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Does mastrubating loosen the vagina ? As if you mastrubate too often as a virgin will your Vagina resemble someone that has had sex ?

Not at all.

However, when we made our decision he said it was because he didn't want to lose a friend who he regards so highly (me). We are still very good friends so how do I get rid of/over my feelings for him?

You give it some time & try not be around each other so much!

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Hey! My good friend and I recently decided to stop sleeping together because of deeper feelings (I have them, he doesn't). I was initially planning to just slightly lay off contact with him so I could stop thinking about him...

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at what point in a relationship is it appropriate to be emotionally vulnerable? i've been dating a guy for 3 months and at times i want to send him an 'i miss you' text but i'm scared that it's too soon...

3 months is okay to send 'I miss you' texts. If I'm honest there really isn't even a time limit, you just do what feels right. Sort of like leaning in for that first kiss.

my close friend's boyfriend just told me he has feelings for me? they are both my friends. How do I tell her? Should I tell her?

Yes tell her, only because she's a close friend. Just make sure you have proof too.

Mind games again. So I've decided to take matters into my own hands and stop answering. Am I overthinking?

You're doing the right thing. He's bored & using your time to fill in an empty void. Cheeky shit.

I used to date this guy, long story short I reckon he was just stringing me along because nothing came of it. Fast forward a few months he pops back up in my life ringing me at late hours every other day. He sometimes says he'll call back and then doesn't. I personally think he's back to play (1)

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I'm dating this guy,were not officially in a relationship but we've established that what we've got is exclusive. His 21st birthday is coming up and Ihe keeps saying he doesn't know what to do for it. I want to make the day really special for him but idk if it's weird cause I'm not his gf. advice?

Don't go over the top..I'd suggest a dinner date.

Me and my boyfriend recently broke up... Should is return his promise ring or not as i dont want to hold on to it as it is now just a painful reminder of what could have been. I dont want to throw it away as i feel that is really rude?

You can box it away and place it in a place in your house you rarely go to. A storage.

how would you say creating a proper bond with someone is? whether friend or girl/boyfriend

Creating a bond? Create memories together little all big. Experience things together whilst getting to understand each other really well.

I've been talking to someone for about 2 years now. In the beginning it was off and on and a bit of fun. We would often plan to meet up but he would flop the plans last minute. So we only message each other and snapchat. We've facetimed once or twice. Since February we have been talking quite heavil

Let it go.

I love my bf sooo much. He really looks after me and even though we have our bad moments, he's the only person who makes me happy.but his line of work is illegal and he'll never stop as he gets so much money. Do I leave him for a guy who's legit or continue to love him the way he loves me?

You do what is right by explaining to him how you feel & thinking about the future. Is this what you want later down the line?

I've been single for a while. Men don't seem to want me for anything more than my body. I don't believe I give off this impression so I don't know why it is happening. Please help?

Lots of men are after sex, youre job as a person is to weed those out by getting to know them more and making sure they don't get the impression that's all your after too.

How do I become less relaint on guys making me happy and more on myself? I've tried figuring out ways but it's really difficult and I don't have a lot of self confidence.

I answer this in my new #ebook #100Questions!

I am in a relationship. He's a great guy and is in love with me and nothing is wrong but when I am away from him I can't help feeling that I'm not ready to settle down and I don't think I really want any sort of a relationship. Do I break uo with him? How do I do it? Or do I stick it out.

You stay true to your emotions. If that's how you feel, then something isn't right. It's good to be a great guy, but sometimes that isn't enough. Have a conversation with him & let him know how you feel by saying 'I don't think this is relationship is for me...etc etc'.

Broke up with my ex last year May and we stopped talking completely in Aug..and though i've been with other people I cant seem to move on. I feel pathetic hes got a new gf now and is happy. Why cant I move on too? Why is it taking so long? I just wanna be happy.

And you will be happy, if you stop comparing how you both moved on. You need keep yourself extremely busy to an extent whereby you never think of him. You'll get used to it & be able to worry or think about him, hopefully get you a new boo too x

so I don't know whether to continue exploring this and the possibility of getting intimate or whether to just rule a line under it and maybe stay friends, rather than going further and catching feelings that might not even be reciprocated ?

You're not too sure what you want, and I think it's a case of 'if the right one comes along' so carry on dating & don't let this guy be the only egg in your basket. Carry on being friends, you have no reason not to be. Happy dating xx

I've been dating a guy, so far I like him and the relationship we have, but I'm not sure things will get serious as he's said pretty early on that he is enjoying single life atm. I'm new to relationships tbh, but I like what we have. I’m 21 and not really looking to settle down any time soon, ...

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I'm talking to this guy but each time I have to keep the conversation flowing. I like him but I'm confused do I let him talk to me first or keep chatting to him?

If youre giving the most, it's because he's not that interested. Don't play games, just talk to someone else!

I need your advice I've known this dude for a long time for the past 8 months I've been seeing him no one else I asked him where this was going he gave me some wishy washy response The past 2 weeks I ain't seen him and these few days I've stopped messaging him and he has not messaged me either

He's not serious & has probably been dreading the 'what are we' question. 8 months? Please don't waste any more energy.

Would a boy take me seriously if I've previously dated somebody he knows ? He calls me and talks to me everyday , if he didn't like me would he make the effort ?

Have a talk with him about it. Only he can give you that answer as all dudes arent the same.

you've answered this question plenty of times before and I can't go through the 1000s of questions you have but I need some advice on self worth and value.I'm in a rship and I feel that I forget my self worth how do I maintain it and what exactly am I maintaing. I don't want too be taken for a prick

I have answered this a zillion times, but i do answer it in my new ebook coming out in April.

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