Oloni I don't think you understand how much you have helped me. The fact that you have even taken this platform of ask fm too help people is great. I read through it every night. You are well and truly a blessing. I hope you have success in everything you want too do, you deserve it. Thank you !xx

March 30, 2015

Awww thank you so much. I'm currently eating cake with a huge smile on my face. Hahaha. Please make sure you get my new ebook if you love my ask fm. It'll be out soon! Thanks again for your kind words ❤️

Hey Oloni, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he has cheated on me many times.. He recently cheated and I took him back. He admitted that he got his side ting pregnant and he has been beginng me to stay with him.. I love him so much and I know he loves me but I feel like Karruche

March 30, 2015

Girl, just like Karrueche you need to leave. Nothing good will come from just 'love'.

Hey I just wanted some advice, im a muslim girl living with my mother who i love but she forces me to wear a hijab and i have resorted to taking it off in toilets, she found out and said if you take it off she'll kick me out, im 21 and want to move out, any advice? I just wanted an outside opinionx

March 30, 2015

Her house, her rules!

A guy told me that he wanted to be with me. He strung me along for over 1 year. I fell madly in love with him. He was even my 1st (I still haven't slept with another). Now he's gone back to his ex. I feel so used and abused. I'm angry for trusting him. How can I get past the pain? It hurts so much.

March 30, 2015

I'm sorry to hear what happen, sadly when you date you take some risks. Some people get fucked over, others mutually agree to move on & for others it works out. This guy was clearly an asshole, and you have every reason to feel frustrated. The good news? You will get over it, you will meet someone better & you will LEARN. Just focus on making yourself happy right now & everything will be fine.

Is it crazy that I'm 20 and I just want too marry my partner. We have intentions not too break up so why not do it now ... Reading what I wrote sounds a bit crazy lol

March 30, 2015

Lol you're happily in love!

im talking to this guy. but the other day he said to me he talks to other girls because hes single. this has really put me off him. HOWEVER, he keeps on asking me to see him and and keeps asking me on dates, shoudl i go and see what hes about or just forget it.

March 30, 2015

Go on the dates. Why are you put off? He never said he's in a relationship and talking to other women. He is SINGLE and speaks to multiple women. There is no issue here.

Any tips on messaging a guy first? I really don't know how to approach it and I don't want to wait for him to message me. He seems like a shy guy so he might not ever say a thing lol. How can I send a first message without coming on too strongly? x

March 30, 2015

Don't think about it too deeply! Just start it how you would with any other person who's a friend.

I've recently started talking to this guy. His communication is inconsistent. As in 2weeks can pass and I don't hear nothing. however when we do talk we are on the phone for years and he tends to initiate contact. I don't know maybe I'm being needy? I'm confused as to how to move forward ...HELP!

March 30, 2015

Long conversations are great but two weeks without a peep??? Miss me with all of that.

What would you define as "dating" (other than going on dates) ?

March 30, 2015

Communicating regularly, making an effort to get to know each other. Spending time together etc etc

My gut instincts is telling me my boyf is cheating on me. I've asked him and he said no, I try and try too believe that he's not but something is just telling me he is, I don't want too make a big deal out of it and he ends it because I don't trust him but something isn't right

March 30, 2015

You can't go off on something you have no proof on. I know they say to go with your gut but if you don't trust him or have a reason to feel this way then you have to decide wisely.

I like this guy. But hes hard to talk to on what's app but so lovely in person. Don't know what's going on but o think he likes me cos he takes me out on dates n we kiss :/

March 30, 2015

Then pick up the phone & exercise your communication skills my dear.

When you're seeing/speaking to a guy when is the right time to ask "where are things going"

March 30, 2015

When you're 'seeing/speaking' you don't.. when you're DATING usually after 4-5 months max.

Do you think uni relationships last??

March 30, 2015

Yeah. I've witnessed plenty.

Met a girl a year ago and we got on very well, we were not sexual not even kiss but we would hold hands. I really liked her but she kept saying we should just be friends. We stopped talking for 2 months. I missed her but didn't contact her. But now she is back messaging me, I want her to be my gf

March 30, 2015

I think you should take it slowly, and give it some time before bringing it up again.

What is the process to getting over someone. I don't want to but I think I have to break up with my boyfriend. But I really love him. How do I get over him

March 30, 2015

You detach yourself & remind yourself why you need and deserve more. Breaking up with someone you love is never easy, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do.

My boyfriend has cheated. I really want to take him back and work on it esp as I did the same to him early in the relationship. Everyone is saying let him go, what should I do ?

March 30, 2015

Who is everyone & why do they matter? Youre not sharing him with everyone so think for yourself. Can you work through it or has the trust gone completely?

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I have a crush on my friend, who is the same sex as me. We really get along, I find them attractive, but I know they don't like me back in that way. What do I do?

March 29, 2015

You have to honestly move on. That's the only answer. Meet & get to know other people who share the same sexuality as yourself.

I've never doubted my boyfriend when it comes to trusting him but the other day I found messages of him flirting with other girls. He's apologised but I still find it hard to trust him again what should I do?

March 29, 2015

Trust, won't happen over night but do let him know how you feel. Voice your concerns so he is aware. If you're giving him another chance it's important you remember this.

My boyfriend is too controlling and over protective which always causes continous arguments in our relationship. What should I do?

March 29, 2015

Talk to him about it. Because if you continue to let him dictate you it will only get worst.

I'm in a long distance relationship and lots has happened so I want to end it. is it bad to do it over text?

March 29, 2015

Yes! Communicate why you want to end things over the phone.

planning to let him taste the fountain of life soon..but i dont really know how to get down there prepared..what do you advise is best for hair removal especially as i have a tendency for ingrowns...and how to make it taste, smell, feel good? don't want the first time to be the last time ...

March 29, 2015

Get a wax and use some lube. Always wash yourself with strictly water. Enjoy ;-)

Sometimes I feel he is over the top. expressing how he feels, gifts, how much he cares etc. am I just not used to being treated like that or is there a thing an being over the top when it comes to dating? I don't know if that's makes sense

March 29, 2015

It depends. But from what you've said it seems like he's a keeper, and a loving partner. Something a lot of women arent used to. If you want him to tone it down say so in a mindful way.

My man is so layed back, how do i get him to stop?

March 29, 2015

Talk to him about it.

I'm in love with my boyfriend, he is my first ever real boyfriend and he is my first everything. I see a future with him although everyone tells me I'm stupid if i think we are going to end up marrying each other but this guy is a good guy should i not get my hopes up ...

March 29, 2015

Ignore them. Just carry on working towards the goal.

I've been with my boyfriend for three years. He is going away for three weeks and when I am not around him I get depressed and emotional. How do I get by these few weeks without him

March 29, 2015

You learn to stand on your own! It's okay to MISS your other half deeply, but don't become an emotional wreck as you'll see him in a few weeks not years! You'll cope. text, facetime, skype call. Plus when he's back your love might grow even stronger. Don't allow your feelings to depend on the company of another human being.

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