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been with my gf a couple of years now. I do love her. Wouldn't say we're 'alike', we argue a lot but we're compatible. But I have a friend who I feel is better suited to me due to how much we have in common, I feel like she understands me 100%...which is something I've never felt and also longed for

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I've been seeing this guy and we've slept together once, now when I come over we joke like friends but he hasn't slept with me since. What does this mean ?

Ask him!

How can someone love you so much then leave you high dry with no explanation what so ever...

Pick yourself up. You'll be fine

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I'm talking to this guy right but I think I'm too available, whenever he says he going to call I say ok, and he always the one to say he needs to go now.. Etc. my friend said I'm too available and it's going to put him off. What do you think?

If that's the case make sure you're always busy & have something YOU need to go off & do. Being too available won't put him off necessarily, but at least look like you have other things going on & not waiting to see his caller ID pop up.

I broke up with my ex and we're still on gd terms. I still want to talk to him n let him know I'm here for him but doesn't believe my words. Is me still being there for him not enough to prove that or is he just not interested anymore?

He's your ex, you don't have to prove anything. If he doesn't believe your word well then welp.

Hey Oloni !! Me and my partner have been together for about a month now and I don't know how he was in pervious realationships but calling your girlfriend and seeing her once or twice or week isn't acceptable too me I don't want too sound needy but I just don't this its okay

You're being needy. People are busy, your boyfriend & girlfriend not husband and wife. As long as he calls & communicates don't start moaning, you'll scare him off.

I met a nice guy it's all so perfect like a movie but he's leaving to go abroad soon, should I see him until he leaves or end it and avoid the hurt? Help! X

It's up to you & the dynamics. I doubt seeing him till he jets off will make it any harder than if you stop seeing him this very second.

My Boyf is gonna be and has been busy for a couple of weeks and I completely and totally understand that. I work until 10pm and when he's free it's always him coming mine, It's becoming a routine now and that's not what I want, what should I say too him and I do have days off in the week

Talk to him, let him know you want to SNAP out of that routine & try to squeeze in something that isn't as predictable as it's been. Find something you can both do & enjoy too and suggest it.

May not be the truth

Youre gonna have to ask & believe what he tells you, but also be VERY alert to anything that seems sus. Also.. always go with your gut.

I'm dating this older guy and my gut is telling me he probably has a wife/girlfriend maybe even kids. I have no evidence too be saying this but I just feel this way maybe because he's 28 and he doesn't have that yet and he's dating a 20 yo.how do I go about asking him even though the answer may ....

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I'm in a relationship and I'm just waiting for him too leave me just Like other ppl does but he says that's not his intentions but I'm just waiting for the day. He gets annoyed because I'm kind of stand offish with him and I don't let him in. How do I change this I just don't want too be hurt again

You're letting your past relationships affect your present one. You've been hurt and it doesnt sound like you've had time to heal. Get a grip & ask yourself if you want this relationship since it's you counting down the days

How do I ask my boyfriend to spice it up in the bedroom, like u really want to try anal and do some role play

Tell him & suggest ideas, I'm sure he'd be open to the ideas.

Best oral advice for guys? I've heard like switching the light off and on..

Try flavoured edible lube. That's always a good one.

I'm with a guy I don't really love, I just love the idea of having a boyfriend. He has similar career aspirations as me and on paper it should work. However in reality he is just annoying but I fear if I leave I won't find anyone and forever be single again! What should I do?

Do what you think is right, not fear.

Is it bad to try and get your boyfriend back after a break-up? I don't know if that will put him off even more..

Depends how you broke up & the circumstances

Hi I emailed you about some dilemma with my relationship issues, can you please get back at me as soon as possibly or maybe I sent it to the wrong email :(

Re-send it xx

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and it's hit me really hard even though weren't together for that long and I see him on a daily basis. I don't know what to do to get over it

Keep yourself busy. Do the things you did before you met but MORE. You'll be fine :-)

No there hasn't really been a change in our schedules much we're at uni. And yes sometimes I do but its a bit uncomfortable for me when I try and he just laughs most times. Whenever we do it's always when he wants to initiate never when I try to.

aww talk to him about it and let him know that it bothers you. Simply ask whats up, see what he says x

If it is taking you a long time to get over someone eg a year. What should I do reach out or carry on moving on ?

Carry on moving on!

I think a guy has stopped talking to me coz I didn't have sex with him. we have gone out a few times and I've started to like him I just definitely did not want to have sex yet.

His loss, you're not obliged to have sex with him. Just be glad you know what he was after most.

This might be a bit explicit/inappropriate but it really irritates me about my partner. After I give him oral he won't kiss me but I must give him oral and taste myself /: (I'm so sorry) but it just irritates me because it kills the mood that we can't kiss throughout the rest of sex.

That's so immature, don't give him head since he wants to be so childish. Jokes aside talk to him and ask what the big deal is.

Can you give me examples of places I can put myself. I know raves aren't ideal

Join meetup.com it's a great way to find new places to attend.

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