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MP- will be guys there so I'm scared or what I'm doing and what's going on with me right now and I really don't know what to do :,( HELP!!!

October 16, 2014

Hey MP, I don't think you're madly in love. I think you're infatuated with what you had and you're not allowing yourself to move on, even though he has. You need to give love another chance, by meeting other people. God is not removing anyone from your life, but probably not giving you anyone yet, because you probably wouldn't know what to do with him. That's like buying a car for someone who hasn't got a driving license. I mean sure you can get it later, but a car you can't drive is still pretty useless. If you do want to talk some more email me.

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MP- at peace not talking to anyone loneliness is getting to me a bit and I'm starting to feel like maybe I should be so quick to reject guys approaching me just because I'm feeling some type of way right now. I'm also at a point where I hate socialising and going places where I know there...

October 16, 2014

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MP- the first time since the breakup and I'm at a loss of what to do or even say! I feel like if he rejects me then my whole world would end (dramatic I know!!) im at a point in my life now where I'm not interested in guys and it seems like God is just removing every guy from life. Although I'm at .

October 16, 2014

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MP- I feel that maybe my feelings towards him aren't as genuine as I feel they are due to having no closure so I'm loving someone that might not love me anymore. The reason we broke is because we can't be together due to family issues so he got another girlfriend. I might be seeing him soon for...

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MP- is it possible that the first guy I was with is the reason why it's not worked out with anyone else. It's been almost 2 years and in madly in love with him still maybe because I never got any closure from the relationship. If he wanted to get back together I would say yes in a heartbeat....

October 16, 2014

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i like this guy, i want to say he likes me as well cos the way he acts and the small things he does when we're together. the problem is we're both really stubborn so we hardly text/phone call each other unless i text/call him first. what do i do? is he event interested in me?

October 16, 2014

You don't like each other enough, because if you did text/phoning each other would not be a problem. People who usually like each other tend to do that the most, especially during the early stages.

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As in, what shall I do if I still somehow "have feelings" for someone I haven't spoken to for years

October 16, 2014

If you haven't spoken in years, are you sure your feelings will be the same?

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What do you think of sending nudes?

October 16, 2014

Perfectly normal.

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Yeah I love the guy but I want to leave. It's not working tbh I do try but how do I leave?

October 16, 2014

He hasn't called in two weeks. You don't need to do much. However, if he does get in contact explain how you felt when he reacted to what you told him.

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I've already told him to make an effort & nothing has changed. He hasn't called for two weeks?

October 16, 2014

Two weeks is very long. All because you asked your other half to call you? He's being ridiculous.

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What does it mean when he only texts but doesn't call. We've been together for 3 years. What do I do?

October 16, 2014

It means you've settled for his poor version of communication. You better tell him that he needs to make an effort and to stop being so lazy.

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I had sex with this guy I like but he doesnt know my name

October 16, 2014

You don't like him that much, believe me.

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I'm 18, I've liked a guy since we were 12 but after 15, I was too stubborn to let it go anywhere and cut off all ties. How does that work when I haven't spoken to him for years?

October 16, 2014

I don't understand what you're asking.

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Hi, can I email you? My situation is a little complicated and long.

October 16, 2014

Sure :-)

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i have been in a relationship for coming up to 7 years (im 23 soon) with an older guy he is 8 years older than me. I do love him but sometimes i feel like he expects me to take on the wife role and i have just graduated i want to live and explore with him. but he's stuck in his ways and i am lost

October 16, 2014

He could just be doing so because he wants to marry you one day. However, do not take on any wifey roles till he places a ring on your finger. Talk to him and express your needs. If you don't communicate properly it will only carry on.

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guys think she's buff but I don't trust her but I'm with her:/

October 13, 2014

If you're with someone because of their looks alone, then I can't help.

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is it possible to be in a relationship but not trusting them? (Guy asking)

October 13, 2014

There are many relationships where trust is the main issue. Will it work however? Not really. Being in a relationship without trust is like riding a bike without wheels. Where exactly do you think you're going?

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My boyfriend still talks to his ex in snapchat, Twitter etc. she tells me but he doesn't. Do I dump him?

October 13, 2014

If you have a problem with it, discuss it. There's no need to jump straight into dumping him.

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Of them selfs posing in front of cars or them doing something expensive

October 13, 2014

That's weird. Ignore.

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Guys always approach me on instagram how do i respond to them like if they send me a pic do i send back a pic

October 13, 2014

A picture of what?

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whats your opinion on friends with benefits?

October 12, 2014

It can work as long as emotions aren't involved. Get yours.

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I'm attracted to a close friend of mine. They're a bit of a player and they know that I disapprove of their actions, and so respecting my opinion this person often comes to me for advice. Obviously my feelings are clouding my judgement but I don't understand how I'm supposed to help objectively

October 12, 2014

If you already know that your friend is a player don't go there! And if your feelings are clouding your judgement when giving advice, don't give them any. It's unfair for both of you if it isn't coming from a genuine place.

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All my friends have been in serious relationships I'm 23 and have never been in one. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong.

October 12, 2014

Don't compare yourself to your friends. Dating is a part of learning about your likes and dislikes, your journey will not be the same as theirs. So go out more, meet new people! As cliche as it sounds, working on yourself is best too, especially for when you do meet that great person.

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When your having sex how do you know when your girl cums?

October 12, 2014

Ask her! Every girl is completely different

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that audio clip you sent last night had so many valid points...please do another.

October 11, 2014

I just might :-) and thank you.

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