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I lost my virginity to this guy(quite drunk). Became very close to him in few month. He's 7 years older than me. Since we slept together he has changed like we hardly talk or see each other. Don't know how to deal with this. It's making me angry. Any advice ? Thanks

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Sadly thats the norm for guys who just lose interest in someone theyre dating/seeing/sleeping with. Dont get worked up, you'll meet someone else. So many of us go through this!! Get yourself out there and get to know a new person.

Any tips for single girls this Valentine's Day? :( my first valentines without my ex! :(

Go out with your friendsss!

My friend does tooooo much and it puts girls off me cause they think we're a couple sometimes, what do I do please?

Explain to her how you feel!!

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It was the one about me feeling like I'm not interested in anyone and that I don't I'll ever get over the incident that happened that led me to now to think this way. Something along those lines

Youre going to have to help me out more. I have like a zillion questions..

Have you answered all questions now, not sure if mine got sent? :(

What was it I get up to 50 a day & try to answer the ones that arent similar.

I have a very bitter ex ting, I'm now seeing another girl but I have a feeling her bitterness and attention seeking ways may stop the new girl I'm seeing from taking me serious. What do I do?

Keep out of each others way & block/delete her from all forms of social media including her number. Don't allow an ex to mess up something great with the next :-)... Almost rhymed.

I feel like my relationship is falling apart and is just not working anymore. Whenever I try and talk to him about what we can do to fix it he says it will fix itself and we shouldn't talk about it. What should I do because I want to give up?

His answers are irritating me. No you both need to TALK, then action needs to take place if he can't respect what youre asking for.. My dear pack your bags.

Alright. And another thing, I can't stop fucking my ex. We're both in relationships but she's like a very close friend with benefits now. How does one cut her off when she has good pussy?

You can't be serious.

For a while now 90% of the women I've slept with have Boyfriends/fiance etc (a husband one time),one even had her man come pick her up after we smashed. Now I got huge trust issues n I'm Tryna settle down..Any advice ?

Yes. First of all you need to be careful with the women you give a bit of yourself to. There are several women out there who are single as a dollar bill. I'm guessing youre worried the woman you end up with might cheat on you due yo your experience. Try getting to know someone who is nothing like the girls youve had an affair with.

Hi oloni. I'm 20 and haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years. Starting to feel like maybe there's something wrong with me. I've dated guys over this time but nothing has worked out so far

It's been two years not 10 . Chillll a boyfriend & a match made in heaven doesn't happen over night.

If long term we work out for something I be happy but right now I just wanna text him and be like come over and chill :)

Then do so.

i met this guy a few weeks ago at a party we have mutual friends and we was flirting in the long story short i slept with him on night and it was fantastic. However we have barely spoke since then but he just been so busy with work and travelling overseas. I dont want a relationship just some fun

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a guy that wanted to date me is throwing shade at me,but i honestly tried he was just always making me feel like im not good enough but then constantly approached me,should i jus ignore the shade now

He's immature ignore him.

Most days I can't stand my boyfriend . I'm trying to make our relationship work but letting go of the past hasn't been easy and it's making me really dislike him. This relationship has made me realise that maybe I'm not cut out for this What should I do?

That happens and it's fine, even better admitting so. Do what you know is right. You can't be in a relationship with someone you dislike.

How do I tell my boyfriend to be I have genital herpes?

You just tell him. Sit him down advise he gets a check up too.

If you found out a man had been cheating on his girlfriend with you for several months would you ever consider telling the girlfriend the truth?

Nope.

My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 im currently 7 months pregnant from him. For the past three days his been distant all of a sudden, he dont even call or text me. When i asked him whats wrong & everything and his reply was listen dont fuckin start im at peace

3 years or 3 months? Either way this guy seems like a joke. Confront him about his actions and choice of words but do it with someone you both trust.

Hi, I've been seeing this guy for a while but he's not making it clear how he feels - well thats how I feel- and when I do talk about it he says things he knows I wanna hear. Im just sure what to do

Believe whatever he tells you. I'm guessing it something along the lines of not being ready, girl let him go.

Oloni, I'm currently in a full time serious relationship, hopefully my last one. I'm ready to settle down but I still can't stop cheating. Am I still immature or am I a weak/greedy man who loves woman? It's an old friend by the way.

You're not ready to be in a relationship. And it will end if you carry on. Realise why you can't stop cheating. Are you greedy? Do you think you werent built for a monogamous relationship? Is there something missing?? Someone who is completely happy with who they are with does not repeat the same offence.

I am a born again christian who wants to follow the rules on waiting till marriage. But to be frank im very jealous of u n everyone who gets to experience sex without guilt. What do you feel about this. It makes me judgemental when im really just jealous

It could be either, but how people choose to have sex shouldn't be your concern. If you want to wait do so!

Im not judging, but don't you find it a bit... weird that you are a young woman who is not married yet you "specialise" in sex and relationships.. or have i got this idea all wrong

I don't specialise in sex & relationships. I just have a strong passion for the two. Since when did marriage mean that you automatically unlock allll the answers? There are couples who aren't married and are happier than those who are. Marriage has nothing to do with the research I've done, passion, love & time I give to these subjects.

Should I text my ex guy? He said its best if we go separate ways and never talk again but he's been in my mind as of lately and it's the urge is bugging me

Leave him alone.

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