he likes me always has but he never made a move, now he has a girlfriend but he's still telling me how he loves me but I'm not tryna hear it...

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I don't know what to do, there's one guy that I have been friends with for a long time now and we are co-dees, I love him to bits, always been there for me, we catch so much jokes, always treats me the best, basically all the important things I look for in a guy and then there is another guy...

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Continuation... What does all this mean? Now that I want to give him a chance he seems to friendzone me now a bit. What should I do? Xxx

If he it feels like he is friendzoning you, then he probably is, and the things he said in the past are just excuses.

There's this guy I like but I feel he is not entirely interested. He calls me but only when he knows he's left it too long and takes ages to reply to me. He says he is working constantly & never has time but a few weeks ago he was calling me non stop but I wasn't sure if I liked him & had exams

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I was doing baby boy while with my girl and now I wanna show her that she's the one but she's so distant and shuts me out. What am I meant to do to show her I'm sorry and I'm changing?

Actions, when she notices change she'll come around.

My girlfriend and I go to two different universities in completely different parts of the country. She has recently got the idea that I have cheated on her and that I'm lying to her. And no I havent cheated or lied to her. How do we work this issue out?

Talk to her & express why she needs to trust you. If she doesnt trust or know what you're capable of, it won't work!

Would you be doing another event? So sad the tickets are sold out :(

Subscribe to simplyoloni.com you'll get all the info first!!x

I'm actually upset I didn't a ticket, I just broke up with my bf/link and that would've been a perfect opportunity to meet someone new

Tickets were limited ❤️

How do you know if you're ready to settle down or not?

When you meet someone who gives you the feelings to do so

My friends with benefits gave me genital herpes and it really affects. I am now worried that no man will accept me . Any advice ?

You're going to have to be very careful with who you choose to be intimate with. I'd advise letting them know too. Make sure you're using the antiviral medicines & ALWAYS practice nothing but safe sex. It will be difficult but there are ways around it.

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