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Okay, I saw someone Last year and he was the first guy that had ever shown interest in me in that way and he is beautiful. He works abroad . Asia I called it off after a while as I decided that long distance wasn't for me and suggested we should be friends. He kept insisting then eventually gave up,

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My Boyf has been in a lot of pain lately so he's been at home a lot resting but I want too see him, am I being selfish, he can be in pain at my house

Lol leave him alone.

My 1st experience pretty much, but nonetheless, I figure now that I've not been living my life. I'm perpetually held back and sexually repressed all of the time. I want to experience hook ups, intimacy, lust, and passion. I'm young, that keeps life rolling. Any advice? (Please just post this part)

My dear, you are very cute and you need to find your confidence or else all of the things you mentioned can't be done without it. The only thing stopping you is YOU. Your insecurities are holding you back. Fear is holding you back. You have learn to love your beauty and appreciate it inside and out. If you want lust and passion find lust and passion, but first of all feel comfortable in your skin. Sexual liberation is that. If you'd like more help do email.

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After his friends found out, it became difficult because he was seeing a female, similar aesthetic to the one in my fake photo, and she had started harassing me about being obsessed with her then partner. It was hard for me as he cut me off and moved on without giving back and it was special for me.

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could not possibly befriend him under my real identity as I'm not attractive and i'd never had a male interested in me. So I used a fake photo and we spoke on there- he initiated it. Long story short, I told him the truth, we were intimate, and fell for each other; the real me/the real him.

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Anyhow, after months of trying to reach out with my actual and honest identity. I configured a desperate idea which sole purpose was to find out whether he'd be doing any exhibits, and that was it-delete. Fast forward, because I've struggled with my identity and looks my whole life, I figured I

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(Please don't post that photo. I'm being very vulnerable and I'm getting to the point now lol) Anyhow, the first encounter I had with a man, it was a stem from an encounter online. I actually was a supporter of his artistry and appreciated his story. He traveled quite a bit, and had great philosophy

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But I do not find myself sexy.It is very hard to attract anyone with my physical looks, and though i get complimented about my personality, talents, and mind, there is still a disconnect there. Growing up, all of my friends were attractive: mind, body, spirit. I had a lot of troubles about myself.

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I've not been sexual with anyone in almost three years and I am a twenty two year old female. It is circumstantial. I often feel as if I can't relate to other women my age because I've not been opened up sexually, and I feel I am aging pre-maturely instead of getting to experience the glory of sex

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How do i get over someone i lost my virginity to? We we're in a situationship for 3 months... We stopped talking because he was still talking to his ex girlfriend and didn't make me aware..After i confronted him he said he still likes me, but dont want all the emotions. pls shed light. idgi.

Losing your virginity to someone who hurt you will never be easy. But if you've been in a situationship it was never a healthy bond. Move on despite his words.

..social media , however I really scared ND I'm thinking of even ditching him. I can't even go to sleep at night because I have scary nightmares of it being a completely different person , oloni dp u think I'm over reacting? Or is this a bad idea?

You can meet in public to feel more relaxed, but if youre having nightmares don't follow through with something youre not comfortable with.

Hey oloni , I'm a 20 year old female ND I usually hate communicating with strangers online especially men as I never know for sure who's behind the screen. However my friends persuaded me to start replying to my dms as they could be great guys , I'm meeting a guy that I met through.....

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I found out a couple of days ago I am 6 weeks pregnant for my bf of almost 2 years, he made abort one last year just after a miscarriage from my previous relationship, this baby was planned and we were buzzing about it, now that I'm pregnant he's got cold feet and is telling me to abort this one too

I really think YOU need to do what's best for you and also think about your options very carefully. See a doctor who can refer you to a councillor and can guide you properly. Talk to your boyfriend and explain why you need his support through this time. Getting cold feet is normal but doesn't mean you can't think and talk about it more. I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through and I wish you the best.

As a bisexual woman it's impossible to find femme girls that swing your way. Do you have any tips on meeting girls or at least being able to tell if they're lesbian/bisexual?

No different for straight people.. go to new places especially where LGBT communities are situated.

My boyfriend has never ever given me that full satisfaction. Ive never had an orgasm with him. I love him but I just want to enjoy the whole sex not just the foreplay. What should I do?

Tell him what you enjoy the most during sex. 'I love it when you'.. 'I get the best sensation when you' Guide him around your body. Some guys think theyre actually the bomb diggidy but have no clue that most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation... yet, some forget it exists.
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My first got mad at me and told me to stop disrespecting him when I told him he used me for sex, why? He said don't say he used me sexually as it wasn't true, and that he was very kind to let me in his life, and to please not disrespect him. Thoughts?

You both sound childish. Leave each other alone.

There's this guy I'm interested in but I follow his ex on Twitter. Is it fickle to almost not be interested because of a cyber friendship ?

I understand why you'd think it's fickle, but you do not know her and that's the cut throat truth. If your relationship was really real cyber or not, I doubt this would come across your mind.

I want to have sex with my bf but I'm scared of the first time pain. The fair of pain makes me not want to do it. The whole idea of bleeding makes me sick..how do I overcome it?

Being scared is natural. A lot of women will tell you they felt the exact same way. I can tell you that not all women bleed through sexual intercourse for the first time. So relax and perhaps talk to your boyfriend about it.

Catch up with me and I was wondering if you could help me in anyway? x

Email me! Itsoloni@gmail.com I'd like to talk to you more. X

I'm a 18 year old female whose seeking help due to my sex habit. I've had over 60 sexual partners since I lost my virginity at 14 but I'm starting to see a problem. I'm starting to calm down now and looking for that one person due to improvements in my mental health but I'm scared my past may --

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I found out that my ex (we broke up recently), cheated with one of his female friends. We were actually getting on and becoming friends, but now I'm just really angry. I don't know if I have a right to be angry, I know we are over now but we were together when he cheated. Should I be amicable?

You have every reason to be mad. You were together and he was unfaithful at one point. It's entirely up to you to decide if you'd like to carry on trying to become friends, can you handle it? If not, leave it alone.

Do you have any openings for an advice columnist on your site? I really fe like I have something to say, to give, to help women just the way you do.

Not right now, but if you email. I'll have you in mind for the future.

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