In regards to the question of me interested in the friend. Is that a no go zone?
Not at all.
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I'm such a horny girl and toys don't do half the job the real thing does. However, I'm not the one to particularly like the idea of meaningless sex and sleepingn around. I don't have a boyfriend and I don't like the idea of friends with benefits. Lol / advice??
Yup! It's in my e-book 'The Number Between Her Legs' get it over at simplyoloni.com
Hi, I was with this guy for a few months, no relationship, just sex. I did like him, but he didn't claim to like me, and he always told me that I'm not his woman. I ended up cutting him off few months ago, but now I have an interest in one of his friend's
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Anymore. Am I over reacting?
No. That's a red flag. He was very silly for that.
So I went on a date with this guy and when it was time for the bill he asked to split. This is a big no no in my eyes but I paid for my half anyway. Couple weeks later we were messaging and he said he was testing me. That has put me off him EVEN MORE!! I don't even respond to his messages or calls
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I want to buy a Christmas gift for the guy I've been seeing. It hasn't been very long like 4.5 months is this a bad idea? I'm not even doing it for anything in return I just came across something thoughtful I know he might appreciate.
A christmas gift would be nice. I think it's a good idea. Just don't go ott with spending.
Thank you so much, going to the clinic today x
:-) no problem.
Hey. I'm kinda scared of introducing my bf to my dad. He's already met my mum but I know the introductions with my dad has to happen sometime. I cant keep putting it off. Any advice on how I should go about it?
I'm guessing your fathers strict. Talk to your dad first a few times and let him know how much your boyfriend means to you. Sit him down properly and tell him a few things about your bf so when they do finally meet everything will go pleasantly.
I'm a 22yro virgin & I've never had a bf . How do I explain this to my crush w/o him thinking I was odd. Before him, nobody had been worthy enough. Do I lie & make up a number or tell the truth?
Tell him what you told me. 'Nobody had been worthy enough'. No need to lie, but you don't have to tell him. It's all up to you.
Should I give my old link his stuff back? He said he never wants to speak to me again but I don't want it
Then dispose it.
Your thoughts on female masturbation
Give me a break...
Although I fear the worst, I also fear telling my partner(s) they may need to get tested. How do I go about this, trying to avoid the whole "you're a dirty girl" view of me? Thank you (Part2)
You need to go to a clinic ASAP. If you do, give the nurses the numbers of the guys you were sexually involved with who can let them know (in case you do have anything) anonymously.
Recently I travelled for a week and had some form of sex with 5 different boys, 4 of those unprotected. I kinda like one of them, we were togetherish then broke apart and recently reignited our friendship (if you could call it that). I have now come home and been greeted by a violent sting (Part1)
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How do you get out of a situationship? We started a physical relationship before a friendship and now I think we have a friendship. He won't commit and I no I'm not ready in myself to commit (came out a bad relationship straight into a situationship) and am I silly to think we can stay friends
You can be friends just not right now. Give each other a few months of space and see how that works. By staying in a situationship, you're not allowing someone better to enter your life.
You are very very helpful x
Thank you :-)
Mostly I'm happy by myself but it always come back to feeling down about an ex. Been 8 months and I don't let anyone else in. Am I being ridiculous for missing someone that's moved on and forgotten me?
You're not ridiculous at all. You loved someone and you're still healing. People heal at their own pace, but you should do something to keep yourself busy. What do you enjoy most? Do that constantly and you'll be fine.
For 2 yrs I've had a FWB relationship with a guy. However, on a night out I happen to meet another guy & ended up sleeping with him. I found out that both guys are like BFF. The 1st guy keep wanting to see/spend time with me. However I am scared. Should I tell him what happen or not?
Yes tell him because it will come out, especially as they know each other.
I'm kinda lonely in uni.. I'm in second gear so everyone's already in their friendship groups. Any advice on how to make friends? Without being viewed as a 'beg'
Hey! Of course :-) join societies at uni. When I was in my first year I never lived in halls so I was petrified as to how I'd make friends. I joined societies and made friends there. Let me know if this helps.
Do you believe ex's are ex for a reason?
Depends on the situation
I don't think I know who I really am , how do I find myself and self worth ?
Here's a long answer from last night http://ask.fm/Oloni/answer/121769097515m
Why do I attact men that just want too have sex with me ? I don't throw my stuff around and have my stuff on show , I'm just a normal girl lol
Welcome to the world of owning a vagina.
3- as if I cheated myself and I don't know how to feel about this situation. I want him to stick around but there's a million and one questions running through my head that I wanna ask him about us but I know it's way too early and so out of my place. Help! x
It is too early, to ask about 'us' but if you know he doesn't want a relationship sleeping with him 5 month later wouldn't have made a diff. You can carry on talking to him, but don't expect anything unless he shows you, that you should.
2- bare in mind I've only known him for about a week and chilled with him with other friends around a couple times. Yesterday was the first time I've spent time with him on a one to one basis. We ended up having sex and I know he isn't looking for a relationship. I Knew this all along and I feel...
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1- Hey, I recently met this guy and he's so much like me. I've never been able to communicate with anyone in my life before the way I do with him. We connect and understand each other in a whole other level. Our conversations are out of this world and revolutionary.......
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Does a guy know when a girl likes him or are they totally oblivious? Do you have to literally spell it out?
Some do, some don't. Just make your feelings clear.
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