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I'm 22 and Im still really shy around guys, when they approach me I get really nervous and say stupid things or give them a dirty look, or look straight through them so they won't bother :( don't know what to do with myself. I want a relationship and sex but... :(

Theres a few pages about this in my new book coming out in 6 days. 100 Questions.

how do i ask a girl out who i used to tlk to bare because of work we havent communicated and i miss her loads

Just pick up the phone.

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I'm really Interested in a guy who has similar interest but he is so focused in his final year he told me to hold on till he's finished before getting to know me well..what do I do?

Final year is over in like 2-3 months. Be patient.

4] Both lol. Your species are weird. They believe if something's too good to be true then there's a hidden agenda but thanks for your perspective.

Don't generalise now, you asked for MY opinion. Remember I don't speak for the millions of other women :-) x

3] Funny thing is I don't believe in coincidence, I believe everything happens for a reason. Could I be delusional or faithful?

Both. But listen to what she SAYS unless anything else gives you a reason to think otherwise.

2] I met a girl once who I literally felt her presence/aura/soul and I have thought about her everyday since that day. Mostly everything we do seems to be in sync. She says she don't see me like that but adonbilivit. Something inside me tells me she's calling out to me by her posts but then I feel l

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1] Do you believe in soulmates? If yes, what's your definition of one?

I do & don't. My definition is basically finding that perfect person who you connect with. Like a match made in heaven.

Cheap date ideas for students that don't have much money??

You're a student! You get discounts on everythinggg. There are so many cool restaurants you can dine at, google them!x

In response to you qotd today about the online relationship, being someone that's been in the same situation except I was the one leading the girl on, she should move on. I saw how I hurt her, I wouldn't wish that on anyone

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i'm really insecure about my skin and i want to end things with my partner becuse i dont want them to see, is this the right choice

No, we all have insecurities. How about instead, you share how you feel about it with him?

the guy i've been with for yr was grinding on a girl in the club right in front of me. things were pretty serious and i found this really disrespectful, what should i do?

Pull him up about it, you can't behave like that if you're in a relationship.

how can a shy chubby 24 year man whos been will most his life (now im better) get a girlfrend

By attending my next mingling soiree!x

I'm 20 and a virgin, I want to have sex but not show my boobs, I have scars from surgery to remove a cyst. I don't want to have to explain to them why I can't take my bra off but I feel like it would be weird to keep it on :(

Lots of women are self conscious in the bedroom but the truth is we all have our insecurities. However, a lot of women do you wear bras during sex. It's not unheard of. A part of having sex is to be comfortable with who you lay naked with i will add.. So only get physical when you know you are comfortable scars & everything.

I've been with my partner for 3yrs we moved in together 3 months now and we rarely have sex, I'm often sexually frustrated, because when we do it's always on her terms, kissing is always on her terms aswel. She always snaps at me for little things in the 3yrs we had sex 5 times what should I do?

3 years and only had sex 5 times? You need to talk to her about this. As in have a proper conversation and sit her down and get to the bottom of it.

Is it really horrible to give up your V?... And what if its to the wrong guy?...

Everyone has different experiences. I answer this more in 100 Questions out April 12th read more about it then.

Do you think after 6/7 months of being in a relationship you should be a guys main priority?, as in valued above his friends. Nd would u consider its a serious relationship by then. What do you think???

Regardless of how long you've been together as soon as you become official, you should always be priority imo

Thank you for making it qotd, it's been interesting reading other peoples views on it, Ive never really told anyone cos I know it sounds dumb 6 WHOLE YEARS :( I cut him off in Feb but until now I wasn't sure if it was permanent or if I'd go back. But they're right tbh I do need to step my pussy up!x

Haha! No problem x

What would you describe as cheating?

Physically & emotionally giving yourself to someone outside of your relationship.

I don't like kissing .. I just don't feel the passion from it .. Why may this be?

Everyone is different, we all feel passion in our own way. With some its kissing with tongue, others it's a simple peck.

Like how can men just use you and treat you any how and go on to the next bitch like you didn't give them years of your life and now another year just to get over him but his already swiftly moved on!!!

No one owes you anything in this world. It's the sad truth.

(3) or relationship on social media. I really think we are just different people and I now just feel I'm in this relationship out of comfort but I feel he doesn't truly understand or respect me. They only time he is happy is when I'm doing things for him and he can broadcast it on social media

You've just answered your own dilemma, you just needed to write it out. Read it back & move on. You seem tired and fed up which isn't great fir any relationship. He is very wring for discussing your private matters & you're right social media is not a place where you share EVERYTHING. If he can't understand that then yes, you're both two very different people.

(2) these girl mates of his tell him to leave me which is silly as he is the one who has been untrustworthy, their reason being because I don't take a lot of pics with him or I'm not active on social media they feel I'm not open enough. To me I don't feel you should have to broadcast your life

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(1)Dear oloni honestly I'm fed up my boyfriend firstly goes to clubs and kisses other girls I forgave him about that but honestly he is not trust worthy at all. He always deletes he texts and one thing that really annoys me is the fact that he discusses our relationship with his girl mates

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