Sex with me, because I didn't want to. Long story short he normal would call me like 4 times a day but after the whole situation he has only called me twice but I didn't answer. Should I just forget him and move on or should I talk to him,, (LOL at last I'm finished xxx)

January 25, 2015

Forget him.

One example he asked one girl to come and smoke with him. Anyways I got upset he spoke to my but I still felt a bit uneasy. After 3 weeks of me not choosing to go and see him I went after, he told me he was too attracted to me and he could resist getting horny but he claimed he didn't want to have

January 25, 2015

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See if my feeling ms would change. There were times when he would kiss me and I feel something but the majority of the time nothing. He gave me his password to his phone one time and he gave me his phone, so I went through it and I saw he was talking to so many girls it made me sick,

January 25, 2015

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Tell me and how deep it was) anyways I go to see him but I realise my feeling for him is not as deep as I thought it was, even when he hugged me I didn't even used to get butterflies. He kept telling me he loved me but I didn't say anything back. He used to get do upset. I still went to see him to

January 25, 2015

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Hi oloni, this boy I was talking to, well at first I didn't like him but he was so forceful and he took my number off my phone and he kept calling me, so I started to feeling him and he told me everything about his life and there were times he even cried to things about me (that's how much he used

January 25, 2015

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Is it common for men to hardly call these days? I've been dating a man for around 3 months, we talk on Whatsapp all the time and he takes me out a lot but hardly calls! He's perfect except for that. Sometimes I just want to talk to him late at night, you know?

January 25, 2015

3 months is quite some time! So let him know you'd like if he could call you from time to time. It's an irritating habit that can stop if you simply talk about it!

3. I don't know what to do, the sex was sooo good but it's like how do I tell her. Or do I tell her? I really did not know she was being for real when she said it cos she jokes about them kind of things a lot.

January 25, 2015

This will be tough but if you value your friendship with your friend despite how often you see/speak, let her know. Things like this could possibly come out, let her HEAR it from YOU. Not him, YOU. Tell her you how you took it when she used to say she lost her v to him. She could either laugh about it or be mad as fuck. Either way it's happened.

2. Time. But for some reason this time we were talking about out sex lives and she dropped the bomb that she lost her virginity to this guy (the same guy I had sex with) I mean she mentioned it before, like 3 years ago but I actually thought she was joking becuse she jokes about a lot.

January 25, 2015

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1. There's this guy that I'm talking to and he always dropping hints that he wants to have sex with me, I went round and it's happened, I don't like him though it was just sex however, I was talking to one of my close friends the other day, we don't talk that much but when we do it's for a longg

January 25, 2015

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What makes a guy lose interest. Slow replies not wanting to meet? I hate this

January 25, 2015

Every guy is different, it could be that you're just not what they're looking for. Maybe he doesn't think you have that much in common? Or that you don't have that spark in which he's looking for.

And that he doesn't wanna hurt me. The thing is that I'm not ready for a relationship just yet either but I wanted to find out if he could see something happening cos I don't wanna wait for no reason. He said that yeah he could see something happening but I shouldn't wait cos doesn't wanna hurt me..

January 25, 2015

He is politely letting you know he doesn't want/see a relationship happening. Listen to what he's saying not how he's saying it. He said 'I dont want a relationship or do I want to hurt you'. It seems like you're giving yourself mixed signals because he has said this & flaked on many occasions when you were supposes to meet up. Leave him & find someone else x

There's been a few times we've supposed to be meeting up and he just randomly cancelled but he did have genuine reasons. So anyways I decided to ask him basically what we are doing. He said that he really likes me but he's just not ready for a relationship just yet...

January 25, 2015

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So I've been talking to this guy for like 3 months & I really like him, there seems to be a strong connection there. We've been talking for ages but we rarely get to see each other because of work and uni... He says that he really likes me too but I think he sends me mixed messages...

January 25, 2015

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Can you love someone without meeting them in person?

January 25, 2015

Anything is possible.

So I have a friend with benefits... like no feelings (from my end, I'm 100% sure) and I recently met a guy. He seems really into me and he said he's not ready to have sex. He knows I'm not a virgin but he doesn't know about the FWB. What do I do?

January 25, 2015

Nothing. Your fwb is your fwb. You're not in a relationship with any of these guys. Do what you want. The guy you're seeing isn't entitled to know your sexual activities.

Am I wrong for breaking up 'friendships' with guys who just want sex. I've met a couple guys recently and they all want sex. It might be that I'm attractive, it might be based on the fact that I used to get around. But I'm not about that life anymore. I can't build friendships based on lust. Tips?

January 25, 2015

There's nothing wrong with your decision howeverrr some guys only project their desires by what you show. Not all, but a lot. Make sure your attitude isn't flirty or could be misinterpreted as 'having a bit of fun' despite your sexual history. As I said before cutting off guys who want more out of a basic friendship? Nope nothing wrong

I thought it'd heal itself. But now I recently heard he's been to a brothel during the time we weren't really talking and he was 'seeing' someone else when we had sex. He failed to mention either. What do I do? Let it go? I'm really feeling him but it's a lot of hassle. (4, finally lol) x

January 25, 2015

Gurlll find a new guy to jog with! He hasn't been consistent with his feelings. I'm sure you know the answer to this. Let it go!

We both went to uni, not speaking much but then around Nov had a really long catchup on FaceTime. It seemed platonic. Went to go see him after a month. To my surprise he came onto me and we had sex, I thought we were back to the beginning. Although I noticed a bit of emotional detachment (3)

January 25, 2015

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However, as aforementioned - during the summer he kinda dropped me out. Was a bit weird how I kinda had to run him down to see him, compared to it being the other way around previously. (2)

January 25, 2015

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Started seeing this guy for a month. He was really nice. Dates and feet massages, jogs in the morning etc lol. Got slightly intimate then he pulled away for 3 months. Left me wondering whether we were still on or not. When I'd see him out, we'd kiss and I thought we were back on (1)

January 25, 2015

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Me and my bf are long distance and we have been great for 2 years but now we don't talk as much and he doesn't make time for me anymore. I've even met his family which was a big thing for us (we're black Muslims) Should I end it?

January 25, 2015

Before you think a about ending it, talk to him & let him know how you feel. Give him a chance. If you don't feel anything has changed, then yeah do what you feel is right

I was seeing someone for a year and it didn't end so good although we agreed to be friends. He still wanted to have sex and I didn't and he stopped talking to me after that. I miss him and I don't want what we had back but I just want to be friends with him. Is it stupid to message him?

January 25, 2015

If you're 100 percent sure you can be friends sure, why not?

Ive been with my bf for a couple of months and he admitted that he is scared to give oral and promised to think about it. Its been a couple of weeks now, how do i bring the issue up again as oral is important to me?

January 24, 2015

Talk to him and explain that if he doesn't you won't either. 2015 and guys are being selfish in the bedroom? Nope!

I was talking too a guy and I felt as if he came into my life for a reason, he got into a bit of trouble and now I have no way of contacting him. I don't know his bestf like that but I'm sure I can get his number that way is that creepy or should I leave it ? I really want to help him change

January 24, 2015

There's no harm in trying to get in contact, but be careful and make sure you won't get yourself into trouble.

How long does it take to get over someone? I broke up with this guy 8 months ago and my heart is BURNING! Im angry because i still love him after everything :(

January 24, 2015

Everyone is different! Missing someone & getting over them are two different things especially if you love them. That love doesn't disappear instantly. Keep yourself busy and try meeting new people.

Oloni

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