The guy who broke up with me 2 yrs ago and contacted me after said 2 yrs, birthday is coming up would this be a good time to contact him or would it sound weird?
You can wish him a happy birthday I guess.
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Would it still be appropriate for me to attend your event, even if I am seeing someone ?
Seeing yes! Relationship NO.
What's the dress code for the dating, mingling night?
Dress to impress. Heels from ladies no sports wear from men
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I want to come to the mingling night but u have no one to come with
Does't matter! That's the whole point! 'Meet someone new'
How do you know when you have fully gotten over an ex or healed from a broken heart?
Your thought process changes, you worry less, hurt less. You'll know and FEEL it.
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Okay so basically I really liked this guy but he proper messed me up and that was like the first time I proper let someone in and now i find myself hating everyboy and not trying to let no one in at all, I dunno like is it best I stay like that or should I take time ?
Take your time and allow yourself to heal.
Why are you recording the calls - it's an invasion of privacy.
It's not if there is a disclaimer and an option my dear.
There's this guy I have been messing around with for a very long time now, but we've never commited, he's had several girlfriends during this time and is now seeing a close friend of ours. It hurts beyond anything and I don't want to go back to him ever but how do I break the cycle?
Stay away & meet someone new!!
Happened to him. But then he asks to send me a nude is just what put me off him. My friends say that it's normal but I don't think so.. Also I see he speaks to other girls aswell. For me I think it's best if I should move on, what do you think..
Speak to him! But i don't think you genuinely like him or his behaviour. He's got so many red flags!
We started speaking I spoke to his friends, brother, sister etc etc. he was extremely sweet but I still wasn't buying it. Anyways as time goes on he tells me a bit about his life and what he's gone through and that he thinks that I was put in his life for a reason and I'm the best thing that's..
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There's this guy I don't understand what he wants from me he asked me to be with him yet he still speaks to other girls. At the beginning I didn't have feelings for him at all but he was soo persistent and he begged and took my number off my phone, one time when he used my phone..
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I'm just wondering, I find it quite difficult to consider a person as potential if they can't kiss - ie try and eat my face or they aren't too good with foreplay. Am I being too harsh or does that sound reasonable?
Sounds silly! Lol these things can be taught & are not the be or end all!
How should I get Back onto speaking terms with my ex..? He broke up with me 2 yrs ago and then finally decided to contact me out of the blue a couple of weeks ago. The conversation was very light and didn't go past a hey , how's life. But I really did care for him& would like to be on a good terms..
Just call him!! If you're nervous jot some light subjects down you think you can talk about & refer to it in case you get nervous. :-) good luck xx
Sometimes I meet people and it feels like it's going somewhere and then things fade out. Am I just entertaining the wrong people or am I being too expectant at my age (20)?
Both!
...What can I do to be a lot more confident?
Daily affirmations, reminding yourself why you're so incredible, how beautiful you are, smart you are blessed you are. Affirm it on a daily basis & you'll see an improvement.
About rather than listen to her all the time. Even the few occasions where someone has shown interest, she kinda laughs at me because they're not the 'top calibre' of guys she attracts. So her helping me out isn't as effective even though she is trying to hook me up with a decent guy....
This sounds slightly childish! Find someone on your own if she's going to behave that way.
My bestie is really attractive and gets bucket loads of attention. I do on a smaller scale but I can't seem to be a bit more open and talk to guys. I've nearly finished uni and no boyfriend/ bae or anything close. It's not that I'm jealous of my bestie but I would like to have someone to talk......
What are you doing to make that happen? Are you meeting new guys are you going to new places? That's the only way it will happen.
Solve my problem. People think I'm being too introverted but I really cannot talk to guys out of the friendzone (if that made sense :s) I've been trying to get out more to meet people but this problem is holding me back. Help please!!!
Hey love! You're 20 not 35 you're comparing your lack of experience to those around you. Forgetting It's okay to feel uncomfortable around guys you like, but you NEED to take it easy and treat anyone you might crush on as just a friend. So like all your guy friends in the friendzone. Once again chilllllllll you'll be fine there is no guideline to guys.
Hey Oloni, I'm 20 and very inexperienced when it comes to guys. I can't flirt and talking to guys doesn't last more than a day maybe two if we start texting. I'm literally the only one in all my friendship groups who still hasn't had a boyfriend and I can't seem to find credible advice to help.....
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I just don't know what to do about this mess I've made (Sorry for the extremely long message xx)
It's okay dear :-) x
...for him. I've tried to call it quits but I like that I can still be close to him and talk like we always have...and to be honest I enjoy the sex lol. I'm nervous to ask if he'll ever want to take it further but if that's not the case, should I just end it?
If you're not getting what you want, I do think you should end it. FWB is clearly not what you want and it is okay for you to want more! Let him know how you feel one last time and see what he says.
One day things got a bit intimate and we had sex. Afterwards he sort of implied wanting to keep it "friends with benefits," which I have gone along with (thinking I could shrug off the feelings). A part of me feels like I may have ruined the friendship becausein my heart I still have real feelings..
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Hi Oloni, I have a really good friend who I met nearly 4 years ago. I really liked him from the start but never really made it clear. Found out he had a gf in the 2nd year so I just naturally drifted away. He broke up with her last year and we started to talk properly again...(cont.)
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Why doesn't anyone want to date me how do I date even I'm scared I'm going to be single forever
Come to my mingling soiree x
How do you stop wanting a relationship? Because I can't meet guys these days So in giving up wanting one
Focus on improving yourself
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