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contd. we were able to chat like normal and he would try to put his arm around me, or put his hand on my knee. He complimented me and referred to the time we'd been seeing each other, more than once. I'm so confused! Do you think he just does not know what he wants?

He's a confused guy, who needs to keep his hands and memories to himself. In all honesty I think he just wants to see if he can wiggle his way back in, especially if you were once physical.

Two months ago I was seeing a guy for a brief period. He told me that he was not ready for a relationship but that he'd like to remain friends because we got on well. I accepted that. This week he asked to hang out to catch up, after around six weeks of contact by text only. When we were together...

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...cont. I replied 'lol just wanted to say hi in a friendly way' .... What do you think of the situation and what advice would you be able to give me? Thanks for your time! X

There's no advice to give if I'm honest. He has a girlfriend so all you can do is move on.

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.. Cont. and so he picked up and was really blunt and I was like what's wrong you seem a bit off and then he was like can you call me in 15 minutes so I said ok. So before the 15 minutes was over I get a text from him saying 'sorry I have a girlfriend now!' And I replied

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Hey, so basically me and this guy are not seeing each other but whenever we meet up we do kiss (no other physical stuff takes place) and we did both like each other. So the other day I called him to say hi, you know in a friendly way.. Because the last time we spoke was end of August. And so...

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I like this guy, I want to sleep with him but I'm scared it's too early. I really want to be with him but I don't want to change myself cos of him

iking someone doesn't equal sex. Take your time, get to know this person. Sex isn't the GOAL! Lol and don't think you have to change yourself :-) x

I'm sleeping with this guy. I know I'm developing strong feelings for him. But he doesn't want a relationship. I know we have a lot of chemistry and get on well I'm just not sure if going with the flow has paid off?

If he's already said he doesn't want a relationship, chances are 'going with the flow' will not do anything but hurt you.

As a woman are you selling yourself short if your sleeping with the man you love but there's no guarantee you'll get a relationship ????

Not everything is guaranteed. I'd rather sleep with someone who I love over someone who means nothing. It depends on how you look at it and the scenario.

When you and another person both should be together but your not. But if you take it to the next level and start sleeping together does that mean your together or does there need to be a title???

Sleeping with someone doesn't mean you're in a relationship & as for 'next level' what do you mean? A title has to be agreed by both people.

So I met this guy, we started speaking for a while and then we slept together.. Things were okay after it but now it's getting weird. He still goes out of his way to message me but he takes days to reply and conversations are brief.. What does this mean? Should I say what's bothering me?

In my opinion he could either be really busy or simply not that invested or interested. I say talk to him & hear it from the horses mouth, how he answers and what he says will let you know what you need to do.

I have a bad habit of snooping...phone, Facebook,snapchat, insta. I have no sensible reason to i just have to do it. Do you think its okay for women to snoop??

If you go out of you way constantly it could be a slight problem, however if the opportunity is there, I wouldn't turn a blind eye. Feel me?

Yes standards for how you should be treated and generally to set the tone of the potential restrict of the relationship

You immediately set standards on how anyone treats you, by the way you carry and treat yourself. People, especially a lover will only mirror those action back at you.

How do you know you've fallen for the right person? I feel like I have an inability to decipher because my judgement is clouded

Only you know if you've fallen for the right person. I'd also say, the way they make you feel, even when they're not around, how you're treated, supported, and of course your judgement is clouded. That's what love does.

I want a relationship or at least I think I do. I think I am definitely bringing my daddy and mommy issues into every potential relationship and so they end up failing each time. It's so sad :,( seriously

Just because you want something doesn't mean you need it especially if that's the case, with your daddy issues. What if you get into a relationship with the wrong person??? Then what?

Where are good places to find a partner?

My mum always said church. I say the library, cute smart guys always hang in the library.

Cont. I feel like I should take time to focus on me and achieve my goals I'm almost 20 and when I start to like a guy I forget about me and focus on him. I'm now scared to get into any type of relationship and fear loneliness :( I've tried to changed but maybe not hard enough. Help!

Lol you're 19 and worrying over nothing. You're also doing what most girls at your age do. If you want to focus on yourself do that, the right person will come along when it's time and when I say 'right' I mean someone who you wont lose interest in easily. x

I've never been in a long term relationship and I'm starting to feel as if I'm the problem. I don't really know to change but it's now becoming a vicious cycle. I take breaks from dating guys but when that's over my affection craving self comes back and I end up getting hurt again. Help!!

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