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I've been blocked by all social media by an ex after a big argument where we officially broke up for about 2 weeks now. Would you say that's it for good? Or was it most likely out of anger? I'm stressing over it! I know boys minds are different from girls

He probably did it because it caused arguments & doesn't want any form of contact nor know what you're up to, vice versa.
We women have a thing for cyber stalking an ex. It was probably out of anger and right now probably for the best.

He's not my boyfriend, I think I'd like him to be but I've already done away with the no sex beige monogamy thing I'm really scared he'll say or I'll find out he's seeing someone else or something and I don't wanna get myself upset I need some indication of what we are or where this is going

Talk to him and ask!

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; I don't know if these were dates, I can't tell if he likes me we've got with eachother but these guys will sleep with anything. I don't know what we are but I know I can't ask that cause he's said before how he's funny about that question so what do I do to work out where I stand

If he's 'funny' about that question it means he's either not interested or unsure. Ask again and get a PROPER answer.

; hi okay so basically I met this guy a year ago and we started speaking since like February till now. Over the past few months we've gotten closer. We go out to eat and cinema visit eachother at work go ice skating bowling bla bla I really like him but I'm just so confused

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Ok I don't know if you've ever got a question like this but what's the best way (if possible) to get an old guy back? The NC rule? Will time tell? Or is there another way

You did the NC rule for a reason! Leave it alone.

Oloni please this has always baffled me. Why is it that when you're completely over a guy, or in those final stages or getting over him, whether ex or old link, THEY JUST POP UP!!!! Would you say it's a sign of 'meant to be' or just a test lol

It's a way to see if he has a type of hold on you, so yes it is a test.

How do you know when you've found 'the one'? What would you consider 'the one' to be

Only you will know who 'the one' is it'll be a very different feeling any guy has ever given you.

I've had two serious boyfriends and ive had sex with both of them. But when i was younger i was very active, even till this day, sometimes its just the tip, sometimes its sex for 5 seconds with guys, i just get caught up in the moment. long story short i dont know my body count, should i be ashamed?

Not ashamed, but I think you need to take your time. Sounds like you've caught up in some random situations.

Not that she's interfering but they're still in contact I can't lie I'm a little insecure

And your reasoning for that is completely fine. Perhaps talk to him about it? He should be able to understand.

My current guy's ex is a girl my ex cheated on me with. I know they're history but it really gets to me do I need to get over it?

Yesss. Unless she's interfering, what are you worried of?

My bf/fiancé (it's complicated) argue a lot. When we're good we're reallyyy good and when we are bad it's reallyyyy bad and end up breaking up a lot. Is this normal?

Depends on your definition of normal. If you're heading towards marriage, you both have to snap out of that mighty quickly & see a councillor.

Im 20 years old and im not in a long term relationship, or even just a relationship. I know everything has its own time, but should i just stop being picky and settle?

No

I recently broke a guys heart, he's so good for me but I coudlnt see myself in it long term and I felt I was settling in the relationship. He was not affectionation at all and I'm someone who craves affection. We had other issues aswell. I feel to terrible and I'm thinking about trying to make it wo

With time it'll get better & know you made the right decision. You know what you want and that's good.

X. I'm literally so scared I'll never find the one. I'm a hopeless romantic I believe in the whole you deserve someone who's utterly obsessed with you and maybe that's where I'm going wrong because I always like the guy more, *sigh* some advice would be appreciated xx

You just have to keep searching. Finding someone is 'utterly obsessed' with you does not happen over night, nor do they just drop out of the sky. It's good you're not settling, just make sure YOU'RE ready for that person.

X. But I don't know what to do. I recently got back with an ex who I believed I truely loved but not it seems I never really loved him at all and I cried over him for nothing. My mum also said maybe I'm settling because deep down I know the type of guy I want and none of these match up

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X. A long term guy because I just seem to lose interest. I've dated a lot of different guys but it's the same thing. I spoke to my mum about this earlier and she suggested I may just be settling for these guys. Most of them have pure intentions as sex hardly ever comes into it with any of them

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X. Oloni I think i have a serious problem, Im really flighty when it comes to guys and change my mind about them so quick. I fall head over heels with them and then something goes wrong and I end up realising those feelings were lust or the feeling just fades. I think it's stopping me from finding

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I love this guy wholeheartedly. He hurt me but I've reflected and forgiven him. I'm scared to reach out and say something. I think he's scared of reaching out too. However, I know that if I wait, I may miss out on us trying again. Everyone says the man should contact first. Should I go for it? xx

Ignore them & yes, go for it. Let me know how it goes :-)

My bf suggested we go for a meal, near the end he said something to annoy me. So I went & paid my share, not knowing he had left w/out paying. Then he got mad at me cos he had to pay cos he came back to get me to come outside & the waitress saw him & made him pay. Now he's saying I owe him wtf?

I'm confused, what would you owe him if you paid for your own food? He owes himself. He's being silly.

2) what do I do? I feel so bad, do I tell her? I've asked and been told not to because it happened before they began dating but I value our friendship way too much. :(

Hey! Yes you should let her know. It was before they started dating, so if you do tell her express that too. Tell her you just ant to be honest and prefer if it came from you rather than anyone else.

1) This is abit different. Imma just be plain and simple. I had a friend who I had sex with, and left it as that. However, months after he gets a girlfriend and I find out she goes to my college, we hit it off instantly and began to get really close. I can maybe even say she's one of my closest.

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