He says he likes me. Wants to take me out but he's always working. He does communicate well? Should I show more interest or act non bothered?
He 'says' is he doing? Don't force it or make excuses. If he's interested he will 'do'.
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My boyfriend has repeatedly cheated on me on numerous occasions over the past year. I was willing to try and make it work after the first time but it's just happened again and again. He said that he's now changed after almost losing me and he's deeped I'm the one he wants but can I believe him?
Cheating once.. But repeatedly? Don't go back there. A guy will only treat you how you allow him to. I think you should let this one go, someone doesn't just change over night & nor will this relationship.
He used to call now he just texts me to ask me where I am :/ from time to time. It's not like before
He's not as interested as he was, but there is no harm in mentioning it.
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Yup!
I LOVE my boyfriend but he never pays for our dates, ever, or buys me random gifts or anything like that. Even for our 1yr we split the bill. He is the sweetest guy but I feel like you need to make a little effort to keep the spark alive. I think it's what is causing fights. & the sex isnt very goo
My dear you need to tell him that!! Talk to him & let him know it's bothering you!!x
If he doesn't call it means he's not interested right?
Yep!
Can you add more tickets for the girls pretty please xxxx
Hmmm! Keep a closer eye on simplyoloni.com we might! Slight chance. We'll see :-) x
I'm meeting an old friend Thursday which i used to have a huge crush on a couple years ago. I can still see myself in a relationship with her, so i was going to just see how it goes but do you think its a good idea to make my intentions clear? I don't want to push her away by saying something.
Take your time! Meet up a few more times maybe 3 more? Ask her out then let her know! It'll be less of a surprise as she'll have an idea due to how much you start spending together x
Will there be more tickets for tge mingling sessions after the 5 left?
Only two left for women! And i doubt it x
I only asked because you give such great advice for relationships .. I Wasn't trying too be nosey or anything.
Ahh forgive me! :-) x
How do I take things further than texting with this guy I like without coming on too strong. I'm quite traditional in the sense that I think the guy should initiate most things. Is this what's holding me back?
Not really, you just want effort put in. Try calling him & arranging a lunch date :-)
What does it mean when a guy keeps randomly saying he wants to 'cum inside you'? how are you supposed to respond to that?
Loool use protection.
General question ... Are you in a relationship ?
Yes :-)
Tell him how? I am no good with expressing myself
When you see him next and you're having a conversation ask if he likes you again, he'll say yes since he's already said it before.. Then you use that opportunity to ask if he'd like to take things further :-)
I really like this guy and he has been saying he likes me too. I would like it to go further than what it is atm but as soon as things start to go serious I normally begin to distance myself. what do you think I should do? how do I tell him I wanna be more than friends?
Tell him! And so you don't distance yourself take it slowly. Really slowly. x
Hey, I just wanted your advice on the way I'm feeling. I always seem to be the one fighting for a relationship. like it's like they try so hard to get me once they do it seems like it doesn't matter if I was in there life or not, then it switches round to me wanting them more
This is very common too. Stop fighting after the chase, because that's all it was ..a chase. When you know your worth you wont feel the need to. You'll accept whatever happens and just move on. What do you think you're doing that makes this a repetitive cycle? Change it!
Im 22 never been on a date or had a boyfriend im not that attractive im trying but noone ever likes me im always the friend...everyone around me has a boyfriend i just wish i would be the girl a guy likes ..and 22 i feel like a loser.
You're not a loser because you've never had a bfriend. It's very common. You seem like you might have a low self esteem and need to boost up your confidence! Get a new hair cut, a new wardrobe, play with some make up tutorials on youtube, make yourself feel beautiful if you want others to.
how do you get over your ex when you have to see each other everyday at uni. and work together
That's a tough one, but when you're not in either of those places keep yourself busy with things that can take your mind of your past relationship.
Could you give me some tips or like a how to for kissing including French kissing. I'm 18 and a girl and still haven't had my first one and I'm not sure what to do lol. Thanks in advance x
Check your breath one. Two don't think about it too much, be gentle and simply follow his lead. It's more easier than you think.
How do you know a guy genuinely likes you?
He buys you food.
I have a problem with my bf as when we get into a disagreement or I've done something wrong he completely shuts me out even ignores me/turns his back on me when I'm trying to speak to him face to face. I've asked him not to do loads of time to improve our communication but there's been no change!
This sounds like a red flag. Explain this to him when you're not disagreeing or arguing how it makes you feel. If you doesn't change, you need to make a change & let it go.
Like I have..
You haven't done anything wrong you're just a victim of a very twisted person. This is why I always make it clear that we should try to meet new people & not just a few mutual friends away. Be happy it didn't work out with those guys. You want someone who will trust your word & not care about what you did before you met! These guys sound childish, immature & bitter. You will be fine, as per it'll just take time. Be patient x
Which was a part of the mix up. I've started catching feelings for him but all of a sudden he's stop talking me, I don't know why, if it's because of that. What should I do. Do you think it's my fault why this keeps happened. I really haven't done anything but these guys are making it out..
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...And they made me out to the uni slut and more and more guys kept lying on me saying they had sex with me which isn't true. Now it's so hard for me to let someone in. Although this happened 2 years ago. I've now met a guy which I have notice he has one friend who has a Mutual with one of the guys
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Since my ex I haven't let anyone in because he lied on me and made it seem like I cheated on him, when that wasn't true. I ended the relationship and I moved on about 3 months later. The guy I moved on to had a mutual friend with him and apparently he told him we were still together...
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