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does your mum go into your room? my mum does and puts away clothes, does my bed randomly and stuff like that just because she wants to snoop around and im like reaaaallllly? how can i get her to stop and respect my privacy? xxxxx

No because if anyone ever goes in my room without permission I kick off haha. I'm a bit of a diva.. Just tell her that it makes you feel like she doesn't trust you and that although you're growing up you still feel like you can talk to her etc etc, mums do that because they feel like their little girls are growing up and leaving them behind xxxx

how can I attract the right sort of man? I seem to just attract guys who want casual flings? :/ x

I get this question from so many girls, most of whom aren't what I would consider 'classy'. If you're going to clubs looking for love or acting generally promiscuous then you're not gonna attract a gentleman. Sounds harsh, but it's true. On the other hand, if you actually are ladylike and you're still picking up morons then it sounds like you're just not looking hard enough. Usually the guys that would treat you like a princess are the ones you've friendzoned x

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I asked for your advice about quitting sixth form and my parents told me to write a list of pros and cons I did that but now they say I have to stay on and won't let me quit. I'm so unhappy there. I hate the people, I don't get the work. I really don't want to be there what do I do?

Your happiness is all that matters. Hopefully your parents will realise this and let you leave (not sure if you sent this twice yesterday haha)

why are people so quick to judge without getting to know you? this is why I hate people

To be fair we all judge one another, some are just more vocal about their opinions than others

I feel better I'm not the only 1 who is/was in this situation :))

I was exactly the same! It's good to know you're not alone :)

I've been referred but I'm on a waiting list sorry I should have told you that. I know, it's always been about money with them but I only get told negatives about quitting from them it's really bias so I only ever hear 1 side of the argument. What do you do now if you don't mind me asking?

Ahh okay, they will definitely help you, my therapist has helped me! I can understand why you should go to sixth form but I always say that if you're unhappy doing something, stop. I didn't realise that until I myself left sixth form. During the week I clean the house and do general housework to earn money from my parents and then on a Saturday I work in a hairdressers. Although I get very little money I'm able to live one of my dreams, and that's having my own beauty and fashion blog :) I'm so much happier now that I'm not at sixth form, even if I'm poor haha!

I've been referred to a councillor but my parents want me to stay at sixth form because they get paid because I'm still in education and if I quit they won't get the money so they said sixth form or a job. I don't have any other options. Sixth form soul destroying and I hate it. Thanks btw :))

If you're seeing a councillor surely they're helping you manage sixth form? Don't mean to be harsh but that is seriously selfish. Choosing money over your own child's happiness? Wow. I know it is, that's why I left! It's okay, I just hope your parents see sense :(

The problem is I can't really get a full time job because I have really bad anxiety but my parents don't seem to care and my only option is to stay at sixth form but I really hate it. what do I do?

I have social anxiety disorder...you sound like you have the same too :/ talk to your parents and say that you think you may have an anxiety disorder and go to the doctors for a referral to a therapist. If you get diagnosed with an anxiety disorder your therapist will help you to manage your anxiety, and you may end up actually enjoying sixth form! Please go get checked out, I left it really late, making it so much harder to get better. Try and explain to your parents again how you're feeling, because you need to remember that your happiness is paramount.

You even watching? -,-

No sowweee, I'm trying to go to bed for 10 now so I'll be watching it in like half an hour haha

You have to give me credit. I'm so over Ben. What the actual fuck was I thinking? Ewww lmao

You move on so fast what the hell

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