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Hi oloni. I have a boyfriend and I love him to pieces, however we are currently having issues because he believes I don't care about him & no matter how hard I try this is an underlying issue for us. I'm not a naturally expressive person, whereas he is, I love him but how do i get this across?

Try reciprocating the things he does and talk to him about it more. Ask why he feels that way & what you can do to change that.

Hiya, hope you had a good Christmas :) I'm a 20 year old girl and I've never been in a serious relationship and I feel like I will never have them.. I've thought someone was the one before but he quickly showed he wasn't lol but I dunno if I can replicate those kind of feelings again?

Of course you can and it'll be more especially when it's mutual feelings. Go to new places and try to hang with new people!! You're TWENTY so it is beyond possible.

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Hmm but it would be nice to? I still care about him you see

It's up to you, but make sure you're doing it because you genuinely hope he had a good christmas. Not to try & rekindle things.

Following from what that girl said about a Christmas text, what if it was a messy BAAAAD recent one? (Basically deliberately hurt my feelings)

That's up to you to decide. You don't HAVE to especially if things ended sour.

So I was moving to a girl but never really closed now we have been talking for over a year and we are quite good friends but I have caught feelings. Problem is she has a boyfriend what should I do

She has a boyfriend!! Respect her relationship & let it go.

At this point if things didn't work my whole life would stop. Should I let him know how I feel cod it's affecting our relationship. Sometimes I avoid seeing him in hopes it'll help me love him less and i feel bad via he doesn't know y. Or do you think it's normal:/ help

You need to learn how to discipline your love. It's good that love him, but remember to love yourself to that point also.

Can you love too much? Like I love my boyfriend so much. he is absolutely EVERYTHING and it scares me cos I know you shouldn't love anyone more than God and all that. not saying I do but it's pretty close. I know loving him so much gives him so much power to hurt me and...tbc

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.. Okay again. I don't know what to do because I shouldn't need to feel like asking for too muh? He passes it off as banter or "hypothetical" but it's really getting to me

He's a jerk & hard of hearing. Move on.

I've been with this guy for almost 2 years, been okay so far. But almost all the "arguments" we have revolve from his making witty and inappropriate "jokes". Told him multiple times how I feel. Sometimes he makes it out like I'm too defensive or will try & say stuff to make me laugh so things can be

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When me & my bf broke up 6 months ago, we got back together a week after. Today he told me the reason we got back together was mostly because of his friend bigging me up for us to get back 2gether. I know it's in the past but should I be worried? What if his friend says the opposite next time?

Talk to him & let him know your relationship should not be based on the opinions of his friends. It's very immature.

Started seeing this guy , I really don't want too mess this up (been out the game for a while haha) ... What are ways too make him want me and maybe even commit.

Be yourself.

(2) we were sleeping heads and tails . But I couldn't believe it. I was sure she was because I was woken up by the noises and her several times . I just don't know how to approach it bc I feel disrespected that she would do that while I was there but I'm worried about her .. What do I do ?

Explain how you felt about it, as that was very odd.

Hey. I have a friend at uni who I've been close to since 1st year used to practically live at her house but haven't spent much time with her this year so I thought we should catch up and have a sleep over . But when I fell asleep I woke up to a weird noise , she was masturbating next to me (1)

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Won't he think I'm trying to rekindle it?

He can think whatever he wants. It's a text with a few words not paragraphs of an 'I miss you' text.

Should I wish my ex merry Christmas? I know it's a few days late but the break up was recent (messy one) and he hasn't said anything

I don't see why not! 'Hope you had a great Christmas' is perfectly fine.

I really struggle with 'dating' and talking to guys since i broke up with my bf of 4years last year..stopped sleeping w/ him this year. I kind of like other guys but feel like ive been out of the game for ages! And i friendzone most guys my default because i guess i dnt knw hw to 'date' :(

Nothing wrong with friendzoning guys, stop beating yourself up about it. Make more male friends till you meet someone who sparks an extraordinary interest.

You didn't answer my question :( I literally need to know if I'm being selfish for stringing this guy along for sex, fully knowing I don't want a relationship with him in the future but he really wants to take it further . Should I end it before it gets messy?

Let him know how you feel! & yes end it if you feel youre stringing him along

Not often at all. We speak once in a while on fb, but its almost always about the Uni society were both a part of. Everytime we see each other its usually in groups, conversation goes well...the a 'fan' interrupts :/

Have you tried swapping numbers via fb? No one can disturb you on Whats App my love.

How do i do this without looking like a fan/desperate ?

You have to create some type of opportunity to get to know him. How often do you see him?

I really like this guy from a distance (well i think i do) but we dont see each other enough, go to different Uni's and he's got so much on his plate. Plus there are so many girls around him like fans. I dont want to be a fan but i do want the opportunity to know him better.

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