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As mentioned previously. Im 20 years old and i look my age. How can i stop these men approaching me? Men my age never aprroach me. Its got me worried beause i would like to settle down and have kids in the next 5/6 years but not with a man 10 years older than me. please advise me x (2)

You can't stop men from actually approaching you, however you might need to change you where you socialise. Do you go to events where there are people your age?

Im 20 years old, i would like to believe i look my age. Im single at the moment, i wouldnt say im looking. But if a guy comes along and has the charasterics im attracted to i might sway towards him lol. Let me get to the question. I always get approached my older men, lets say age 27+ (1)

uh huh.

Guys are attracted to me physically but whenever i start talking to someone, the conversation never lasts long and i dont hear from them again, what am i doing wrong

Being attractive is not enough to keep a man interested. And do you try to keep in contact with any of the guys you've spoken to?

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I did stuff with this guy I think I like although I don't really know him that well. We almost had sex and even though he was acting normal afterwards he didn't contact me for a while. He recently contacted me but i think it's only because he's going to be in my area, am I just a hook or not?

Unless you're dtf it's clear he's only interested in being physical.

One of my closest guy friends attamepted to have sex with me, after about 1 year of being close friends and 3 years knowing each other. There has never been advances, attraction or even flirting during this time, so his sudden advance (which I turned down) was a shock. We haven't spoken since. Help

Reach out to him, he's probably doesn't know what to say either. It's literally that simple.

I'm 25 and I have never dated, or had an relationship by choice. Surprisingly I get a lot of male attention and I am attracted to only male but I believe I'm still fearful from childhood experiences and get very anxious when I'm getting close and attached to another male. What do I do ?

If you're fearful from childhood experiences, then it's perfectly understandable. I think talking to a councillor could help as I'm not one, and I wouldn't be able to advise you properly. However, just like any other person who hasn't been through what you have, when you meet a man who makes you comfortable, you won;t worry about getting close.

My boyfriend and i always had sex at least 3-5 times a week. If i'm lucky if I get him to do it once now....what do I do?

Try new things to get him into the mood!

So, I finally called my ex everytime I call it goes straight to voicemail ..messaged him on FB he replied within minutes. Tbh I don't want him back but I fel like since he called me telling he missed me etc. I wanted to check on him if he was okay but I cba anymore. am I doing the right thing ?

You clearly don't know what you want! If you don't want him, just let it go. If you feel there could be something there, try.

What's your new book about?

SEX & LOTS OF IT. The double standards within society and women who are afraid to be sexually explorative due to society. PLUS so much more!

Yes....he flirted with another girl right after we had sex, she was my friend and also he touched my other friends ass and asked to ''hit it''

Stop talking to him. He's an ass.

I've been talking to a girl I like more frequently recently even though we've been good friends for a year. Lately our friendship's had the dynamics of a relationship. I reckon she knows that I like her but I don't know if she feels the same way. What do I do?

Tell her. It's great you've been friends for a year, it shows you know each other well enough.

I loved your podcast and I agree it's a difficult one cus not every friendship is completely genuine.

Thank you :-)

I'm 16 and had sex for the first time with a guy that I thought really liked me and I liked him back but the same night he flirted with my friend after we did it, and never spoke to me again :( how do I stop such things ever happening again

He flirted with another girl right after you had sex?

I have this guy friend who likes me and he is always there for me,but i just dont feel that way about him,but i feel bad about it but it should I?

Nothing, you can't force the attraction.

Every guy I talk to wants to have sex with me, I end up liking them but I dunno what I'm doing wrong, why they don't like me back. How do you talk to men

Lol how do I talk to men? Good question. I'm honestly myself, chatty and full of life. A majority of men generally want to have sex with women they're attracted to, so don't worry BE YOURSELF. You're not doing anything wrong, you're just distinguishing, who likes you and who's just after what's between your legs. Relax.

there's this boy that i like, we went on a date last week and it went ok, we hadn't spoken since then i saw him today at a party, we spoke then i saw him kissin' another girl, what should i do?

Move on. He sounds like an ass.

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