Sorry for rushing you but what you reply to today is going to help me with my decision later!
Take your time when making decisions & give me two literal minutes.
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Lool! Gosh i love you guys.
Forget them lol we're ready!
Hahaha. Just a moment. Promise.
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Yassss were ready! Start answering please
Coming!! :-)
Thank you for the other time. The advice you gave helped God bless you :)
No problem love :-)
Hey gurllll, ask fms?
Way minitt
Can you please, if you're not busy, get to my que via e mail? (The long essay lol)
Hey love be patient :-) I will x
Hey oloni have you received my email
I have!
Christmas gift ideas for a boyfriend?
Some type of gadget. I'm horrible with gifts & just tend to ask.
I've been Seeing this guy for 5 and half month but we still haven't made it official I'm scared to ask, I'm afraid he's not ready I like he and wanna take it to the next step but what if he doesn't what the sane thing, what should I do?
You better ask before a 5 months turns to a year. Let him know what's on your mind. You lose nothing.
Hi just emailed u
I've seen it but it's going to have to wait till tomorrow morning as it's quite long.
Currently single?
Witchyo nosey asss.
When starting with a new guy, when it gets to a stage should you tell him that you've been hurt before so you want to take it slow/be careful? I'm talking about sex here.. Or as a lot of guys would do anything to hit the pussy take advantage of that? I'd it better for me to just hold out than let it
When starting with a 'new' guy & you're getting to that stage it's completely up to you. If you're seeing him in a romantic way (guessing you are) and you're worried he might take advantage then you shouldn't be sleeping with him. You should be able to trust someone with your emotions if you're about to lie naked with them.
Thank you soooo much! What you wrote nearly brought tears! I will definitely take what you said and start building upon it. It will be my phone wallpaper and everything! Thank you thank you thank you! When I do get to that stage of totally loving myself I will write back here with an update <33
Aww that means a lot sweetie. And yes, please do x
Cont.. Tips on how not to be taken advantage of? I know girls 'love' quicker than guys. I'm tempted to just go into that cold hearted phase but that won't help me, how exactly do I just heal lol.
You have to love carefully and always allow a guys actions to match his words. Look out for red flags cus that's what many women do which allows some to get taken advantage of.
Very cliche question but how can I love myself? Just got out of a situationship and I need some time to rebuild myself emotionally so I won't be taken advantage of again. Part of that includes loving myself but I'm not sure how to.. I thought I did already but it is evident now that I don't. Also..
Ooh I love this question since I'm such an advocate of 'loving yourself'.
Loving yourself can be done in multiple ways MULTIPLE. You have to set a price on yourself. Build up your worth. What do you want to do in life? Be in life? How do you want others to feel when they are in your presence? To love yourself you must be able to continuously add new things to your LIFE. What can't you do? What would you like to learn how to do? Spend each day focusing on new ways to increase your worth by educating yourself on things you didn't know before. Fall madly in love with yourself by spending time challenging yourself.
E.g let's pretend You're a lousy cook. Have fun teaching yourself how to.
Take up a hobby and spend time on yourself! So when you do meet a guy one day, he will recognise a woman who can cook, speak two languages (exaggerating but it's possible) can hold a conversation about Plato. Lol. Do you get what I mean? Girl i just wrote a blog here you better! Lol
Loving yourself can be done in multiple ways MULTIPLE. You have to set a price on yourself. Build up your worth. What do you want to do in life? Be in life? How do you want others to feel when they are in your presence? To love yourself you must be able to continuously add new things to your LIFE. What can't you do? What would you like to learn how to do? Spend each day focusing on new ways to increase your worth by educating yourself on things you didn't know before. Fall madly in love with yourself by spending time challenging yourself.
E.g let's pretend You're a lousy cook. Have fun teaching yourself how to.
Take up a hobby and spend time on yourself! So when you do meet a guy one day, he will recognise a woman who can cook, speak two languages (exaggerating but it's possible) can hold a conversation about Plato. Lol. Do you get what I mean? Girl i just wrote a blog here you better! Lol
Please check your e mail - I have a problem thanks
Okay! :-)
Yes, I need to know if it's alright or if I'm too wild or if I'm just overthinking. I want to know if all that is baggage
Do you think it's baggage? As long as you're being safe, that should be your only concern.
20, sex with 2 guys (seeing them), would you say that's a bit 'open your legish'... I've done stuff with one other guy but no sex. I've also had a misscarrage.. Do you think guys would consider that baggage? They scream they want a good girl so I guess I'm no longer in that criteria...
Every girl has some sort of story, different from another. However I don't get what you're asking. Do you want my opinion on your sex life?
How old are you
Younger than Beyonce but older than Willow Smith.
Do you think friends with benifits will ever become more than that and if you do how do you tell that person you want more ?
In some cases it does, but it's tricky. So if you're the emotional-cant-detach-your-vagina-from your feelings it is NOT for you. If you DO however develop feelings, then simply SAY. Just be prepared for the outcome.
You said the best way to get into a relationship is to meet new people, but how exactly? The worlds getting smaller, everyone's connected either friendship group or work so you're just around the same set of people. How do I get out there?
That is a damn lie. Go to new places such as a different social scene, completelyyyyy new social scene. People assume that just because you have a mutual follower on Twitter or Instagram the world suddenly got smaller. These people do not KNOW each other. Get out there.
I dealt with a guy & he did a very horrible thing to me. It was a complete abuse of trust sexually and emotionally. It lowered my self-esteem & affected my ability to focus on uni/ life in general. He hasn't apologised and seems to have moved on. I'm still heartbroken. Any tips on moving forward? x
Find new ways to build up your self esteem! Love yourself and don't get into a relationship till you find someone who can love you the same.
Some counselling might be good also. Sexual and emotional abuse is something you need to talk to with someone who is a professional.
Some counselling might be good also. Sexual and emotional abuse is something you need to talk to with someone who is a professional.
I'm a Black girl and I've never dated/had sex with a Black guy, I've only ever dated white boys. At first I thought it was just because of my environment (only Black girl in school & neighbourhood) but now I think there's something wrong with me.
Of course not, you like what you like silly! It's how you grew up and what you've been surrounded with. As long as you're with a great guy, colour shouldn't matter.
My guy ended the 'relationship', cut me off from every source of contact possible except one. I have some of his stuff, should I contact him to give it back? For a fresh start? Or just enjoy the free stuff lol
Lol it's up to you!
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