Oloni

What to do when your ex messages you, you reply, he reads it straight away then doesn't reply for hours... its like he's dragging on the convo for days

January 01, 2015

I have no idea what it means it could be 24152 things. You have many apps on a smart phone so something could have grabbed his attention. Don't look so deep into these things!

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I just want too be in love, why do I keep attracting the wrong people

January 01, 2015

You need to pick wisely & meet new people!

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I love a guy so much. Rumours went out about me and now he's finding it hard to trust me again. What can I do? The rumours were false and I really want to fight for us. Thanks. x

December 29, 2014

You need to have a goooood ol conversation with him. If he can't believe your word then I don't think he's the one.

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But when I'm with him he seems interested lol

December 29, 2014

That's not enough.

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How do you get over someone and forgive them? The guy I think of was the first person I've ever cared about for a long time and he broke my heart by letting me know in a nutshell I was only around to help him and pass the time and then humiliated me by kissing another girl in my home?

December 29, 2014

Eek! That's messy. Forgiveness takes time, getting over them also takes time. Keep yourself busy and your mind will not wonder, realise that if you don't forgive someone or a situation you're only hurting yourself. He's probably sorry but not thinking about it, so why should you?

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I've been talking too this guy for a while now but I feel like I'm always texting him first , I don't want too become the annoying girl but I feel as if , if I you want something go get it right ?And I just want too say relevant because I always miss out opportunities because I just stop texting ppl

December 29, 2014

If you're always starting any type of communication try to tone it down. Let a man be a man. If he doesn't make any sort of effort he's not that interested.

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I don't have any girl friends at all.. Like none. I used to have so many and now we've either departed or had arguments. Those relationships can't be rekindled. How do I go about making more

December 29, 2014

Well first off try to figure out on your own why those friendships never lasted. Go to places and events where you're able to get the chance to meet NEW people!

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Will he think I'm pathetic for talking/running back to him? How can he deliberately say things to hurt him and I still spoke first lol :(

December 29, 2014

I don't know what he's thinking, but it's clear you're acting off emotions.

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Should I delete him off social networks? Like snapchat?

December 29, 2014

Yep. Lol that's how NC works.

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Help me!! I can't get over my ex :( a couple weeks of NC and I spoke to him last night! Even though he said so many things to push me away! What's wrong with meeeeee

December 29, 2014

You miss him & that's natural. Go back to NC and dont break it. You ARE stronger than that and will find someone who will never push you away.

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You are so beautiful. What are your measurements?

December 29, 2014

Thank you! & I wish I knew.

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Should I be annoyed at the fact a guy I was dating and decided to leave because I did want a long distance relationship, at the time, got another girl pregnant whilst we were together and expect me to be okay with the idea now that we got back together?

December 28, 2014

I'm confused. You did want a LDR & he got another girl pregnant?

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We have been together two years and i feel like its not okay or healthy for me to feel that way... Sometimes i just apologise for things that i dont even know iv done wrong because he doesnt let me explain...What do you think?

December 28, 2014

Well you need to start wondering if this is a relationship you want to continue to commit to if it's mentally draining. You mentioned that you apologise for things you don't even know you have done & you're hardly listened to. That's not healthy nor how a relationship should work. You should be given a chance to explain it's only fair. Think about it long and hard and ask yourself if this is something you want to spend another two years doing.

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I love my bf so much but everytime we argue he makes me feel like my point is always invalid and i never have a point to make because i am always wrong! I have got to a point where it is mentally draining and i cant be bothered to argue...

December 28, 2014

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Is it normal to feel 'hurt' when your ex is seeing someone else? (a few weeks after breaking up)

December 28, 2014

Of course! It's perfectly normal, but it's a part of life. People move on & meet new people. Take your mind of it & keep yourself insanely busy. x

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How do I tell this guy I don't want to see him anymore

December 28, 2014

Simply tell him you don't think you two are working out.

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I know but it's hard because that's just my opinion. I'm not 100% as he does have a convincing talk and reasoning behind it all. And I don't know whether he's thinking about cutting ties but I was talking about myself

December 28, 2014

If you're not 100% sure ask him. Tell him what you want and don't allow his convincing 'talk' to change your mind.

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Not sure where I stand with a guy & I'm hesitant to ask, we've had a small talk concerning us & he says he's confused also as he weren't expecting anything to happen & hasn't really thought abt it. But now I see it as he's not serious since he doesn't know & thinking to cut all ties. Any suggestions

December 28, 2014

You've just answered your own question. What do you want with someone who isn't serious & ready to cut ties?

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Check your email hun x

December 28, 2014

I have. And my inbox is full of many dilemmas so you'll have to give me some time x

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Is your email 100% confidential?

December 28, 2014

Always.

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i spoke to the guy about it, even though she's my friend, i still feel as like i cant confront her about it

December 28, 2014

If you can't talk to her about it, she is not your friend.

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my friend wants to do that best friend shit with the guy ive clearly stated i like. how should i deal with the situation?

December 28, 2014

LOL that is so annoying! Try to keep who you like to yourself if you have friends like that. Honestly? Talk to her properly and break it down and let her see how & why it bothers you. Good luck!

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Ive been in a relationship for a couple years but I've liked another individual for longer than my current partner. I never saw the other individual as a potential until recently. They are both good people and I don't know what to do or who I should be with.

December 28, 2014

If your feelings are elsewhere it's only right that you leave your current partner. It's not fair to him. If you want to be with someone else that's entirely up to you.

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I've been battling depression for over 6 months recently I've been having suicidal thoughts but I feel so guilty feeling like this when others have it a lot worse than me. How can I get over these thoughts & be happy again?

December 28, 2014

Hey! I'd really much prefer if you could e-mail me? ItsOloni@gmail.com

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I'm in my twenties and I'm a virgin, starting to feel like I should just have sex now, even though there's been better and abundant opportunities for me to do so.its like the longer I wait, the more afraid of the potential pain i become. What should I do?

December 28, 2014

The pain now will be no different from when you're 40. Only have sex if you think you're ready and because you're ready to explore that side of your sexuality. Do not rush because I swear to you a 20 year old virgin in not unheard of.

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