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Really into a guy and every time I ask what he wants he doesn't give me a straight answer.. How do I approach this situation

If he doesnt give you a straight answer that should be enough for you to know what the deal is. Don't squeeze what you'd like to her & take it as a slight hint.

Hiya I sent a relationship dilemma to your email yesterday and still haven't received a response x

Crazy busy! It'll be answered soon x

How do I tell my FWB that it's just not working anymore and that I no longer want to sleep with him? I've tried before and he doesn't seem to be getting the message...

Have a conversation with him & let him know you don't think it's working out. Your FWB's so it shouldn't be too difficult. You can even do it via text.

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I really like this guy, he can give me what I want he's just so right !!! BUTTTT he has a little dick :'(((

Let it go lol

It's frustrating not knowing to tell one of my close friends that I have developed feelings for him. I got a mixed response from friends. I want to tell him, but scared of the rejection.

Being scared is natural & so is rejection. But i say you tell him!

This isn't related to relationships but I love your work ethic & the way you're consistent,keep up the hard work.what are your plans for Simply Oloni?

Thank you a lot! My plans for Simply Oloni is for it to be a bigger & developed version of itself today.

Is 17 a young age to have sex? My older cousin suggests I should wait till I'm atleast 18 or in uni

The legal age is 16 in the UK, but it's only too young if you think it is. As long as you're having sex when youre ready that's all that matters.

I think im a pretty and caring girl. But im still single. Guys say im stubborn because im not submissive and independent. Do i have to are what they say?

You don't submit to just any guy. However every guy & gal should has some form independence. I think you should date more, till you meet someone who noticed your kind heart.

I've got to a point where I'm done with the single life now, Ive had my fun and I'm ready for a relationship.. However I don't think guys are into relationships anymore.

Whivh guys? I know plenty who are looking for a relationship. Get yourself out there :-)

Yday sang the song creep by TLC on my snapchat and boyfriend went crazy and said I took him for a mug singing it on my snapchat. I love singing and I love that song I think he's overreacting. The lyrics are a little peak but it's a song how can I make him realise I didn't mean to make him feel a way

He's being so childish. What is he 12? Give him a couple of days & let him contact you. Then talk about it.
What is in a lyric? - Shakespeare

Reality is I'm not the buffest girl, I want a boyfriend but I don't really get attention, any advice?

I don't believe it. However there are several ways to make yourself look & FEEL beautiful. Never rely on your looks alone to get attention tho, because I'm sure even Beyonce's personality/success played a part in keeping a man for over 10 years.

do you believe in soul ties?

My opinion always changes on this. Sometimes I don't then I read something, that's like 'nah this shit must exist' lol its a weird one.

Hey oloni, I was talking this guy for quite a while, and I decided to hold out on sex just so we could get to know each other without clouded judgement. Got to know him, ended up really liking him and we eventually had sex, and it was awful, and I thought it would get better but it's getting worse

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I don't want to catch feelings for him this early . But I fall for guys to easily and quickly . For example , he told me your going to be my girl etc . Which makes me feel nice but I don't want to get my hopes up

Then don't get your hopes! Learn to take it slowly, just enjoy the moment & try not to listen to everything a guy says.

Hey oloni, it was the scenario where I held out on sex with a guy just to get to know him better and ended up really liking him. We eventually had sex and it was awful, second time was even worse. I decided that I can't spend the rest of my life with regardless of how much I like him. Am I wrong?

Nope. To some sex is a big deal. Do what you feel is right. Life is too short for bad sex. It's quite cheeky actually. However I do feel like if there was more of a connection you'd over look it, but there isnt.

It is so bad that I just can't imagine going my whole life dealing with it, is it bad that I am going to end things with him?

What scenario is this?

Just come out a relationship of 5 months . I've been speaking to a new guy for like a couple of days and we get along well , we're meeting up next week. If feel that's he's different from other guys I've been with .

That's a god thing.

To his boys but he hasn't actually declared his 'feeling' which I'm unsure if he has any. I don't know whether I should pursue this as I don't even know my own feelings towards him or just leave it as a 'we have occasional fun' type of guy?

TALK to him & only he can give you the answers. Find out how he feels about you both & if it could lead to somewhere, there's no harm love.

I'm talking this guy for a month I've been to his house twice. It's as if everytime I'm with him, I have this attraction to him and we connect but on a day to day basis we don't really talk as much and if so its very casual/friendly. He's cooked for me and all sorts and talked about introducing me

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It's the best thing to do, because I don't want to call and he's there with a new girl) I keep seeing his friends and we go say uni. But I mean me not talking to him is actually killing me, I miss him so much. What do I do

It's not killing you. You're stronger than that. Much stronger than that. Give it more time & chill!!

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