should I leave him alone or is this minor as he's not my man? I know he flirts with other girls but he's not mine
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There's this man, me and him have been talking for one week, however everything was good I like him abit but think he entertains other girls, I asked him are you talking to anyone else he said no! But I've been reading flirting on his twitter. What do I do I like him but before I get hurt
Remember you're not exclusive, however if it does bother you that much and you're afraid about getting hurt? Stop looking. You can't start having doubt over something you're not IN. If you've had a talk about the future of your relationship then fine, but you haven't.
So I like this guy, and recently he's told me he likes me to. He's very shy, so I'm almost definite he won't say anything else unless I initiate it. Where do I go from here? Ultimately I want a relationship with him
One step at a time, why don't you ask him out on a date first?
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This guy I used to see doesn't want to let me go I try and leave but he talks it out and changes my mind. It's hard cos I want him and his body language says he cares but he never puts in effort, ever. Am I just being dumb to stay?
You're being naive to stay if it takes a few words to change your mind when as you explained, 'he never puts any effort'.
When do you think it's ok to ask the person your dating/talking to questions about their actions? For example why they retweeted something or their previous relationship?
Asking about what they 'tweeted/shared' & asking about a last relationship are two different things. You can ask about his love life in the past whenever you're comfortable, but to ask about social media to me seems very tacky unless he's clearly being disrespectful.
Thank you for answering my question regarding the guy I was seeing who had a girlfriend. I do believe walking away is the right choice although my friends are telling my to let the girl know. I think this will just bring unnecessary drama as I don't know if she will just turn on my instead.
No problem & stay out of it you don't have to say anything.
I just want answers as to why a guy will lie that he has a gf and string me along. I never ever get the satisfaction of that and I think that what makes me so bitter because it like I don't get over it. How can I avoid feeling like this
Hey love, sorry to hear about your situation. It's sad you used 6 months to get to know someone, whilst they were living a life of lies whilst stringing you along.
I would recommend you walk away & not waste anymore time. He has nothing to explain. What excuse can come out 'I have a girlfriend'?
I know you're hurt & believe me when I say with time you will be able to move past it.
I would recommend you walk away & not waste anymore time. He has nothing to explain. What excuse can come out 'I have a girlfriend'?
I know you're hurt & believe me when I say with time you will be able to move past it.
4. But he just read it. I don't know what to do now, I know after his girl leaves he going to call me,do I hang on until then and ask him why or should I send him a long text letting him know that I know l. I'm so bitter right now you don't even understand. I can't even do anything without thinking
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3. He heard my voice he cut the phone. I believe the reason he did this is because he with his girl. At the moment I believe he is with her that's why he's not picking up my calls he just keeps reply back to my texts. It's really frustrating as I need answers. I asked to meet up with him
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2. So I started preeing. I'm not on to pree too much and I went on my girls account and followed him on Instagram. To find out that he had a girl for 2 years and he has 2 kids. I really don't know what to do at the moment. I called him just to see if I could meet up with him but as soon as
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1. I'm really frustrated at the moment and I was wondering if you could help. I've been seeing some guy now for 6 months for the past week he hasn't called and text. He lied and said that he didn't have Instagram or Twitter. My heart was telling my something is wrong..
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My ex and I broke up on mutual terms, but he keeps doing things to get my attention, as if he was almost bitter. I don't understand why. I'm trying to be the bigger person and not react but it's hard
How does he do things to get your attention??
Hey oloni.. Love your blogs! I recently have been talking to this guy and I'm starting to have interest in him, but I had sex with him on the first meet up.. I'm worried that he might not see me as anything more, and I don't know what to do.. I regret it..how do I show him im not just a fuck?
Sleeping on the first date is a funny one to some guys. Not ALL just some, but if it bothers you that much talk to him about. Don't use the 'I don't usually do this' line, but state how you feel about the situation.
The truth is sometimes it doesn't matter when you sleep with a guy, first or fifth month, how he feels about you will eventually show.
The truth is sometimes it doesn't matter when you sleep with a guy, first or fifth month, how he feels about you will eventually show.
Hey oloni thank you for answering my question regarding falling go my boyfriends friend. I hear what you all have said and it's true I need to forget it but my boyfriend wants us all to hang out more how should I avoid this? As I need to suppress my feelings and seeing him regularly won't help!!!
This is a tough one, but I feel like you need to be honest if your feelings are this strong.
I'm trying to maintain a friendship with a guy I had a one night stand with? Do you believe this is possible? His communication isn't great but I would like to stay in touch with him :-(
If it's friendship you're deff after let it happen organically. If his communicates terribly sadly there's nothing you can do about it unless you havent spoken about it.
Hey oloni I feel like you're my hero! Love this ask fm no need for silly advice from my clueless friends. I recently met my boyfriend's friend and honestly I feel for him his demenure and confidence and character is better suited to me. What should I do? I still like my boyfriend
Thank you dear! I'm going to make this a #QOTD. But in all honesty his friend is really a no go area. Even if you break up today & if last for 5 years. Taking interest in his friend is not a good decision.
2) ..word replies, or you can't simply tell that he doesn't want to talk to me. I brought up the situation w/ him and he said that he does care about me and he is intrested in me, but ever since then I don't feel as if anything has changed. What do I do? Should I just leave him or not?
His words & actions aren't matching and when they don't.. You know what to do.
1) I don't feel like the guy I'm talking to is intrested in me anymore. When we first started talking, he was so sweet & cute. We'd see each other everyday, he would make so much effort. But now, it's different. If I message him it would take him hours/days to reply & when we do talk he gives one...
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Signs a guy likes you..........
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my bf still talks to and is good friends with the girl he left to be with ME. Am i overreacting for thinking this is not okay?
If he left her to be with you, I'm not totally surprised. However you should still tell him how you feel.
I'm still in love with my ex, but he's seeing someone new. I know I have to let go and move on but it's difficult. Any advice?
Hey love! Moving on from an ex is never easy. This is a popular question I get, so read more about it in my new ebook coming out on Sunday titled 100 Questions.
My guy best friend has stopped talking to me - I think he's new girlfriend is the reason we've been friends since we were 13 I never get involved in his relationships so why would he just behave like this
Speak to him about it & ask.
He has been acting a VERY weird lately as well like not returning my calls etc, do you think I should act calm until I see him face to face or ask him as soon as he calls me next (this to do with the fraud guy lol)
Wait to see him face to face & question it.
Advice on dating a guy which you find out he has had and still has a long term girlfriend? Do you confront him or just leave it? He doesn't know that I know yet. He made me feel like the main but I was actually the side I feel so stupid he won't even pick up my calls.
If he's not picking up your calls it's because he knows & can't be bothered to face you after it. There isn't much to confront all he'll do is lie, especially if he's avoiding you already. Be glad you found out the truth.
I want to have sex with my ex just one more time and move on. Like long, romantic, steamy, passionate and angry sex. I really love him and just want it one more time before I move on. Do you think this is a bad idea? Tbh he doesn't deserve it as he doesn't respect me. But I'm really horny and aching
Sex like what you just described is never pre-planned. It just happens. Anyone who has had this type of sex will say the same thing. However i don't think it's a good idea, sex with an ex is never a good idea. It just makes things complicated.
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