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(2) like he drops me off or he'll pay for transport. I asked Oloni this question as this was simply NEW to me and this relationship and the first time in almost 3 years. And btw i didnt forget my bnk card n stuff but id lost them somewer in london prior to me seeing him.

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(1)Hi Oloni, it being that I am also on twitter ive seen what a discussion my question has stemmed lool. I know some ppl say theres holes in the story. But...honestly ive been with this guy for almost 3 years and yh we have our relationship is exclusive! Normally he makes sure i get home ok...

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. Things are great but sometimes it can seem a bit repetitive. What can I do to make things more interesting? (Both sexually and non-sexually)

I answer this in my new ebook! 100 Questions! Out April 12th. A lot of relationships go through this.

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Not only were they just not related that he had feeling for her in the past and they tried to develop something but nothing came of it

Well it looks like the truth eventually came OUT! As it always does, there's nothing more to do other than keel it moving if youre not together.

I stopped talking to my bf of 1year because he wasn't treating me like one. He kept on talking to so many girls. The other day I met the girl that he kept calling his cousin to find out they are not actually related she said that they are just friends. What do you think I should do

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What do you do when your in a happy relationship but you feel like the person might be cheating just a gut feeling do you try find something on him or try to forget the feeling?

If you have no reason to assume so other than your gut, you have to honestly wait till something proves otherwise. However how can you be 'happy' in a relationship if you feel like he's being unfaithful?

If, your boyfriend doesn't proclaim your his when asked by someone on Twitter. Is that something to worry about ? Or is that petty

That's something you talk to him about. Ask why he denied the relationship.

My gf invited me to a meal with her male friend and her mum. I wasnt hungry but she insisted I come. We get there & they are all eating and Im not as I said I weren't hungry. The bill came and I refused to pay for all of them. The male friend paid & my gf said I wasnt manly. Am I wrong for not payin

Of course not, you never ATE! That's crazy.
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Ive just read your response to my question a few minutes ago about my boyfriend not dropping me off. I just want to say thank you for ur wise words. N i want god to bless you with the gift his placed within u nd he also bless your relationship nd may GROW WITH LOVE (err ok this is moist lol)

Haha thank you darling! I hope you & him get it sorted xx

(2) and my house is a 40 minute walk from the station. He knew i didnt have any cash or bank card on me. The only thing he did was top up my oyster. Ive told him how i felt but he just got angry and locked off the fne. What are ur views?? Is this a sure sign to end it ??

It was highly disrespectful for him to hang up. Disgusting actually, especially when you were talking about it. What you both did wrong was the not speak about how you'd get home before you left without your bank card & cash. Should he have dropped you instead of his friends? Damn right. He's supposed to protect you and make sure you get home safe, he could have topped up his friends oyster cards instead. That's very cheeky. I won't tell you to end it, but it's a red sign. If he has/continues to do crazy sh*t like this, then yes think about the future of this rship.
As for now, don't contact him. Let him call you. Allow him to think about it and you'll see he'll come around as he has NO right to be mad.

(1)I recently went out with my boyfriend, his family nd his friends. After when everyone was going home he asked me how im getting home. I said i dont know, then he said he wouldve taken me home but his car is full. Btw his car was full with his friends. Also i live just outside Ldn...

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After 10 months, my relationship has become stagnant and boring. he doesn't seem as interested anymore and I seem to be putting in all the effort. Is this normal or is it time to end it?

It's hard to say! Try talking to him about it & ask where he sees the relationship going. His answer will help base your decision.

Hi, i really need your help atm. If i was to email you NOW would you be able to respond today?? I know ur busyy but i could really use ur help.xx

I try to respond to people as soon as I can via email, but I am incredibly busy. It wont be today, but youre more than welcome to email me itsoloni@gmail.com x

It's me again. About my bf acting funny with me. I've tried to talk to him about it and get "I don't know why you're trying to start something, were good now" he never wants to talk about stuff and just brushes it under the carpet :/ E x

I have a similar situation in my new ebook #100Questions. It comes out April 12th! Make sure you get it, answers are there xx

i started dating this guy in September like bf and Gf and everything was going well til like February when he started being weird with me so we stopped talking for a bit and started talking again last month. But it's a lot more casual than it was b4. how do you suggest we move forward? E x

Talk to him about it & ask him what exactly happened. You can't MOVE anywhere without communicating.

I was seeing a guy for 2 years, on and off, we got together last year may, he left me in July and said he wasn't ready for a relationship, before the new year we were talking then he didn't reply what do I do I miss him so much

You have to leave him & give yourself the chance to meet someone who WANTS the same things as you. Are you not worth more than seeing someone on & off for a period of time? YES you are!! The right guy is out there for you.

I'm attracted to females boobs like sexually but not any other activities like being with a girl or kissing a girl what does this mean

It means what you said you described. Many women are like this also, don't ponder about it too deeply.

Every Guy I get with it seems like after a while it just dies down, like they lose interest and then it become that I like them more then I like them? I think it might be me that the problem but I don't know what I do

You have to carry on dating. Don't expect every guy you talk to, to be the one. It's one of those truths of kissing many frogs till you find your prince.

And he said he can't give me any. I like him, but for someone who hasn't staked their claim he's very concerned about other boys, should I walk away now before I like him more and it's harder or should I just be patient for the clarification as its only been 2/3 months (finished lol x)

Date a bit more I'd say 5 months in total but don't cutt off others just cus he says so. There's a chapter about this in my new ebook #100Questions coming out April 12th. Have a read on it there too.

We've had sex again, and although we go to uni very far from each other we try to see each other as often as possible. He gets annoyed with me raving/giving my number out etc but I see no wrong in it as he hasn't told me what he wants yet. I asked him for clarification on our direction (2)

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