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I've been single for about 4 years now, i'm in my mid 20's and feel ready to date again. I wouldn't say i'm shy but it has become difficult to approach Women, maybe i'm projecting my past in my present. Any advice for a man trying to get back on the saddle struggling to step in the stirrups?

No different to what I tell women, get out there and attend new places where you'll meet women you don't usually bump into. My mingling soiree would be a great bet too :-)

My partner of a year still has Tinder and other dating apps. I only know because I go through his phone when he's asleep....is this something I can confront him about?

You went searching for something & you've seen something highly inappropriate. Why wouldn't you confront it? Talk to him about it.

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i was involved with a guy it went sour..i stopped talking to him (mending myself we thank God lol) however during that time (6mns ago) i leant him some money..1mn ago he asked me again i actually cdnt help.. how do i ask for it back and not cause issues..i gave from love and i want it back

You message him and say 'Hey, I was wondering when I'd be able to get the money I lent you xyz time ago as I'm going to need it soon. . ' It's good to give out of love, but don't give out of blindnes, Only lend what you can afford to lose.

So I had casual sex with this guy in our group of friends. It was spur of the moment and we never agreed whether to tell people or not. I want to tell my close friend but she's gonna judge me because he's been tryna get with me for awhile and I'd always tell her how lame he is and etc.

It is possible to have NO interest in someone and then bam things change you see them in a totally different light. If you think she's going to judge you then what would be your purpose for telling her?

I broke up with my ex of 9 months cause as a Christian I don't believe in tattooing your skin & he got one anyway despite that. But I find myself thinking about him and wanting to talk to him. What should I do

Talk to him. How serious was this relationship if a tattoo allowed you to break up?
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Would you find it normal if a guy you are seeing kept on favoriting and rt pics of girls on his timeline

If they're his friends, no. Half naked women? Yes.

How do you deal with a female who's been scared by her past experiences and makes it so hard to fully let you in even when your intentions are pure and truly have feelings for her?

You don't 'deal' with her, you become patient and allow her to do so in her own timing. Something like that can't be rushed, all you can do is be supportive and show her why she should be able to open up to you.

Why do boys ignore you when you tell them that you don't want sex and your a Virgin? Starting to annoy me that boys think all girls are not Virgins and if your a virgin your weird. I'm sorry but I won't lose my virginity just to be in good books with a boy. why do boys ignore if you say no to sex?

Because that's what a majority are after. It's easy to get and with it comes one of the greatest pleasurable feelings known to mankind. Some ignore because they do not want that sort of pressure if it comes to that stage, theyre scared of that responsibility as everyone knows a woman's virginity can never be broken twice. I always advice women to keep important facts like that to herself till she meets someone who is more than a third date.

How do i let go of my ex boyfriend when i do not hate him?

Not hating someone does not mean you're meant to be. You let go by focusing on yourself alone.

I'm 21yo male, and have never had any sexual relationship (because im in an electric wheelchair). Was considering seeing an escort? what you think?

Whatever works for you.

Is it a bad thing to always feel like I need to like someone/ have someone to talk to?

Nope you're human.

I'm talking to this new guy and he seems to take me seriously and want to date and I want to also but I've been so busy with coursework & exam revision lately. How do I keep it going and make us become more serious?

By communicating, updating him with what you're up to (work) so he knows you're into him but genuinely busy. When you do get some free time ask to meet up! It becoming more serious will only happen through time not over night so just enjoy each moment.

i dont have relationship closure n dont want to nag him too tuff , wot should i do ?

Move on, it's that simple. Look at what you disliked in the relationship and see it as practice for the next

i sent a nude to another boy while in a relationship. he forgave me n randomly stopped talking to me after we were on good terms again, idk what to do

Try calling, but if nothing changes, clearly things aren't on good terms understandably. You might need to let go of this one.

When I'm talking to a guy and things start to get a bit serious I start to find something wrong with them and then I'll just stop talking to them. Then later on when I think about it I realise that they didn't do anything wrong, I'm just scared to get hurt. How do I stop feeling like this

You need to give the guys you speak to a chance! The only way to avoid getting hurt is be on your own.

I've been abstinent for a long time now, just to save it for someone special, and now I've met that special person, I got raped and now I can't help but feel guilty that I've let him down. Because I can't even imagine doing anything, but I still want him, but I can't bring myself to really go there.

You haven't let anyone down so please never think like that. If you're comfortable enough, have a conversation with him about it and see how that makes you feel. Sexual abuse is not an easy topic to discuss but at least you're letting him in and still explaining how you feel about the relationship.

I find it so hard to ride the D sometimes and it can't even fit up there cos I think I'm too tight. What should I do?

Lube. Ann Summers have some great ones :-)

I get into bed I'm tormented by so many thoughts that I end up not sleeping for hours. I think it has a lot to do with not having any closure to everything. I'm in my 20's and at uni.

Closure can be good, but not always the greatest idea depending on the situation. Theres this popular belief that in order to move on, one must NEED closure. Wrong, you need peace of mine and if you're not sleeping for hours, I suggest you see a doctor.

After holding down an on & off relationship for 2 years, he drops a bomb( over text) that he has a gf and he loves her. Baring in mind he never mention or showed in his actions that he was seeing some else. Like what am I suppose to do, walk away? I feel like he owes me an apology

What will you do with an apology? He's an asshole, granted, but the best thing you can do is hold your head up and move on.

What do you do with a partner that doesnt accept encouragement after being told about their problem. Thats the same partner telling everyone to get over their issues. What do I do with mine Oloni

That's a problem they'll have to solve on their own, bringing it to their attention is all you can do.

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