Oloni

4- of him as i feel stupid and disrespected. This morning when i asked him about his whereabouts and lack of communication his response was "we aint married that i need to let you know of my whereabouts" should i leave him or?

March 23, 2015

Yeah there's no respect on his side towards you & the relationship. His response and actions clearly show how he feels about you. Let him go!

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3- i have spoke to him about this as i feel that he still wants to be single because thats how he behaves when he is out, he hides our relationship but doesnt mind posting pictures of girls he doesnt know on his instagram. I find it hurtful as a result i have stopped posting pictures

March 23, 2015

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2- But when my boyfriend goes out he doesnt let me know and i end up getting worried something bad has happened to him as when i text/call he doesn't respond back &every time he goes out he takes innapropriate with different girls i have never heard of when i ask him he claims they are just friends

March 23, 2015

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1-Hi oloni i have been in a relationship for over a year, my boyfriend likes to party which is fair enough however its not my thing i only go out partying maybe on my birthday, friends and his.

March 23, 2015

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I'm talking to someone but most times he speaks in sexual inneudos but he's seems like a nice guy. Would this be a red flag for someone who's looking for something serious? Thanks x

March 22, 2015

Huge red flag. Youre looking for something serious & he's CLEARLY looking to get down and dirty.

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I love reading through your ask fm's! I feel like I learn so much from the responses you give. You're amazing, keep doing what you do. We appreciate you! ❤️

March 22, 2015

Thank you..thank you so much ❤️

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My boyfriend is so emotionally unavailable. I've spoken to him about it so many times but he just gets angry when I do. Can I change him or should I just accept th way he is ?

March 22, 2015

You can't change him, but you can change the situation which would be by leaving. If you feel like you can handle someone who is emotionally unavailable then that's your decision.

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I've kinda been friends with benefits with this guy for a couple months. It began not too long after he broke up with his ex. I've kinda caught feelings but I found out he's kinda seeing his ex again. Do I just fall back or do I speak to him about it? I feel so stupid coz I was prob just a rebound

March 22, 2015

Ask him about it, 'kinda seeing' may not be gospel. But at least hear it from the horses mouth.

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Could I email you for advice, as I wouldn't like my question to be public? X

March 22, 2015

Yup

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Is it normal just to not be interested in dating/relaironships?

March 22, 2015

Of course

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2. I went through the worst time of my life I can't say on here and it's so shit to think that I gave everything, went thru the worst and he treats me like I'm nothin, literally like I'm irrelevant.

March 22, 2015

That's the suckish part about dating. You can be everything to each other one day and the next, nothing. It'll be hard but you're going to have to find some courage to move on. You never give a person your everything so learn from this.

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1. This isn't a question I just have nobody to vent to and I'm so upset. I fell for someone who doesn't give a shit about me and it just hurts, he led me to believe there was something when there wasn't and I just feel so broken.

March 22, 2015

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I'm trying so hard not too break up with my boyfriend but it's just not what I expected, I havent really told him what he's doing is annoying me bcus I don't know how too. So bcus he doesn't know I find it hard too leave him bcus I haven't gave him the opportunity too fix up but I'm just not happy.

March 22, 2015

Talk to him about it, keeping your feelings to yourself isn't fair to you or him.

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(3) every time I try and stop taking to him he will come back and say and say all these things and now in second year and I'm still in the same situation and I know if the perfect girl came along he would wife her and it makes me feel shit , a lot of girls hate me cz of him too cz we r always togeth

March 20, 2015

Seems like a situationship. Move on from him, he's clearly not that interested and is also toying with your emotions. The cycle can be broken if you simply detach yourself

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(2) he try's says to me why am I upset :/ but when I talk to other hits he gets all bitter and stuff and I don't understand .. If he doesn't want me why cant u move on , the situation is deep because I think I'm in love but I need to leave because it's messing me up , help me please

March 20, 2015

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Okay basically I've been seeing someone well since the first year of uni , we've been having sex , chilling , going out to eat like doing everything a couple does but he hasn't wifed me , not dying I'm waiting to be wifed but it's really upsetting when I see him talk to other girls and he trys...

March 20, 2015

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Opinion on dating a younger man?

March 20, 2015

Whatever works.

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Me and my girlfriend started talking again after I made some mistakes but I was truly sorry and want things to work out but she's told me she's giving it a while to see if she can still see things working out and that she's talking to someone but it's not that deep should I be worried??

March 19, 2015

If it's not that deep, then you shouldn't be that worried. Give her the time she needs & I'm sure she'll come around.

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I wanna cut this guy off completely who really fucked up again. I want to unfriend and unfollow him On everything but some of my friends are saying i'm immature and that we should just be friends. I dont want that at all, should i stick to my own plan or try to end things mutually?

March 19, 2015

If you want to cut him off that does include social media too. Do as you planned, you're being fair minded.

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closure. He told me I was the best he ever had.. yet can't even speak to me after I did nothing to him..... Do you think he will come around?

March 19, 2015

I dont know about 'coming around' but perhaps you should reach out to him and agree to meet up in open space where you can talk about things properly, that way you have some clarity on your situation.

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Okay, me and this guy recently cut off all ties after being emotionally and sexually invested for 3m... we pass each other around campus everyday. he did me wrong and he seems to not be affected by his conscience..I cant get over the fact that I'm not even worth an apology. help me get some[cont]

March 19, 2015

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I been seeing this guy for a year and a half. He recently told me he might love me and now he's saying he doesn't know if he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. What does this mean for our relationship now our future is uncertain? Am I right to be upset?

March 19, 2015

He clearly indecisive. Speak to him more ask in detail what he wants

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I've been talking to this guy for 2months and I feel like I'm already a attracted to him is that bad cause it's so early because he's everything I've basically wanted

March 19, 2015

2 months is perfectly fine to me.

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Is it wrong to be ashamed of your prospective partner if they have no sense of style

March 19, 2015

It's stupid.

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He apparently felt guilty for not contacting me this time, and asked a middle person to do it, so we could meet up. I found that a bit annoying and is it far to mention disrespectful?

March 19, 2015

Not disrespectful but I can see why you'd be annoyed. The choice is yours if you feel like friendship and re-connecting is a good idea, then why not?

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