@thekhayalan

Anna Khayalan

Ask @thekhayalan

Sort by:

LatestTop

Previous

Assalamualaikum kak anna. kak, can you give some tips on how to be brave and confident to give speech or oral or watevs in front of other people? I'm so scared bcs the oral week is coming very very soon. I don't want my oral marks mencacatkan my language grades. please help me? thanks :)

Waalaikumussalam. First of all, always be positive. A positive mind leads to positive action. Oral dalam kelas je kan? I'm sure you're comfortable with the audience since they're just your classmates. Bila you're in front, pandang dinding belakang. Jangan tengok diorang, you'll be more nervous. Overcome your fear bila dekat depan, just try to act like you're so confident and brave. Suara biar lantang, kuat but make sure its very gentle to show that you're calm. Jangan freak out, just relax and be calm. You'll be fine. All the best! :)

Thanks a lot akk anna, i am who is travel at korea but make mistakes in friendship, you help me, i should move on, you are great woman, !!!

All the best, love. I'm glad I helped! :)

Kak anna ramai orang cakap saya gedik sebab saya lebih cakap dengan lelaki dari perempuan. Then bila saya lalu depan kelas orang mesti ada je suara2 sumbang. Perlu ke saya bersuara or senyap je. Tapi kalau saya senyap je mesti diorang ingat saya lemah.

Nabi cakap, 'orang yang diam itu selamat'. Tak kisah orang nak cakap awak lemah ke apa, awak tahu diri awak. Lawan won't give you any benefit. Diam sentiasa lebih baik daripada berkata kata, keep that in mind. :)
Liked by: Shyikin Azman

Related users

Anna, i am seriously buntu tak tahu nak pilih course apa for ipta. seriously :( i still can't discover what i do really like :(((((( BUNTUUUUUU. nak nangis T_T

Why don't you google for some universities and check out their courses, mana tahu ada yang menarik? Subjek apa yang awak suka ya? What's your passion? I can suggest you some cool courses based on that kot. I'll try to check a few for you. :)

Hi kak.I'm in form 4.I'm going to boarding school soon.It's a girls' school.My friend told me yang budak budak sana semua kaya.I'm scared if they are sombong and bossy.I'm scared I can't adapt to the surrounding and environment.I can't tell my parents since they are happy I get into that school. :(

Hi, why don't you be positive dik? BE POSITIVE is the key to success! Kalau your friend cakap diorang tak makan nasi pun, you want to buy that too? Come on, awak tak jejak kaki pun lagi dekat that school. Who knows they are as nice as ever? Don't judge someone based on what they have, what they wear, what they eat, how rich they are. Just be positive. Boarding school is such a big opportunity for you. You will be fine. You'll make a lot of new friends! At first memang susah nak adapt dengan new environment, it takes time but as I said, you will be fine. Just be positive okay?!! Congratulations & all the best!! :)

How do you get so many followers anyways? Are you a youtuber by any chance?

No, I am not a youtuber & I have no idea, its a question that I can't answer. Haha I'm sorry if I'm not being helpful!

.... what should I do? Kak Anna please help me :'( I dont know what to do.

Well that would be a good idea untuk settlekan your problems face to face dengan your friend.
You know saya pun selalu kena benda sama sebab most of my friends are guys. Since my siblings semuanya lelaki, I get along with guys so well and they find it comfortable to be friends with me. But berkawan sentiasa ada limit, tak kisah lah dia ada girlfriend nor not. Saya pun pernah kena serang, my friend's girlfriend texted me saying things sebab this friend of mine selalu text saya then cakap "aku sayang kau" blabla but I never replied to those kind of texts because its inappropriate. Sebab like I said, berkawan ada limit. A lot of times! Macam if you have a bestfriend guy yang memang awak rapat dengan dia, selalu contact and all. You guys kena honest with each other lah. Macam, ambil tahu hal dia. Kalau dia ada girlfriend, kenal lah dengan girlfriend dia. Get along. So bila you know his girlfriend, it wouldnt be that much of problem untuk stay friends with him. Girls are jealous, they get insecure bila someone approaches their loved ones. Gain their trust by being friends with them, as easy as that and just claim yang "we're just friends, nothing more." Get what I mean? And don't get too attached. People akan ada syak. That's how the word 'scandal' are being labeled; when you get too attached with someone. Keep yourself low and protect your pride as woman. Know the limit & boundaries. This is not a big problem, benda ni kecil je. Tapi perasaan awak yang buatkan benda remeh macam ni jadi benda besar. Just be calm. Don't be sad over stupid things. :)

View more

... and saya rasa down gila. saya rasa macam sy ni bwk nasib malang. Yelah, asal nk berkawan je, mesti kena tuduh macam2. Perampas lah semua. Saya rasa macam nak ptus kawan je! Lagi senang! aman kut hidup saya. Esok, kwn sy (lelaki) nk jmpa saya nk settlekan masalah. Saya tktau nak buat apa :(...

-

....... sy tktau macam mana nk buat. Saya rasa macam nak putus kawan je Kak Anna! Sebelum dia (lelaki yang sekarang) , saya pun terima nasib yg sama jugak. Kena attack jugak dgn awek membe sy lg sorng tu satu sekolah dgn saya. perempuan tu bwk cerita buruk pasl sy dekat smua kawan ddia....

-

.... and now, sy macam haih entahlah. nak kata marah tu takdelah tapi ish tktaulah. Kalau dia ada gf, kenpa tkbg tau syaa? At least, sy tkdelah kerap reply tweet or Dm dia. And now, sy n kwn sy (lelaki) tngah gaduh. Teruk sngat......

-

saya tengah bergaduh dgn kawan sy hnya sebab awek dia. Kak anna tau tak? ptg td, sblum sy pergi tuisyen awek dia call saya. awek dia marah2 saya kata sy ni takgunalah... bajet lawalah.. yg pling sy tktahan. dia kata saya perampas. Kak Anna! Im so sad.. bf perempuan yg maki sy tu kawan sy....

-

Macam mana Anna beli online. I mean kalau stuff dari oversea macam mana nak bank in? Dia kan guna duit dollar.

Biasanya my brother yang uruskan. :)

Continue -apa patut saya buat?

One thing I always tell you guys. People change, relationships break. That is life, that's the flow of life. Wanting a relationship to stay for a long period is not easy because feelings change. We may be bestfriends today but we could be enemies tomorrow. It happened to me and I'm sure it happens to everyone else too maybe in different ways. Let go, forgive. If you can't do anything else to fix it, move on. If she can't accept you anymore, move on. Don't hold on on something that's already broken, you're hurting yourself. But if you really want to fix it then why don't you go see her and talk to her about it. Settle those things that have been bothering your friendship these few years. If not, like I said. Let go. Live a positive life, friends are around you. You will find a new bestfriend soon. Doa. Be positive! :)

View more

Liked by: Amal Hayati

Continue-sejak saya balik korea, dia mcm tak ckp dgn saya, tak layan saya, mcm saya ni pokok je kat da tapi dia byk mesej dengan saya, saya tanya kenapa dia layan mcm tu, dia marah, sekarang ni saya form 3, dia lansung tak layan, saya rasa kecil hati sgt, rasa nak menangis je kat situ, apa y

-

Hi, akk anna, sorry menganggu, saya ada kawan baik yg sampai sekarang kekal lagi,syukurlah tapinada seorang kawan saya ni dah tak baik dengan saya, masa saya form 2 saya pergi melancong ke korea, balik korea, dia pulaukan saya, saya terasa sangat sebab dia asyik berkepit dgn kwn baru, continue

-

I cant solat. Hm i need a listener :(

He's The Best Listener among all. It doesn't mean you have to be able to solat to seek for him. Doa, zikir. It gives you peace. But if you want to talk, I'm all ears. :)
Liked by: MISS SEXOBEAT

Next

Language: English