It's my boyfriend's birthday in a fortnight and I don't know what to do for him. I've recently stopped working so money isn't great ATM. Do you have any ideas I can do with no money¿?
Cook a nice meal at home!
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Oloni he choose another girl over me,and it hurts,what can i do to get over it
How does he do that?
My crush is unaware about how I feel about him, so when he's talking to beautiful girls in bars, I get so jealous. How can I stop feeling like this?
Make a move!
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Hey just wondering how soon is too soon to have sex with a guy your dating or does it even matter even though this guy seems pretty serious hence all the pre valentines day planning they have already started
It's entirely up to you, you can plan it & it can just happen. But when you're comfortable.
I really like what you're doing. Me personally I think should be something private but your blog and the platform you have helps a lot of people. I just wanted to ask although you're an adult being from a nigerian background what are your parents thoughts on your sex blog. Are they supportive ?
They're very supportive & I don't write about porn so I can't see why they'd shun away from it haha. I'm 24 years old and my parents are very open minded, so I'm lucky & blessed.
do you have to come to your event with someone or is it okay to come on your ones?
It's better to come on your own. And many people are!
Hi Oloni, I met a guy on Facebook (we have many mutual friends and I'd seen him before before we met online, but he never noticed me lol). Now, I'm totally cool with meeting online it's the 21st century and everyone does it. But, my African parents won't, and I'm not prepared to explain it to them.
There's not much to explain, you never met online. You found each other online..
I think I'm addicted to sex (I'm a female btw) I think about it all the time and I always want to have it but I don't want to go around sleeping with multiple guys and I'm not seeing anyone so I don't know what to do, sex toys don't seem to satisfy me either
Get a sex buddy, someone you're comfortable with and hopefully has a high libido like yourself (pretty much every guy) lol - you don't have to be in a relationship to enjoy sex, satisfy those urges. Just make sure it's safe and practical.
I've recently got with someone and I have grown strong feeling for him but some how he has my best friends number and they are always texting back and forth, I have confronted them and they said they are planning a surprise for me but i have a felling its lies. How do i tackle this?
Talk to your best friend as right now her loyalty should lie with you. Explain to her that you'd prefer if she's cut down on how often she and the guy spoke. The surprise is no longer a surprise so she can forget that lame excuse.
Heya :) I'm in my early 20's just looking to meet some new people and was wondering where would be a good place to start? Didn't get a ticket for your event because I had no one to go with but now I totally regret it! :( but what other places would be good to meet people?
Try new events aimed at dating or simply socialising (not clubbing) join new classes etc etc there are several ways. Sorry you couldn't get a ticket. Hopefully next time!!x
Thoughts on sending your bf naked snapchats?
You have imessage, whats app, email. Why that lol?
I want to join tinder but worries my ex will see me on tinder. I haven't been with him for ten months and don't want anything to do with him. Do you think I shouldn't get tinder because I'm scared of seeing my ex on tinder?
You can see your ex on the road will you find a new way to get to your destination because of him? Lool do what you want, youre not together.
Months later and I still can't get over my ex link.. EX LINK!! Not even a bf sigh, tips?? And any reasons why I'm still hung up?
Cus you havent chosen to move on & meet a new guy
What dating apps and dating sites would you recommend or do you know of?
The obvious Tinder & a new one i discovered Meet Up
I think deep down I'm a very sexual person but I suppress my passion & need for exciting thrilling sex as I feel that that makes me 'dirty' or a 'slut' - I don't know how to shake this feeling/mindset....
You feel this way because as women society has shown us enjoying sex is slutty. It isn't.. sex is a great & a thrilling sensation. Sex was made for you & I to enjoy. Do not feel dirty or slutty for loving one of the most enjoyable experiences. It's all about discovering your sexuality.
Ok Oloni. I met up with this guy today. We've been talking seeing each other for a couple weeks - things got heated but no intercourse occurred. Will he think less of me because of what happened today?
Every guy is different, you'll know how he feels about you in time. But remember if he likes you enough he won't try to judge you on something you were both involved in.
Was currently in an interracial relationship with an English man & I West African woman. I recently found myself in a financial fix & asked for his help which he denied on the claims that his culture did not allow for men to support women. Am I wrong for ending the relationship on these terms?
Well somewhat yes, you're not married. He's your boyfriend not your father, always be able to provide for yourself. Breaking up over this was silly, yes.
2) in a relationship w/ anyone atm (a friend of mine overheard him telling someone how he wanted to ask me out) but I do really care about him. He's not the most attractive boy, but we have the best friendship. Relationships are not a priority for me & i dnt want to get hurt by another boy again...
You don't have to be anyone if you don't wish to, but realise greatest friendships can easily change how you see someone. Let him down gently x
1)There's this boy that has liked me for a while & at first I didn't like him, but we still stayed friends. After a couple of months of talking, I felt like I was catching feelings for him. I've told everyone tht I don't like him & I even friendzoned him which really hurt him. I don't want to be..
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I still love my somewhat ex we didn't date but I want to Confess on Valentine's I still like him whenever I say I do like Him He never replies were cool atm but I want to fight for him
If you've already expressed an interest doing it on vday sadly won't change a thing. It's not the movies
Hey I'm from birmingham want to come to your event but worried I'll be the only one who's not a Londoner
YES!! grab a ticket I want as many new people there as possible!x
So I've finally got into a relationship after 20 years LOL .. But I don't know how too be a girlfriend, what am I supposed too do loool. It's all new too me
Be his best friend.
My man doesn't let me wear makeup and weave anymore. He wants me natural and doesn't want other boys looking at me. I tell him even if they did I wouldn't cheat because I love but he starts shouting saying how he will leave me if I wear makeup and weave :(
This sounds unhealthy. Come on you know what to do.
How do you know it's love.
You just do.
How old do you have to be to come to the event your doing? X
21-28
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