me and my friends are writing a blog and don't know how to promote it. any tips or ideas?
Share it with ALL your friends & write a lot of strong material.
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We broke up and we didn't talk it through. Now I want to talk it through, get closure but he's so busy he can't talk, doesn't have the time but is on all social networks, watching matches and all. What do I do or what's wrong? I really just want closure to move on
If you've asked for closure in the past and he's not giving it to you. You can't do anything about it, but move on. Closure isn't something you force. Stop looking at his social media and worry about your next steps. What made you break up? What made YOU unhappy? Focus on that so the next relationship will not be a repeat.
3) ...I don't want to get hurt. How do you let go of the past? Should I persue a relationship w/ this guy? I told him once about my ex, but I didn't really go into detail. I don't want to make it seem like I'm making up excuses but I don't want to have to go through the heartbreak w/ another person
Dear, i'll be honest. The only way to avoid hurt or pain is by being on your own. There is nothing wrong with, crushing on a new guy, liking a new guy, dating a new guy & BEING in a relationship with a new guy! Take it slowly and give yourself a chance!xx
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2) I was heartbroken. It's been just as under a year since we broke up and I'm beginning to have feelings for someone else. I don't want to rush anything between us but everyone's always tells me how much he likes me and wants a relationship w/ me. I'm too scared that I'll get hurt but I don't want
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1) My ex and I were together on and off for 4 years. Throughout he cheated on me with numerous girls (I believe up to 6 different girls) after breaking up with him, he would tell me how much he loves me & that he wants me back and I'd take him back, then he'd cheat again. I'd cry myself to sleep...
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I'm seeing a girl n her mum don't like me. She didn't give a reason n she's never met me. She don't want to get to know me or me to change her mind and she want my lady to stop seeing me. She's don't know what to do, understandably. I feel to end it before it goes sour from the stress what you think
If you think it's not worth it, then end it. However as I said before I think she still needs to sit down & talk about it with her mum. I'm guessing your over the age of 18 so you're both old enough to date whoever you want without the inconvenience of others.
Do you believe that star signs are accurate?
Not, completely but I see my traits in mine.
Am I breaking real boundaries here, or is she just being angry because we're really down for each other and he kinda did her dirty.. (2)
You're not breaking boundaries if you had no clue, it's just unfortunate on her part. If you're together then you're together, they didn't work out so she has to move on and accept your relationship with him. It'll be hard, but that's just how it's going to have to be.
My cousin used to link some guy back in the day and I never heard about him. He didn't know we were related and we met and now we're happily together. I recently told my cousin that we are now an item and she said that we "can't" be together even though she's moved on and they were never together(1
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I'm taking to two guys but I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I had sex with one of them cos I see him most of the time and I really like him but I talk to the other guy a lot and I see more of a future with him... Help
It's up to you, date who you have a future with makes sense.
I've recently caught feelings for my best male friend. Everyone jokes about us being a couple and have given us a couple name etc. but I spent so long denying my feelings for him that I'm pretty sure I've convinced him that I don't like him. I want to change that but I don't know how to approach him
Have a conversation with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Face to face or over the phone, not via imessage or whats app please.
The mother of the girl I'm dating don't like me even tho we haven't met. She saw me once n made up her mind. She want her daughter to stop seeing me. My lady is confused understandably n so am I. Should we just leave it as things are still getting better before it goes bad on us or just carry on.
Carry on. She has no valid excuse to dislike you, but I think your girlfriend should sit down and find the root of the problem by talking to her.
... ND that she wants to be best friends with him. I think its kinda weird lime why do u want to know him sooo bad and recently I catched her with a picture of him on her phone I was like wtf??? ND all she said is that she liked the pics ND its no problem should I be worried?
Yeah that's very odd. Tell her you'd like her to back off and stop being so weird. It's irritating you and you'd prefer if she stopped.
Hey oloni , basically I'm in my first year of uni and mr and this girl in room mates with became good friends. So I told her about a guy that I have been seeing nd she wanted to know hs insta so I showed her not knowing she would FOLLOW him. She always talks about how he is so hot....continued
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is it alright to be sexually attracted to girls a bit?? I'm not a lesbian, I still enjoy screwing guys 100 times over. it's just that sexy girls tickle my fancy a bit.
Of course it's alright, women are beautiful creatures.
I broke up with my boyfriend and tbh I'm not dealing very well with it. I was hurt many times within the relationship and I just feel so shit within myself. I don't know how to cope and it's taking its toll on my uni work because I'm just so sad. What can I do to make things better?
You need spend it doing things that will keep you busy. Spend time moving past by being around supportive friends. You'll be fine, especially as you made the right choice.
Hey so my first love just decided to show up and claim he wants me back but I have a potential that I'm intrested in and I was 15 (5years ago) when we trued dating. Should I give him a chance?
It's up to you, but I'd give the other dude a chance instead.
I am at a time and place where everything around me feels and looks so negative. I don't have friends I can confide in and been in foster care most my life so I don't even have a family. I'm in search of love so I started sleeping around. Yet when I'm done, I'm back to square one. I need love.
You have to recognise what love is first. So show it to yourself before you search for it. If you start searching for love without realising what it is, you will come across a lot of things & people who disguise theirs. If you would like to talk more please do e-mail me instead itsoloni@gmail.com
I like a guy who used to like my friend. She never liked him back and they've just been friends. I liked him since I met him but never told her. We chill together a lot I stopped at his and we ended up getting together & he said he likes me. Am I like breaking girl code? Help lol
Nope. She never showed any interest, ever. You'll be fine, just let her know.
I'm in love with two people and i don't know what to do. It's early stages for both but I can see a future with one more then the other. The one I don't see a future with is the one I see most often and I've had sex with him n i can't stop myself, I feel like I'm cheating. What should I do
I doubt it's love if these are the early stages. You like two guys you're seeing. Pick who you'd be more compatible with.
I wanna try using toys in the bedroom I haven't tried it before and I doubt he has. How do I bring this up too him and do you have any advice on using them
Ask him if he has ever experimented in the past & if he'd like to. Try rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation or a cock ring with rabbit ears. These are the baby steps.
My boyfriend says that my vagina smells I've done everything possible but it's my natural smell and I do not have any STI's etc what can I do
Go to the clinic. Could be bacterial vaginosis. Also make sure you're not using any shower gel products on your love below. Water strictly. Try eating fruits too.
My Child's Father Is a Motivational Speaker #samovation but doesn't check for his child lol he should not be allowed to make motivational videos it's wrong
You need to talk to him about it. I can't do anything about that I'm afraid.
When do I know if a guy is serious in marrying me
He usually proposes. No I'm being siily! Lol. He's serious if you talk about it together and it's been subject of convo several times. His attitude towards the relationship. I asked an old couple once & they explained things are harder to read for the younger generation, but one thing hasn't changed. 'When you know, you know'.
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