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بناتي وولادي في مدارس راهبات/رهبان كاتوليكية.وقت ما ألحقتهم كنت بدماغ تانية و دلوقتي ندمانة وعايزة أحولهم مدارس إسلامية بحثًا عن الصحبة الصالحة في المقام الأول عشان دي مش متوفرة لا في الأهل ولا الأصدقاء.،هل دي خطوة صح علمًا ان في مصر للأسف المدارس الاسلامية مستواها مش قوي وايه المدارس المقترحة؟

اجمالا، الصحبة الصالحة موجودة في كل المدارس، لكنها في المدارس التي يذهب لها البسطاء والعوام اكثر من غيرها، وفي مدارس الاغنياء - سواء اسلامية او رهبان، كوارث وطوام.
حضرتك سددي وقاربي، الحل ليس في نقله لمدرسة اسلامية، والغالبية العظمى من المنقولين لمدارس اسلامية يحصل لهم انتكاس شديد، بسبب كره التغيير او المدرسة او الرفقة الجديدة ثم نسبته للإسلام.

Salam mawlana Would you suggest catholic or public school for children? You opinion matters to me :)

In Ontario you have many options beyond that: You have Public, Public Alternative, Public French, Catholic, French Catholic, Montessori, Waldorf, French Waldorf, a variety of Islamic schools, IB schools, homeschooling networks (e.g. forest education, north star education, self directed education) and homeschooling.
Factors in decision: distance, fees, teaching methods, facilities (age of building, size, technology integration, level of indoor and outdoor recreational space), schedule (how much recess time, class length, day start and end) , level of discipline of students, reputation, parental engagement, standardised testing results, quality, experience and tenure of teachers, and for a Muslim child - accommodation for religious needs.
Assuming distance and fees don't matter to you, the answer depends on how you prioritise the remaining criteria. Islamic schools are far behind in most of these criteria, their strength usually is in how well they score in standardised testing, and extra religious accommodations for daily prayers and fasting are made. Public schools come average all these criteria. Catholic are known for acing almost all of these, but they have less religious accommodation for Muslims than public (they still allow students to pray and some even have Islamic prayer space for jumua). Alternative and homeschooling spectrum gives highest level of parental engagement, some allow you to co-teach, if you want to take a stronger part in the education of your child.
Best thing is to go sit with principles and see for yourself.

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Assalam O Alaykum brother Majed. Can you advise how often wet cupping can be done on an ill person?

I don't know a minimum in Fiqh. There are tens of fabricated hadeeths in cupping, but among the few plausible ones is that the companions used to perform cupping either the 17th, 19th or 21st of the Hijri month, which implies that a person would do it once in a lunar month.
Whether this can be repeated every month or not, I don't know.

MSA at ottawaU has one of the worst vp sisters in its history two times in a row.

and by saying this you feel better about yourself now? This is your reform?
Don't you see how easy it is for a monkey to dangle from a tree and mock the farmers.
Learn how to grow maturity in your criticisms.
1. Does MSA VPs Suck? what is the performance indicator?
2. Why do they fall below your expected standard of service? Are they working hard towards something you don't appreciate? Maybe your performance indicator is biased? review and go back to 1.
3. What could they do better?
4. Did you contact them privately to tell them what you think is wrong?
5. Can you guarantee that you can be a better candidate? Save your ideas and run for next year.
6. Are you not good enough to run? Set your goal to improve them not ridicule them.
7. You're good enough but can't/not eligible to run? Write a plan (e.g. open letter) with criteria and selection process to improve how any MSA can better choose its VPs. Give it to the presidential candidates of next year.
8. Can't do any of the above? make duaa for Allah to make them better than your expectations.

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if someone sends me a message saying salam and I really don't feel like replying/talking, would it be sinful to ignore?

You don't have to write back immediately, but you shouldn't delay more than three days in response, unless for a serious necessity. However do send the salaam back immediately, albeit in the form of duaa (verbally, not necessarily in writing) so your heart doesn't harden against your brethren.

Asalaam ou3alaikum brother Majed, may Allah guide you to His light. If my mother accidentally walked in front of me while i was praying a fard prayer (Asr), is my prayer nullified ? What should I do?

The Prophet instructed to block anyone and anything passing right in front of you if you're praying alone or if you're the imam. If it's a person = you may use your hand to stop them. If it's an animal you may step ahead until there's no gap between you and the barrier in front of you.
Having said that, nothing passing in front of you nullifies prayer except pitch black dogs.

can you please explain about watching movies in cinemas..I mean the hukum..it is haram or what? i still confius about this😯 I hope you can help me..tq🙌

Essentially no difference than watching it at home. If you have 2-3 hours of free time, have no intention to benefit someone, or yourself, or leave a legacy, or make anything useful, then why not? 😃
I'm just teasing you, Ibn alqayyim rahimahullah says: Every soul needs a slight amount of falsehood (e.g. permissible waste of time) for it to stay holding to the truth.
I myself have been going to the cinemas steadily, like once every 5-6 years lol, mainly to keep up with the screening technologies lol. I watched zootopia at Ottawa Family Theatre last month, before that I watched Avatar in 2011. Before that, V for Vendetta in 2005. 😎

Since you are wellknown in Ottawa and really close to the youth, I was wondering how come you're not part of the boards in the masajid? Is it a time question? I fear the youth are neglected and that all of the talk we hear about having them involved is kinda fruitless. Frgive my curiosity please

I'm neither well known nor close to the youth in Ottawa. Even if I were, mosques in their current configuration and mentality are not organisations for supporting youth.
However, I have served as youth coordinator in three of the largest ten mosques in Ottawa, and sat on their board meetings, albeit without a vote. I was told by board members not to try and make new programs for the youth within these organisations, because they'll harm themselves, the youth and myself. Instead, I was advised to start something separate "and let the organisations die out with this generation, because the amount of problems in them is beyond reparable". I was told this explicitly by words from one chairman of a mosque board once, by actions of the rest.
There's no ill intent of course, they're doing more they can handle already, beyond their capacity and skillet. but almost all boards are run by first generation immigrants who are using the mosque into their nostalgic club of how things worked back home. We don't have any established Muslim organisation that is run in the mentality that this is for serving Muslim Canadian community/youth.

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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته لو سمحت ممكن نصيحة وتحفيز يخلينى آطلب العلم واخليها قدامى دايما أتمنى أطلب العلم و منعتنى ذنوبى ووجود رؤية وبوصله إضافة انى مغترب أغلب وقتى شغل واتمنى فعلا اتعلم وانفع نفسى وغيرى

وعليك السلام.
اجعل همك هما واحدا هو الاخرة، لا تشغل نفسك بشيء دونه.

Asalam alaykum, so it's completely permissible for a man to do oral sex on his spouse without a barrier in between? Sorry about it being crude but I was wondering; I heard the 4 madahaaib allow it but I always hear contempories discourage it. Respond in your own time in sha Allah

Yes. Everything is permissible between a husband and wife, and they get rewarded for it, as long as they avoid intercourse during mensuration, and anal.
The Prophet said: Don't you see that if this was done in a haram relationship they would be sinful? Similarly if they do it in halal (i.e. marriage) they get rewarded.

نصيحة محب كمحفز لطلب العلم

إني أحوج منك لها، وفاقد الشيء لا يعطيه.

هم ممن أيدوا السيسي و فوضوه ولا يتخلفون عنه قط ويفرحون بأذية المسلمين و هو يعلم ذلك، و هو اخ طيب و ملتزم و لكنه لا يحب أن يُكَّون أعداء و هم زملاء عمل مفروضون علينا .. نصحته أن تقتصر علاقته بهم علي العمل فقط و ذكرت له تلميحاً الولاء و البراء فلم يتغير مما جعل في نفسي شئ منه .. هل ادعه و ما هو واجبي؟

مجرم. يأتي يوم القيامة وفي رقبته دم كل من رضي بقتله. القاتل ومن رضي بقتله لهما نفس الجزاء.
مثل هؤلاء نتعبد إلى الله ببغضهم.
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Can a person who is a practicing muslim who loves Allah and Islam still be a sociopath (since its an illness)? A practicing brother proposed to me however he does have many characteristics of a sociopath.

Sure, don't accept unless you know how to deal with one.

is it allowed to use emojis? because we are making faces (eyes etc) in order to use them. though our intentions are to express our emotions..?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
However, I dislike the use of emojis in a mixed gender interaction, especially by the sisters. One innocent wink from a niqabi sister could be understood as a marriage proposal by these young brothers. I don't think it's befitting for believer men and women express emotions like these in public, or in groups of mixed gender. 😍😘😙😉😝😂
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شيخنا انا أخرج مع جماعة التبليغ والدعوة هل هناك إثم على ذلك

لا إثم، سلملي عليهم.
خرجت معهم في دول عديدة، ووجدت أكثر مما يتحدثون به أثناء الخروج خارج حلقات الوعظ = لغو يضر ولا ينفع. فاستفد من خيرهم وتجنب اللغو خصوصا في الاوقات المباركة بعد الفجر الى الشروق وبعد العصر الى المغرب. تفرغ للعبادة، وخذ معك كتابا نافعا وأنهه في خروجك، وادع لي.

هل الإصرار على معصيه او كبيره مع كراهتها وعدم التوبة منها يعتبر كفر؟

لا.
وعدم التوبة يودي قريبا بزوال الكراهة وموت القلب، لأن النفس تعتاد ما تفعل. فسارع إلى التوبة واجبر ذهنك وبدنك على الفرار من مقدمات تلك المعصية كلما لاحت. وسينطبع قلبك على بغضها وتركها تباعا.
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http://ask.fm/mustafaelmasry/answers/136409340217 شيخنا لو مش عايز ترد قولي او رد و وجهني ارجوك الموضوع مهم بالنسبالي

اخي الحبيب الموضوع ليس نزوة، ويحتاج صبرا طويلا، لأنك إذا كنت تخرج الناس من حريق، فاستعجالك سيهلكهم، وإخراجهم بتأنّ سيحرقك ولا بد.
تبدأ بتعلم العلم الشرعي حتى تكمل أساسيات الطلب، ثم تتخصص بدراسة عقيدة المسلمين والملل الأخرى وخصوصا النصرانية، ثم تتعلم الحوار والخطابة واساليب الاقناع. وتقرأ أثناء هذا كله ما يزيدك من الرحمة والشفقة لهم، مثل مظاهر الضلال المؤسف الذي وصلوه، وكم البذل الذي يبذلوه للوصول لما تعلمته وانت طفل صغير.
طبعا هذا بفرض اساسي ان من طبعك مساعدة الناس بدل الحكم عليهم، وأنك اجتماعي وتحب مجالسة الآخرين، وأنك تحسن الإنصات دون المقاطعة. وإلا فتغيير الطباع من أصعب المسائل.

أخ لي أحبه في الله و لكنه يخالط الظلمة و يسعد بهم بما يضيق له صدري و لمحت له بوجوب معاداة هؤلاء لكن لم ينته مما جعل في نفسي منه شيئ ماذا افعل معه؟ و هل آخذ منه موقف؟

يستحيل.
إما حبك له لغرض دنيوي أو فطري،
أو أن الذين يخالطهم ليسوا ظلمة.

هل المني نجس في المذهب

لا مني الرجل ولا المرأة لأن منه يُخلق الطفل. أما المذي فنجس عند الرجال طاهر عند النساء.

كيف نقرر أن خلافا ما سائغ أو غير سائغ؟

إسأل عالما تثق به، مسألة السواغ مسألة دقيقة جدا، لا يتعرض لدراستها إلا طالب العلم المتقدم، ولا أعلم إلا القليل منها.
بصورة عامة جدا: السائغ يكون له أصل من كلام السلف، واستند على دليل من الكتاب او السنة او الاجماع او القياس الجلي.
وغير السائغ: لا يكون له أي من هذا.
والاستثناءات موجودة.

أريد أن أهتدي و لا أدري أين أبدأ، علما بأني غارق في المعاصي و أريد العودة إلى الطريق المستقيم فأين أبدأ و ماذا أفعل

الطهارة الكاملة، وإقامة الصلوات الخمسة
ثم الإنعزال عن البيئة السلبية والصحبة السيئة
وقراءة القرآن وتفسير بسيط له كالتفسير الميسر
والبحث عن بيئة مؤمنة وصحبة صالحة تحيط نفسك بها أغلب وقتك

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